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Discussions / Re: This is the difference between eastern and western culture
« on: November 12, 2012, 05:44:35 AM »Easy difference:
:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: A few still do when nobody's looking
Hmm I agree that these things do happen but may I ask you what the source is for this news??? I mean where you got it from??
Nowadays people just search a picture and upload it with a story they made up themselfs.. :lost:
And noticing that there is no source given in this topic.. I dont think its trustworthy..
Exactly!! This is the main difference between '' us '' and the western people.. You said exactly the right thing.. You live YOUR life..
And we life for many other people aswell. I'm NOT saying one should force anyone to get married to someone, but once we are married we dont take things the way you guys do.. We give our marriage many chances to get it on the right track. If the marriage isnt going anywhere, its our duty to make it work.. Or atleast try to work things out. :blink: Western people dont... No offence :smile:
That's why I would say we are a way stronger than westerns women/men. We fight for or relations and dont just make an end of it by walking away :won:
And as far as being dependent on someone is concerned, let me make it a a liltle clear. We should not underestimate anyone.
We are living in 2012. Its not like most of the eastern people are not well educated or cant find a job and that's the reason why they dont make an end to a relation that's not going anywhere. The difference lies in the way of thinking.
We study to be able to get a nice job when needed instead of getting on the road when bad time enters our life. This means that many of the girls wont have a problem if they will be asked not to work and run their home only, simply because we dont really study to be independent :s
But the western thinking is different. They study to get a good job too but the whole idea behind is to be independent whole life. Because being independent means they dont have to listen to anyone, they can do whatever they feel like, and because they are earning they dont feel like they need someone in their lives. Like I said before,, lets not underestimate anyone anywhere :pagel:
I geuss I am a lil of topic but I couldnt resist replying after reading your comment. :smile:
That wasn't made up. I read the news article ages ago. Oh look i found different articles about her, look her up: jessie bender. You give your "marriage many chances" because you don't really have a choice. Your family's pressuring you to have arranged marriage, and if it doesn't work out. You'll probably end up on your own, divorced, frowned upon and shunned by society. You're not really "fighting", you're staying put. Whilst if that was a westerner, he/she would run away(putting their lives on danger, young or old, alone or not) or spend $$$ filing for divorce, would not care about what society/her family would think etc. However you're right about the western thinking part.