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Discussions / Re: is a no no marrying with the same surname? isn't that ancient?
« on: June 08, 2011, 09:06:00 PM »

I think i have heard more then enough now. Some of u guys really showed some support and the advices i needed :smile: .
I came to a conclusion that, i think i should be making these steps myself, not by others leading me i mean besides its my life right?


the decisions I'm about to make and I believe it will not effect others. I have run through everything and came to a conclusion. I'm glad my family & friends is with me all the way. if there is fate between us then it will happen, if not then nvm, God is to decide  :smile:


Besides God is above watching us, if we did wrong, theres NO such thing as punishment remember this...
but He will show the right path and it is for to us observe it. naturally if we don't be observant wrong things starts to happen right.


btw im not blaming others who said some harsh things, they just have their opinion, i knew it coming, besides its a thread, there will be a balance of positivity and negativity to it, it happens.

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Discussions / Re: is a no no marrying with the same surname? isn't that ancient?
« on: June 06, 2011, 05:11:32 AM »
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  that is messed up, seriously we are living in 21st century and there r so many other "serious" things to worry about and people are still stuck with last names   .....you just tell them that you guys r lucky that ur daughter in law will be at least punjabi....i mean biologically it would made sense if your genes r clashing with his....but u guys are from different families n background....i dont know when people will come out of these small little nonsense priorities   


i wish u all the luck and just make his parents realize that they can not find anybody better then you for their son...i mean these days people should care about their kids feelings and happiness...other than the  last names when their kids are ready to get married   


Good luck sweetheart and may God bless you 






Thanks for your support and great advise, doing my level best! It is good to know that someone still on the same page. even if i find that many people still thinks it is wrong :problem: .

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Discussions / is a no no marrying with the same surname? isn't that ancient?
« on: June 06, 2011, 03:38:23 AM »


I recently met a guy and we dated for sometime now, and he has the same surname as i do eg. Gill. I didn't confront with my family before proceeding with this relationship and they said that as long as we are not related is fine, infact my grandparents said the same. just to be on the safe side, we checked the family background and true enough there were not even a slight trace of relations. But the main problem lies in his family, who believes that Gill and Gill can get married even if we are not related, we are like bro and sis.  :dnk:  isn't that like ancient already? my grandparent told me that is what 'those were the days thoughts', these days it doesn't matter as long as u are not related. then why do some people still conservative about this matter :lost:  I even have an uncle who married his wife with a same surname, they seem to lead a happy 27yrs marriage life.



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