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Love marriage v/s arranged marriage
« on: December 21, 2010, 04:45:13 AM »
It is funny to discuss about love marriage v/s arranged.
It is like asking some1 if the suicide is better or being murdered.
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Love marriage v/s arranged marriage
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Re: Love marriage v/s arranged marriage
« Reply #1 on: December 21, 2010, 05:41:31 AM »
I don't understand how a few pj members are ok with arrange marriage.  :wait:

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Re: Love marriage v/s arranged marriage
« Reply #2 on: December 21, 2010, 06:53:57 AM »
 :angry: plz nt again :shutup:

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Re: Love marriage v/s arranged marriage
« Reply #3 on: December 21, 2010, 11:55:20 AM »
Bai chahhe arrange kar la..Chahhe Love.. "Behle da bakra" teh tu (munde) ne he banna aa..

- So balle de bakre nu chahe chatka lavo chahhe halal karo.. gal teh ekko aa :hehe: :hehe:

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Re: Love marriage v/s arranged marriage
« Reply #4 on: December 21, 2010, 12:40:06 PM »
I don't understand how a few pj members are ok with arrange marriage.  :wait:

Lol .... it is not that bad .. now a days arranged marriage is just like being set up for a date by your parents rather than your friends....  so chill ....

I think I agree with Jahndaji ... koi vi way hove .. assi taan ik bakra labna aa :hehe:

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Re: Love marriage v/s arranged marriage
« Reply #5 on: December 21, 2010, 12:52:39 PM »
Oh yaro, mere Ma Peo di arranged marriage ci. Mein kehna changa hoia, nai tan Peo sada shada reh jana ci te sade verge Rab di dhuni vich turian firna ci. :hehe:

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Re: Love marriage v/s arranged marriage
« Reply #6 on: December 21, 2010, 12:58:58 PM »
 :wait: :wait:

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Re: Love marriage v/s arranged marriage
« Reply #7 on: December 21, 2010, 01:59:54 PM »

Lol .... it is not that bad .. now a days arranged marriage is just like being set up for a date by your parents rather than your friends....  so chill ....

I think I agree with Jahndaji ... koi vi way hove .. assi taan ik bakra labna aa :hehe:



I m not kidding.. Love marriage are more of trouble, so much trouble :loll:

Think this way - So what ever suffering you (as a guy or girl) will have after your married life. You start to worry about them right now.
Very small example
Example 1 - If you and a girl are friend and girl ask you to help in her resume - You have a choice of yes or no. But if that girl is your girlfriend, you dont have a choice and she won't ask for "help" in a resume .. It will more be of a order - "do my resume", even when you have a final to write the next day...  :hehe:

example 2 - I have a buddy and he has a gf but they dont own a car as both are undergrads. When ever the girl has to go to work .. The guy accompany her in the bus for back and forth; and each side is like 30-45 mins bus ride.... I look at them and like seriously that is causing urself trouble at the age you dont want :hehe: :hehe:

example 3 - if your gf flats a tyre on the highway, you are the first one to get a call and make sure you get it fixed it early or you in trouble :laugh: ... Now these things should be after marriage.. why you kids wanna suffer now with love relationship :hehe:

.....and the list goes on :hehe: :hehe:
  

So basically if you are in going into love marriage let say 5 years from now. Your suffering already started 5 years ahead, :laugh:

Well good about love marriage - ya may be you found someone of your choice (so a one young kid choosing); but if you get into arrange 20 people will find you someone who match perfect for you - Now you be the judge :hehe:

second good - Ya you dont feel lonely and stuff.. But the company comes with a big price..  :laugh:
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Re: Love marriage v/s arranged marriage
« Reply #8 on: December 21, 2010, 02:22:21 PM »
I don't understand how a few pj members are ok with arrange marriage.  :wait:
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Re: Love marriage v/s arranged marriage
« Reply #9 on: December 21, 2010, 03:11:32 PM »
yr pehlli gall ta e a k veer mere ne topic banea o v funny bol ke yr eda da topic funny kida ho sakda e buhet he  jaruri topic a ,dujji gall nam desi a te bolda greji a mai ena de buhet topic dekhe a jithe mera veer kihnda punjabi ch gall karo te ajj app he greji ch topic bana reha ,bakki mera bro jhanda ta hamessa he theek gall karda appa osde nal a

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Re: Love marriage v/s arranged marriage
« Reply #10 on: December 21, 2010, 03:16:17 PM »

example 3 - if your gf flats a tyre on the highway, you are the first one to get a call and make sure you get it fixed it early or you in trouble :laugh: ... Now these things should be after marriage.. why you kids wanna suffer now with love relationship :hehe:

and the list goes on :hehe: :hehe:
 


Hahahaha this is so true .. just last week ..early 7 AM... my close fren while driving to office decided to roll off the road into the snow. Her car wouldnt move anymore. Now normally you would call 911 or AAA ... but she calls her boyfrend... and when he doesnot pick up the call (poor guy is sleeping) she calls me up and asks me to walk up to his apartment and wake him and ask him to come to the spot. :laugh: :laugh:

And guess what he did after going there .... Call 911. There was just so much he could do...  :hehe:

But yeah I would expect my boyfriend to be there when I have a flat tire.... and he better be there fast :hehe:

And Jhandaji - tuhanu bahut experience lagda aina gallan da :hehe:


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Re: Love marriage v/s arranged marriage
« Reply #11 on: December 21, 2010, 03:28:59 PM »
yr punjabi janta da nam change ker dao  :angry: :angry: :angry:ethe ta admin v greji bolde a tusi ki loka nu punjabi bolen lao ge pehhla appa ta bol lao  :angry:

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Re: Love marriage v/s arranged marriage
« Reply #12 on: December 21, 2010, 03:42:13 PM »

Hahahaha this is so true .. just last week ..early 7 AM... my close fren while driving to office decided to roll off the road into the snow. Her car wouldnt move anymore. Now normally you would call 911 or AAA ... but she calls her boyfrend... and when he doesnot pick up the call (poor guy is sleeping) she calls me up and asks me to walk up to his apartment and wake him and ask him to come to the spot. :laugh: :laugh:

And guess what he did after going there .... Call 911. There was just so much he could do...  :hehe:

But yeah I would expect my boyfriend to be there when I have a flat tire.... and he better be there fast :hehe:

And Jhandaji - tuhanu bahut experience lagda aina gallan da :hehe:




Sorry Garewal saab ...   :sad: Maafiiiiiii

Aa lao main punjabi vich likhiya hun...

Main kehndi si Jhanda ji ne jo kiha oh kaafi sach aa ... pichale hafte hi meri dost di car da accident ho gaya savere savere ... ohh cops nuun call ni kitta ... unhe apne boyfren nuun call kitta ... ohh vichara sutta si te phone ni chakkiya unhane... us ton baad meri friend ne mainu call kita te kehndi ki uhde apartment jaake ... usde vichare boyfrend nuun utha ke bhej .. meri car kharab ho gayi ... vichara sutta uthiya si .. chetti chetti paj ke gaya ,....

Uthe ja ke unhe hor kuj vi ni kitta ...bad 911 nuun cal kitta .... :hehe:


Je mera vi boyfren hove te flat tire ho je te ...main vi us nuun hi call karungi  ... aur je ohh late ho gaye by chance .. fer taan dekho ki hunda :hehe:

And Jhandaji - tuhanu bahut experience lagda aina gallan da :hehe:


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Re: Love marriage v/s arranged marriage
« Reply #13 on: December 21, 2010, 04:08:07 PM »
Both have ups and downs to it ...just like any other relationship :loll:
how can there be a relationship where there aren't any ups n downs nothing comes easy :pagel:

but being Indian myself and maybe from seeing so many arranged marriages work out ...there definitly is something that makes it work out ...maybe that the elders dont ONLY look at the "love between two people" but the other things that come along with marriage (possibly rest of the family and so many new relations) :loll: again your just not marrying one person it is the whole family..  everyone is affected not just the couple that are getting married  :he:

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Re: Love marriage v/s arranged marriage
« Reply #14 on: December 21, 2010, 04:26:13 PM »
yr punjabi janta da nam change ker dao  :angry: :angry: :angry:ethe ta admin v greji bolde a tusi ki loka nu punjabi bolen lao ge pehhla appa ta bol lao  :angry:

aa grewal de navve duty leye aa asse.. Jehra punjabi nai bolda.. Odde ton punjabi bulvone :hehe: :hehe:

@ Title - For the first time.. I seen an american chick doing punjabi when asked by a user. All hail Title :worship: .. Usually we have a fight after that. You want examples ask Jatti California de or _Kamli_ :laugh: :laugh:


Punjabi for Grewal :hehe: - @ Title - Main phele warr wekhiya hai ke america de koi kuri ne punjabi kette hai jaddo kesse user ne complaint kette... Title ji tusse mahan ho. :loll:
Je thanu mere es gal teh nai jakeen teh "Jatti California" ja "Kamli" kollo push lavo.. ohna da jawab aggo ke hunda hai ... :laugh: :laugh:

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Re: Love marriage v/s arranged marriage
« Reply #15 on: December 21, 2010, 04:32:50 PM »
love  marriage tauba tauba dusman de v na hove

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Re: Love marriage v/s arranged marriage
« Reply #16 on: December 21, 2010, 04:33:46 PM »
love  marriage tauba tauba dusman de v na hove

Sandhu jhooth marda aa.. Kal hajje teh chat wich g/f bhalda se :hehe:

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Re: Love marriage v/s arranged marriage
« Reply #17 on: December 21, 2010, 04:36:34 PM »
aa grewal de navve duty leye aa asse.. Jehra punjabi nai bolda.. Odde ton punjabi bulvone :hehe: :hehe:

@ Title - For the first time.. I seen an american chick doing punjabi when asked by a user. All hail Title :worship: .. Usually we have a fight after that. You want examples ask Jatti California de or _Kamli_ :laugh: :laugh:


Punjabi for Grewal :hehe: - @ Title - Main phele warr wekhiya hai ke america de koi kuri ne punjabi kette hai jaddo kesse user ne complaint kette... Title ji tusse mahan ho. :loll:
Je thanu mere es gal teh nai jakeen teh "Jatti California" ja "Kamli" kollo push lavo.. ohna da jawab aggo ke hunda hai ... :laugh: :laugh:

ethe kera translation de paise milde a jera free ch translate kariye english to punjabi bar bar :loll: dictionary chukan te kam sar lain :loll: theka thore lea a hun :yawn:

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Re: Love marriage v/s arranged marriage
« Reply #18 on: December 21, 2010, 04:38:19 PM »
ethe kera translation de paise milde a jera free ch translate kariye english to punjabi bar bar :loll: dictionary chukan te kam sar lain :loll: theka thore lea a hun :yawn:

Live example - I didnt even ask for a translation yet :hehe:
- Jhanda Amli never lies :loll:

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Re: Love marriage v/s arranged marriage
« Reply #19 on: December 21, 2010, 04:42:38 PM »
amli 22 meri ta love mariage ho k v tut gai 6 mnth vch ta pta mainu lol lol

 

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