Lol .... it is not that bad .. now a days arranged marriage is just like being set up for a date by your parents rather than your friends.... so chill ....
I think I agree with Jahndaji ... koi vi way hove .. assi taan ik bakra labna aa
I m not kidding.. Love marriage are more of trouble, so much trouble
Think this way - So what ever suffering you (as a guy or girl) will have after your married life. You start to worry about them right now.
Very small exampleExample 1
- If you and a girl are friend and girl ask you to help in her resume - You have a choice of yes or no. But if that girl is your girlfriend, you dont have a choice and she won't ask for "help" in a resume .. It will more be of a order - "do my resume", even when you have a final to write the next day... example 2
- I have a buddy and he has a gf but they dont own a car as both are undergrads. When ever the girl has to go to work .. The guy accompany her in the bus for back and forth; and each side is like 30-45 mins bus ride.... I look at them and like seriously that is causing urself trouble at the age you dont want example 3
- if your gf flats a tyre on the highway, you are the first one to get a call and make sure you get it fixed it early or you in trouble
... Now these things should be after marriage.. why you kids wanna suffer now with love relationship
.....and the list goes on
So basically if you are in going into love marriage let say 5 years from now. Your suffering already started 5 years ahead,
Well good about love marriage - ya may be you found someone of your choice (so a one young kid choosing); but if you get into arrange 20 people will find you someone who match perfect for you - Now you be the judge
second good - Ya you dont feel lonely and stuff.. But the company comes with a big price..