Alright, before you guys say anything, please! try and see this from both perspectives and not just the 'punjabi point of view' or 'the sikhism ways'. You can try and help us(both parties benefits) or you don't.




My bf txt me, he said he wants to wear a turban and grow a beard. I could tell, he was trying to be excited to tell me, my reply was "Are you joking?". He guessed that i wasn't too thrilled about it and i knew he was very disappointed. He wanted my support. I just, couldn't comment at the time. I didn't know what to say. So i told him not to rush into it and let's talk about it thoroughly. The thing is, we love each other no doubt, we want both parties to be happy, i love him the way he is right now and i don't want him to change. I know what you guys are going to say, if i love him truly, i shouldn't mind him wearing a turban and growing a beard. It's just, this is so much to take in, in 1 day. And oh god, i can't picture it in my mind. I told him there are punjabi people out there that don't wear turbans or have beards and it doesn't make them less of a sikh. He said he wants to be a "proper sikh". Is there such thing? Does it make him less of a sikh because he doesn't wear a turban? And yes truth to be told, of course i want to convince him, he's fine the way he is but in order for me to do this, i need you guys to help me. I don't know much about sikhism.