Quote from: nek insaan on April 06, 2011, 01:32:20 PM

Quote from: •°o.O тîтℓєє O.o°• on April 06, 2011, 12:31:43 PM

Yeah this thread is definitely depressing ... someone who doesn't know a bit about me is trying to tell me that I am not a SIKH.  :break: :break:

sorry je tuhanu feel hoya ..
but thats the truth ..
kayi loki kehan ge ki ..... " this is not right ..
if we classify sikhs like that we are in a way decreasing the number of sikhs which is not gud for community"
well then answer is quality matters more than quantity......

teh titlee  JI sadi rabb aage ardas aa ke tusi samjhoge es gal nu teh future nu sikhi di rehat nu follow karoge...
 then you can call yourself as guru ka sikh.......

thanks mamu 22.......

I dont need your approval to call myself a SIKH. So backoff.

Quote from: •°o.O тîтℓєє O.o°• on April 05, 2011, 12:46:58 PM

Daahhhh ppl ... stop saying that without a turban a person is not a sikh .. that is so not true. Sikhism to me is not about turban and beard ... it is the way you lead your life ... follow the values from Shri Guru Granth Sahib ji ... if someone does that then he/she has the right to be proud and be called a Sikh.

Elle, like you said, it is his personal choice .. there is never a right or wrong standpoint on this. If he would like to .. then Kudos ... great actually! because its very difficult to follow these traditional stuff (I myself am not able to). BUT I want to tell you that a person who cuts his hair is NOT an improper sikh. He can be as much of a sikh as any other person.

  tuhadi eh gall parh k badi nirasha hoyi. Thik e jo tuc mande o thodi apni marji e par thonu apne vichara de anusar galat nu sahi kehen da koi hak nai.
Ik sikh ta ohi hai jo guru de lar lag k akal purkh tak pohnchda hai. Te jad guru de lar lagie ta sikh nu apni akal nkar deni paindi e. Guru di kise gal te kintu prantu us de man vich nai auna chahida . Sacha sikh ohi e. Singha ne guru de ik vachan te apnia jana kurban kitia , khopria luha ditia par val ni ktaye . Is hisab nal tuc ohna nu ki khoge.
Is tra dia galla ta sirf bahane ne apnia kamzoria nu sahi thehraun de. Mafi chahuga thonu bura zroor laga hovega. Kamzor asi sare aa par lor e k asi is nu kabool kariye na k is tra de bahane bnayie.
Bohte naujwana da ehi byan hunda k "ji val rakhan nal e rab nu pujya ja sakda val rakh k v lok puthe kam kari jande aa"
Bilkul sahi gal e par je koi dusra galat kar riha is da eh matlab ta ni tuc v use tra kro. Is tra karan nal galat sahi ni ho janda oh galat e rehnda e.
Shayad kafi sajjna de man ch is tra de bhulekhe honge . Par kde eh sochya is piche vjah ki e. Vjah e bhana manan di k jiho jiha rab ne bnaya uho jiha rahiye. Par eh sirf ise falsfe nu lai k nai chalda eh sidhant sikhi di jarh e. Je koi angrezi sikhni hove ta pehla a b c sikhni paindi e. Thik ise tra bhana manan di shuruat ise mudhle padhar to karni paindi e ta sikh vde to vda bhana has k jar lainda.
Titlee ji shayad thodi e post mai parhi c jis vich kesa da te dastar da bohut vadia varnan c. Acha ik gal daso je school jane ta proper uniforn je na payiye ta ki apa fail ho javage. Apa office jane a proporly dress up ho k je na jayiye ta apni firm nu ghata ho jayega. Market jane a apa dekhde a k mai vadia lagda k nai je na vadia lage ta apa nu saman nai milega. Fir v apa ehna chiza da khyal rakhde a eda kyo.
Mafi chahuga ji dove hath jor k aukhat to vadh bol gya.

Why do people argue so much on this forum over religion? I may have posted this before but once again, religion isn't above everything. But we have to move with the time, our gurus sacrifice for sikhism will never be forgotten. Praying at a gurdwara and praying at home is same thing. Unlike some people who think they are more religious just because they go to the gurdwara. People over seas tend to be way more religious than people living in Punjab. The thing that annoys me the most is they go extreme over religion.  Bhagat Singh and Udam singh cut their hair, we still treat with so much respect, why? because they did something that made a big difference. Just because Udham Singh changed his name to Ram Mohammed Singh Azad, does it make him less of sikh than all of us? NO. As long as you are making a difference, then you are doing your part as sikh. Now about your situation, I don't know If he wants to wear the turban because he wants to become more connected to sikhism or he wants to wear it for fashion (shounk). Just because I don't wear a turban as of now, it doesn't make me less of sikh than anybody else. Coming generations are less likely to wear turbans.

sahi keha gill,,,n i think its nothing to be ashamed of if u r wrong,, n that leads to a change for gud

Why do people argue so much on this forum over religion? I may have posted this before but once again, religion isn't above everything. But we have to move with the time, our gurus sacrifice for sikhism will never be forgotten. Praying at a gurdwara and praying at home is same thing. Unlike some people who think they are more religious just because they go to the gurdwara. People over seas tend to be way more religious than people living in Punjab. The thing that annoys me the most is they go extreme over religion.  Bhagat Singh and Udam singh cut their hair, we still treat with so much respect, why? because they did something that made a big difference. Just because Udham Singh changed his name to Ram Mohammed Singh Azad, does it make him less of sikh than all of us? NO. As long as you are making a difference, then you are doing your part as sikh. Now about your situation, I don't know If he wants to wear the turban because he wants to become more connected to sikhism or he wants to wear it for fashion (shounk). Just because I don't wear a turban as of now, it doesn't make me less of sikh than anybody else. Coming generations are less likely to wear turbans.