Hahaha bilkul sahi ehi hunda :hehe:

Easy difference:

Hmm I agree that these things do happen but may I ask you what the source is for this news??? I mean where you got it from??
Nowadays people just search a picture and upload it with a story they made up themselfs.. :lost:
And noticing that there is no source given in this topic.. I dont think its trustworthy..


Exactly!! This is the main difference between '' us '' and the western people.. You said exactly the right thing.. You live YOUR life..
And we life for many other people aswell. I'm NOT saying one should force anyone to get married to someone, but once we are married we dont take things the way you guys do.. We give our marriage many chances to get it on the right track. If the marriage isnt going anywhere, its our duty to make it work.. Or atleast try to work things out.  :blink: Western people dont... No offence :smile:

That's why I would say we are a way stronger than westerns women/men. We fight for or relations and dont just make an end of it by walking away :won:

And as far as being dependent on someone is  concerned, let me make it a a liltle clear. We should not underestimate anyone.
We are living in 2012. Its not like most of the eastern people are not well educated or cant find a job and that's the reason why they dont make an end to a relation that's not going anywhere. The difference lies in the way of thinking.

We study to be able to get a nice job when needed instead of getting on the road when bad time enters our life. This means that many of the girls wont have a problem if they will be asked not to work and run their home only, simply because we dont really study to be independent :s
But the western thinking is different. They study to get a good job too but the whole idea behind is to be independent whole life. Because being independent means they dont have to listen to anyone, they can do whatever they feel like, and because they are earning they dont feel like they need someone in their lives. Like I said before,, lets not underestimate anyone anywhere :pagel:

I geuss I am a lil of topic but I couldnt resist replying after reading your comment.  :smile:

You give your "marriage many chances" because you don't really have a choice.

Wrong! We don't only give our marriage many chances, we give all our relations many chances in life. Because we have been teached how to forget and forgive. We know the value of our relationships, doesn't matter what kind of relation it is :smile: that doesn't mean we don't have other options. Of course we do..

 Your family's pressuring you to have arranged marriage, and if it doesn't work out. You'll probably end up on your own, divorced, frowned upon and shunned by society.

Wrong again :pagel: You just said "your family's".. Means you are trying to say forced marriages happen in each and every asian country? How can you, or anyone els say these things happen in every family? Insane people with weird and unfair thinking can be everywhere in the world.. and those few people do not represent the whole country ;) So be careful before giving such a statement.


You're not really "fighting", you're staying put. Whilst if that was a westerner, he/she would run away(putting their lives on danger, young or old, alone or not) or spend $$$ filing for divorce, would not care about what society/her family would think etc.

:he: once again wrong...  Of course we fight for our relation. If we didnt care about our relations we would never fight for them and would not even try maintain them by giving them new chances.

Like I said before.. This is one of the main difference between us and the western people.. Say it or not but we are a way stronger because we don't just give up easily on or relations.. Most of the westerns do..

Like you said it yourself.. They even run a way.. :lost: why? because they are not strong.. They are a bit selfish.. I believe walking away and making an end is easier than not going anywhere and putting all your effort to make things work.. One needs a lot of strenght, patience, faith and love for being able to do so :smile:

You could be right about Westerns willing to pay €€€€ for divorce because they think they will be able to buy happines by spending money for a divorce.. But we say hapiness cannot be buyed nor relations :smile:

I feel proud to say that not only we (indian/pakistani in short asian girls)
But also our brothers, husbands, cousins, fathers ect dont lose hope in any relation as fast as the westerns do  :won:


However you're right about the western thinking part.

:pagel: I'm glad atleast you agreed on something

I beg to differ. And it doesn't make me wrong that that is how we westerners see, feel and think. A stranger is not your relation, not by blood anyway because if you were set up to marry a blood relative, we would be a lot more concerned about that. Staying with someone that you barely know or love is like trying to light a fire without a match. And by the way i didn't say every asian country does, you completely misunderstood me. It's not a selfish thing to run away from a set up marriage, it is like you're agreeing to being raped. Hahahahahaha. Really though it's your opinion and it doesn't make you right

she's just 13.. not of the age of marriage

omg : Had hai
Anyway we could go on and on and onnnn but I think its better to leave it.. Because we both dont share the same thinking so.. :pagel:

An another fact that everyone would agree with.
The differences that we see between western and eastern cultures and have been created just because the western people are centuries ahead than eastern.
No wonder, the eastern culture would be totally like western culture is now. As they westerns are leading the world and eastern are following the western culture.