Bubbles.

No wonder why it didn't work last night.

hmmm its all depend on you dear , if he wants then never stop him for it  n if u can't accept him or ur mind not allow you to accept him in tht shape then say him frankly so tht ders no problem come in future for u both . 
n ya for a true sikh its essential to wear turban n grow a bread .

I'm not, but you have to realise that me and him are together and i've got a say on this as well. I just wanted him to carefully think about it before doing anything.

Daahhhh ppl ... stop saying that without a turban a person is not a sikh .. that is so not true. Sikhism to me is not about turban and beard ... it is the way you lead your life ... follow the values from Shri Guru Granth Sahib ji ... if someone does that then he/she has the right to be proud and be called a Sikh.

Elle, like you said, it is his personal choice .. there is never a right or wrong standpoint on this. If he would like to .. then Kudos ... great actually! because its very difficult to follow these traditional stuff (I myself am not able to). BUT I want to tell you that a person who cuts his hair is NOT an improper sikh. He can be as much of a sikh as any other person.

I 2nd! this. Exactly. He is sikh! but you don't have to FEEL the NEED to look like 1. I have a question, does it say in sikhism that it's a MUST that you follow all the 5 k's to be a proper sikh? Evidence to support somewhere, anywhere?

I would not even see this issue from the religious point of view because it would never lead you anywhere. Everyone has his/her own ideology of living. But change is the law of nature. If your boy friend can see himself as a better person by adopting Sikhism in his life, there would certainly be a great motive behind it. You should not discourage him by giving priority to your choice. May be, you are used to see him the way he looks with the hair cut. But ain't you giving priority to looks rather than love. In true love you ultimately end up respecting the other half's opinions and you will eventually get used to his new look too. It could seem awkward in the beginning but consider this : what if he goes by what you want him to do and doesn't adopt Sikhism. You'll be happy for a little while but then you also might have to live with a guilt in your heart for hindering him from doing what he really wanted to do. I would say, sit down and talk about it with him but don't impose your will on him. In the end, ends will justify the means, its just a matter of time !  I am sorry if I said too much, just felt like sharing my feelings on this.

I'm not discouraging him! but nor am i encouraging him. Like i said, look at it from both perspectives, not just what you think is "right" or how it should be. In fact, i'm supporting him if he strongly wants to go ahead even if i'm not happy with it. But he hates seeing me like this. So basically, i'm just asking, how can we make this work.

lol
 
elle there is a video posted by gurpinder singh here before why one should keep their hair hopefully that helps you understand :)
 
heres a link : http://punjabijanta.com/religion-faith-spirituality/what-is-the-benefit-of-hair/msg497829/#msg497829

Cheers.

I don't think this issue is at all related to Sikhism.. that is just understanding of this couple.. How do they wanna see each other.. and here this guy is more of influenced by Turban fashion not by Sikhism... :pagel:


Rest, I agree with Nek Insaan, Turban is part of Sikh Reht ( Code of Conduct).. but the thing is even if you are turbaned but not following principles and values given by Guruji then its of not any use either.


And Turban gives you courage to be  Proper Sikh which could be distinguished among millions.. but this doesn't mean if you are not turbaned you are not Sikh.. this is mainly how are you following Guruji's teaching if you r doing that this means you are on the right way to Sikhism and one day u will reach there and then you would be definitely wearing turban too.. :smile:   

I prefer him just being himself where he doesn't feel the need to change anything to be proper.




Wow this is so depressing.

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Some more from canada.. like the leaves of the trees?

The building looks like a historical building.

Ok. Whatever. See you tomorrow.

you fell for it =}

No, more like, you were trying to scare the hell outta everyone. Sorry that s**t doesn't work on me.

As you might've heard, yes my bf wants to grow a beard and wear a turban. I don't want him to. He's absolutely fine the way he is. Anyhow, would you guys follow the 5 k's? Or eventually will do? And mates, if you ever decide to get a gf, at least, let them know beforehand. It sucks being in my shoes atm. I never thought he'd wear a turban and definitely not with a beard, it's just not him!

Too bad! i just did!