Ok PJ friends today I need your help/advice :  :sad:

Ek problem hai joh ke kuch aise start huwi.. Koi 1 month pehle kisi ki shaadi thi.. Hum ladki ki taraf se uski Mehndi ke function main ge and wahan pe itne loog teh aur behtne ki jaga kam par rahi thi..  After 30 min or so ek family ay ( 2 ladkiyan and 1 unki ami ) and woh humare wale table pe humare saath beht gey as there was no other table available..

Woh 2 ladkiyan humse batain karne lagi and woh aunty humari khala aur cousin ke saath kuch baat karne lag pari.. :pagel: They started asking about my study, work, family members ect. and hum jawab dete dete aise batain karne lag ge as if we were good friends or something  :he: So somehow hum unko phone pe apnu kuch pics dhikaane lage ( Because we were talking about the fashion that's "in" at the moment in Pakistan) So I was showing them some of my snaps..

Iske koi 15 min baad those girls and that aunty came up with the pics of their brother  :dnk: That was the moment when I realized that something was wrong and I should keep my mouth shut haha.. So I stopped talking to them : Because hello hume kyun apne bhai ki pics dhika kar uski bataon suna rahi ho?? It became really akward  :lost:

Aur ab hume ghar pe baji ne ye bataya ke un logon ki call ay thi and woh bol rahe teh ke woh ghar aana chahte hain "just" to visit : Lekin I have a STRONG feeling ke unhu ne koi aisi waisi baat hi karni aa kar! Andaza toh ab ap logon ko bhi ho hi geya hoga  :sad:

Ab hume ye nahi pata ke hum aisa kaya karain ya kahe jiski wajha se woh log aay mat humare ghar.. I mean I dont even know them and I already know ke unke dimaag main kaya chal raha hai so it's better ke unko ghar aane hi na diya jaay or els there will be some problem which I want to avoid :pagel: Lekin kaise???? :dkn: Help! Give me some advice

I really dont know why but I have this problem ke agar koi humse aa kar baat kare toh I just start talking to them without thinking or having any kind of intention.. But 1 thing is veryyyy clear to me ke I need to stop talking to random people and keep my mouth shut! :

Haha you're welcom Rahul..

Rahullll where are you man :( I always miss you over here.. You're the best friend one can have

Ap woh 1st member teh jis se humne yahan aa kar baat ki thi and I still didnt see any member joh ap jaise ho.. You're somwone who knows how to talk to others and pj reallyyy need someone like you jis ko dhek kar loog tameez aur lehaaz se baat katna seekh sakhe..

So you better come back asap.. Apne liye nahi humare liye nahi lekin ph pe logon ko akal dene ke liye hi sahi :

Hope you had a great birthday! May Allah make all your wishes come true! Manyyyy mannyyyy more years  to come inshAllah :)

Is trah se khelne per jad app bol ki kick karoge to football ki hawa nikal sakti hai :laugh:

Koi nahi khair hai.. Neya mangwa len ge :

koi na next time i wll play for my team as a forwad ... den we wll surly win

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Chalo aa jao is baar humari jeet ki khushi main treat hi le lo

Spain se humara 4 saal purana badla poora ho geya woooohoooo

For me this is THE song of 2014

Rahat Fateh Ali Khan - Zaroori Tha

Hatts off  :won: This man has the best voice ever and is song ke lyrics are out of this world  :love:

Sad to hear your story.. :( Lekin ap wahid aise insaan nahi ho jis ke saath aisa huwa hai.. Apki kahani se milte jhulte kahi qisse hain..

Sab se pehle toh ye ke I think you made the correct decision and so has she.. Ab ye joh kuch bhi huwa hai isko 2 nazriyon se dheka ja sakta hai.. Pehla nazariya ye ke ap apne maazi (past) ko udaas ho kar dheko aur ye socho ke joh huwa woh kyun huwa.. Aur doosra nazriya ye ke ap apne maazi ko ek acha door samjho jis ne apko kuch pal ki behot achi yaadain di hain.. I think you shoul prefer the 2nd option..

We should respect the feelings of others and I really do respect yours too.. Lekin kuch rishte are just not meant to be.. In the replies above I read a few times ke "pyar kiya nahi jata ho jata hai".. Hum toh is baat se thoda disagree karte hain.. Khuda ne insaan ko dil diya hai toh saath maindimaag bhi toh diya hai sochne samajhne ke liye.. Pyar karo kisi ko pasand bhi karo lekin ye shart mat rakho ke ab isko paana bhi hai..

Ye baat toh hum sab hi jaante hain na ke hum dono religion main koi jaga nahi kisi aur mazhab ke insaan se shadi karne ki.. Nor does our culture and its people allowe it.. Toh ap dono ko jis waqt pata chala tha ke ap dono ka mazhab alag hai, ap dono ka kaam banta tha waheen pe ruk jana.. Waheen pe ruk jaate toh itna dhuk na hota jitna ke shayad ab apko hota hoga..

I ought to say that I have much respect for you guys as you both took the right step not to carry on with your relation.. Na us ladki ka kaam banta tha apne parents ko chor dena aur na apka kaam banta tha aisa kuch karna.. If you cant be loyal to your very own parents and religion then I dont think you can be loyal towards your partner too..

Love isnt about getting married.. Its about letting things go in order to make sure the one you love has a better future.. With ot without you..

Being a Muslim and Pakistani girl myself I can assure you ke agar woh ladki sab chor kar aapse shadi kar bhi leti toh woh khud ko apke mazhab main kabhi dhaal na paati.. Aur ye baat kabhi na kabhi apko bhi ghalat lagne lagti.. Aapne usko jaane de kar na sirf uski balke uske saari khandaan ki izzat bachaay hai.. Uske ami abu ko is umer main pareshaaniyon se bachaya hai..

As a (Muslim) girl myself I would like to thank you.. And wish you all the very best in life!

dat was oefenen eh.. klaar zonder robben zijn we niks. Doei beker  :sad:

Haha ja maar winnen tijdens oefenen is
Ook wel wat he :

Netherlands - Wales 2-0  :blowout: