leh Ruby Sweeite Samajh kyu nai ayea ji...ih undoing defence mechanism :happy: aa ji....

Undoing: You try to reverse or undo your feeling by DOING something that indicates the opposite feeling. It may be an "apology" for the feeling you find unacceptable within yourself.
"I think I'll give that professor an apple."

so same way...apne aap nu jyada values vala show karna but jo actual vich nai ne...ya simple kehlo "Fukri"

baki avg..di koyee problem nai aa je koi v sign excess vich aa tahi problem hundi aa

                           

      FIVE SURPRISING SYMPTOMS OF INFIDELITY ( CHEATERS)




It's important to know some of the traits and sneaky signals that are common in people who tend to be unfaithful in the relationships.Everybody thinks they can spot a cheater a mile away but lets find more that u may not b knowing...


1.  Cheating Sign #1: He Doesn't Pay His Bills On Time

Some research shows that unreliability and carelessness is part of a personality trait called "low consciousness," which is a marker for infidelity. Makes sense. A guy who's careless about his own responsibilities is going to be just as careless about his relationships.


2.Cheating Sign #2: He's A Do-Gooder..
 What? Your guy contributes to the local orchestra fund, the church, and the alumni association, plus he volunteers to build houses for the homeless.

A study just published in the November issue of the Journal of Applied Psychology found that when there's a blurry line between right and wrong (as there often is with matters of infidelity), the people who become the worst cheaters are actually the ones who think of themselves as having the highest moral standards.

3. Cheating Sign #3: He's Rolling In The Dough

A study in the Journal of Marital and Family Therapy found that those people who earned more money were more likely to cheat than those who earned less. It's not because they have more income to open new credit cards, carry more cash, or spend more coin on mistress gifts. Some researchers theorize that those with lower salaries - and thus those who are more dependent on others in a relationship - are less likely to risk ruining the relationship.
 
4. Cheating Sign #4: He's A Yeller

While yelling and anger may not seem to be all that connected to cheating, a recent Australian study found that unfaithful partners show many of the same personality characteristics as abusive ones. Those who are more likely to be abusive (verbally or physically) are simply more likely to be unfaithful. What's already bad has the potential of getting even worse.

5.Cheating Sign #5: He's A Mirror Hog

Some research has shown that the single biggest trait of cheaters is-surprise, surprise-narcissism. These self-loving folks are so wrapped up in their own self-importance that they don't even consider the effect that cheating has on the other person.

So I am not saying u shud end up ur relationship with type of guy..but be careful... :happy:

Ha..one more thing..this works both ways..for girls too...   :blah:



   THANKS[

Kaim aa ji... :okk: :okk: :okk:  je kise da karo ta fer inna hi karna chahida...jiwe tusi kiha.



uski doori ne kar diya hai paagal mujhe,...
aur log kehte hain ki magrur hun main,.. :happy:

  =D> =D>     WahjiWah..."Je oh na aye ta kise hor de v ayun de lr nai" kaim aa ji...

so for today its from my side...

Rabb na kare, kadi ohna da dil sade to ukh jave…
Eh na hove, sadi jind ohna nu yaad kar karke hi suk jave…
Kite sade saah, ohna di tadap vich hi na ruk jave…
Kite sadi jaan, ohna di ik jhalak paun vich hi na muk jave…

bahut vadiya aa ji..really true facts of life... =D> =D>

I really got only few ideas....that Edgar is talking abt somebudy who is leaving or dying...
and then telling  that time has passed...and no more hopes i guess..
and then he has depicted passing time with sand as it will slip from hand...so once passed time will never come..and he is paying god to give this time back..I suppose but really tough  to comprehend this... :lost:

REALLY STRANGE NEWS....



Grandmother and grandson to have child together..






Pearl Carter and Phil Bailey, 26, have paid a surrogate mother £20,000 to have Mr Bailey’s child, which the couple plan to bring up together.
Mrs Carter, from Indiana, met Mr Bailey four years ago after he tracked her down following the death of his mother, Lynette.

Mrs Carter fell pregnant with Lynette at 18, out of wedlock, and claims that she was forced to give her child up for adoption by her strict Catholic parents.

She went on to marry, but never had any more children.

The couple, who claim to be abused in public and could face prison for incest, say that they fell in love and became lovers soon after meeting.

In an interview with the New Zealand magazine, New Idea, Mrs Carter, said: “I’m not interested in anyone else’s opinion.
"I am in love with Phil and he’s in love with me. Soon I’ll be holding my son or daughter in my arms and Phil will be the proud dad.”
Mr Bailey said: “I love Pearl with all my heart. I’ve always been attracted to older women and I think Pearl is gorgeous. Now I’m going to be a dad and I can’t wait.
“Yes, we get laughed at and bullied when we go out and kiss in public but we don’t care. You can’t help who you fall for.”

“Initially I was shocked,” said Miss Campbell, on learning the couple were related. “But they’re a brilliant pair and I saw how much they loved each other. I know the baby will be loved too.”

main aaj vekhi c ehe news on tv ..yaar duniya nu pata nee ki hoya ehey je lokkan nu pyaar naal and khushi naal rehena nee aunda har velle ladai...bomb kill hor pata nee ki ki .....rabb g eho je lokka nu thodi akal davo...

and kudrat g change bandeya nu rabb ne apne kol bulanda ...sade varghe dostan di dua tuhade naal ah..raab g hamesha gud bandeyan da sath dennda...nale jis de sir uthe waheguru g da hath te mar sake naa koi...

thnxxx 4 post kudrat g

Thanks Raggiji...Vase babaji da bhaut-2 dhanwaad..sara kujh ohna di raaza vich hi hai....

I Believe one reason Subway $5 bucks deals are a Hit - Sariya Punjabi Kuriya ehho Khandiya  :

Hmm..khair menu deal hit haun da reason ta ajj hi pata lagga...vase menu lagda tusi punjabi kudiyan te kafi research kitti hoyee aa...Jhanda Amlijiii :happy:

nice but don't show me now otherwise i have to rush to come to states!!

Koyee gal naiji...fer rush karlo..no probs...ithe States te States toh Kudrat tuhadi Udeek Vich... :pagel: :happy: