Author Topic: HoW To FliRt : TIPS wid JaTti (Read 5381 times)

« **on:** August 02, 2008, 02:01:39 PM »

It is useful to look at some of the key indicators of flirting and they can prove extremely useful when working out if the person across the table from you is interested. The one to keep your eye on the most is "mirroring". Mirroring is when someone copies your body movements whilst retaining eye contact. Its is one of the biggest giveaways there is.

Eye Contact:

Pupils are dilated and eye contact is maintained
Eye contact combined with an arched eye brow
Any form of winking
Rapid eye movement and blinking
Eye contact where the gaze is held longer than usual. Men normally look away.

Hair and Mouth:

Playing with hair in a stroking or toying motion
Eye contact whilst playing with hair
Touching your hair at any time
Lots of smiling, open mouthed and teeth flashing
Lip licking
Puckering lips in a simulated kiss form
Any form of touch of the lips or teeth with tongue

Body Movement:

The thrusting of chest or breasts outwards whilst holding your gaze
The copying of your posture - mirroring
Holding your gaze whilst moving to music
Using a posture with legs crossed towards you
Leaning in towards you whilst holding your gaze
Open legged posture facing you
The display of flesh of arm or thigh

Touching:

They will want to touch you and will reach out to do so with some excuse
They will offer to place food in your mouth as if feeding you
They will play with their hands and then with yours

The Way they Speak:

Their tone and speed of conversation mirrors your own
Lots of laughter and questioning tones
In a group, you are singled out by this person for attention even in general conversation and questions. This happened to me in New York and I was taken aback how obvious it was.

The main thing to remember with flirting is that it is fun and so much more so when you are receptive to it and understand when it is happening to you. The best flirtatious moments will always take you by surprise.

Punjabi Janta Forums - Janta Di Pasand · « **on:** August 02, 2008, 02:01:39 PM »

« **Reply #1 on:** August 02, 2008, 02:06:32 PM »

Flirting Tips

Women are so much more subtle about flirting clues that men need to really pay attention. Ladies, men are not used to women flirting with them. An overwhelming majority of men said they would just love it if a woman would talk to them first or at least express a larger clue that you were interested in checking them out.

#1: Repeated contact...at least three separate verbal or non-verbal clues need to be given. Why? The first time he's going to look around and make sure it's really him that you are flirting with. The second, he knows it's him and he gets flushed and pleased. (At this point he'll probably walk by you and at least smile..he's checking you out a little more.) The third time you can express interest-by introducing yourself, or commenting on his tie, or waving from across the room. Now he knows you are open to meeting and it will be a cinch.

#2: Whisper...it always gets their attention. Ask them if you can tell them a secret...Then whisper in their ear: 'I just love your tie...can I buy it from you when you are done with it?'

#3: Don't sit with other women...men don't want you to reject them in front of an audience. If you do go out with a friend...separate every so often or take a breather from talking...men do not want to risk your disapproval by interrupting you. (You have already missed out on a lot of quality polite men who didn't want to interrupt.)

#4: Treat men gently...If someone you are not interested in approaches you and flirts ...be nice.... All the other men are watching to see what you do. If you laugh after he leaves or show visual disapproval, you are cutting your chances on anyone else approaching you. Try shaking his hand and saying something like: 'It was so nice of you to approach me...what's your name? Tom? Tom, I know how hard it is to meet people...I might have a girlfriend who would be interested in you.'

#5: IF he acts like a JERK! Be polite but firm. Hand him a copy of the men's version of 'Flirting with Greatness' and ask him to go practice on someone else. Firmly say that 'lines' with sexual overtones are not only not attractive to you but to most other women in the world.

#6: Use the Buddy system. Walk through a group of men and have someone watch to see who's checking you out.

#7: Become More Irresistible! Show a little leg....wear higher heels...the redder the lipstick the more available and noticeable you will be. Arch your back a little as you sit up tall and cross your legs high. Wear earrings that are interesting enough to make someone comment on them.

#8: Look over your shoulder...and smile at him. This asymmetrical position is always a signal you are interested.

#9: Give him a look all over from head to toe - nod with approval and then flash him your most winning smile.

#10: Remember that flirting is a way of connecting from the heart and acknowledging someone. Be generous! Have Fun!

Steppenwolf · « **Reply #2 on:** August 03, 2008, 12:28:26 PM »

Hey navi... you should start a consulting service :D like this one

"Become More Irresistible! Show a little leg....wear higher heels..."

~PunjabiKudi~ · « **Reply #3 on:** August 03, 2008, 03:41:22 PM »

ohh navi ki boli jandi aa.
yaar ish tera de word nah plz use kariya kar.

« **Reply #4 on:** August 04, 2008, 12:05:27 PM »

sis mein ki kara gussa a jandaa o dekheoo ki khenda a

desi_@hata · « **Reply #5 on:** August 08, 2008, 07:23:22 AM »

:-bd :-bd :-bd :-bd :-bd :-bd

gudd aa navi.....par gussa ghatt karia kar.....

PuNjAbAn_KuRhI · « **Reply #6 on:** August 20, 2008, 11:16:42 AM »

kis tarah de worddss???

~PunjabiKudi~ · « **Reply #7 on:** August 20, 2008, 06:05:12 PM »

phela navi ne eithe kuch likhya c.
te osh nu osh bariye keha c.
per hun lagg da osh ne ohh post delete kar diti eitho.

desi_@hata · « **Reply #8 on:** August 21, 2008, 09:46:56 AM »

Balle; Balle; Balle;

raat gayi baat gayi

PuNjAbAn_KuRhI · « **Reply #9 on:** August 22, 2008, 03:58:35 AM »

hih hih hih hih okizz lolzzzz

desi_@hata · « **Reply #10 on:** August 22, 2008, 11:25:52 AM »

hih hih hih hih

desi_@hata · « **Reply #11 on:** August 22, 2008, 04:28:04 PM »

:;)

PuNjAbAn_KuRhI · « **Reply #12 on:** August 22, 2008, 04:29:11 PM »

lolz hun kider kho gaye ?? hahahahha

desi_@hata · « **Reply #13 on:** August 23, 2008, 04:48:22 PM »

hih hih hih hih hih hih hih hih

hassan di tiari karda c hih hih hih hih hih

PuNjAbAn_KuRhI · « **Reply #14 on:** August 24, 2008, 08:58:10 AM »

hih hih hih hih hih hih hih hih hih

_Beast_ · « **Reply #15 on:** July 23, 2009, 08:31:24 PM »

bakwaas ehe sabh
tips na hoye uthe tipsey

Jhanda_Amli · « **Reply #16 on:** July 23, 2009, 09:39:17 PM »

This is pathetic..
So we desies need a book even to flirt.. Jezz!!
- bakki no offense ji :)

๓คlฬคภ_ןคttเ · « **Reply #17 on:** September 24, 2009, 11:58:07 PM »

Quote from: Jhanda Amli on July 23, 2009, 09:39:17 PM

This is pathetic..
So we desies need a book even to flirt.. Jezz!!
- bakki no offense ji :)

I agree with u 100% =D> =D> =D>

Jhanda_Amli · « **Reply #18 on:** September 25, 2009, 04:14:12 PM »

Quote from: jati@123 on September 24, 2009, 11:58:07 PM

I agree with u 100% =D> =D> =D>

atleast someone can think :pagel:

Steppenwolf · « **Reply #19 on:** September 25, 2009, 07:03:12 PM »

Some of us aren't naturally gifted :shutup:

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