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Re: What is Love?
« Reply #20 on: August 21, 2015, 02:20:54 PM »
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Re: What is Love?
« Reply #21 on: August 21, 2015, 10:32:34 PM »
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Re: What is Love?
« Reply #22 on: August 22, 2015, 06:23:15 AM »
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Re: What is Love?
« Reply #23 on: August 22, 2015, 02:02:07 PM »
1.You’re addicted to this person.
Love changes the brain. In early-stage relationships, that euphoria that people feel appears as heightened neural activity in dopamine-rich areas of the brain—areas linked to the reward system—and in areas associated with the pursuit of rewards. There’s even some hint of activity in the anterior cingulate, the area of the brain linked to obsessive thinking, which is a classic experience when people are falling in love (Aron, Fisher, Mashek, Strong, & Brown, 2005). As a relationship progresses into a long-term partnership, thinking about the partner activates the reward centers as well as brain areas implicated in attachment, but less so obsessive thinking (Acevedo, Aron, Fisher, & Brown, 2011).
You really want your friends or family to like this person.
New evidence shows that people are often motivated to “marshal support” for someone they are dating (Patrick & Faw, 2014), which is consistent with the idea that the people in a person’s social circle often play an important role in the success of a relationship (Sprecher, 2011). Being attuned to how your family and friends might think about your partner or potential partner is a good sign that you are becoming increasingly attached to the person.
You celebrate this person’s triumphs (even when you yourself fail).
If you’ve fallen in love with someone, you probably have an atypical reaction when witnessing them excelling at something you don’t. Because romantic partners feel connected and can share the outcomes of each other’s successes, romantic partners will often feel pride and positive emotions when they see their partner succeed, even at something they themselves can’t do, rather than feeling negative and inferior (Lockwood & Pinkus, 2014).
You definitely like this person, and this person likes you. 
Liking is different from love, but is often a prerequisite for falling in love. In a cross-cultural study, researchers showed that a critical factor recognized as directly preceding falling in love is reciprocal liking, when you both clearly like each other (Riela, Rodriguez, Aron, Xu, & Acevedo, 2010). In addition, an evaluation of the other person’s personality as highly desirable tends to be a precursor to falling in love.
You really miss this person when you’re apart.
In many ways, how much you miss a person reflects how interdependent your lives have become. If you are questioning whether you love someone, perhaps consider how much you miss him or her when you’re apart. Le and colleagues (2008) showed that how much people miss each other tends to correspond with how committed they feel to the relationship.
Your sense of self has grown through knowing this person.
When people fall in love, their whole sense of self changes. They take on new traits and characteristics, growing in the diversity of their self-concept through the influence of their new relationship partner (Aron, Paris, & Aron, 1995). In other words, the you before falling in love is different from the you after falling in love. Maybe you feel the difference, maybe others notice it, but the things you care about, your habits, how you spend you time—and or all of this is subject to the (hopefully positive) influence of a new romantic partner.
You get jealous—but not suspicious.
A certain amount of jealousy is actually healthy, not toxic. From an evolutionary perspective, jealousy is an adaptation that helps relationships stay intact by making its members sensitive to potential threats. People who are jealous tend to be more committed to relationships (Rydell, McConnell, & Bringle, 2004). Keep the jealousy in check, though: Reactive or emotional jealousy is the type that is predicted by positive relationship factors like dependency and trust—but people who engage in suspicious jealousy, which includes taking actions like secretly checking a partner's cellphone, tends to be associated with relational anxiety, low self-esteem, and chronic insecurity (Rydell & Bringle, 2007).
Falling in love and building an attachment are a wonderful basis for a healthy relationship, but keep in mind that staying in a relationship (or, for that matter, choosing to start one) is often based on more than satisfaction and feeling good in another person’s presence. Models of relationship success (such as Rusbult’s investment model) show that the staying power of relationships takes mutual investment and commitment. If love is passion, security, and emotional comfort, commitment is the necessary decision made within one’s cultural and social contexts to be with that person.

I didn't write this, just thought I'd give a scientific answer.
Reference:- https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/meet-catch-and-keep/201406/how-do-you-know-if-youre-in-love?collection=1070853

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Re: What is Love?
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Re: What is Love?
« Reply #25 on: August 22, 2015, 05:39:21 PM »
Haaaaannnn mainu patta..!!!

Love is Mc Donalds

Coz ohi tan kehnde M LOVIN IT..!!!

Yayyyyyy mystery solved  :balle:

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Re: What is Love?
« Reply #26 on: August 23, 2015, 01:21:04 AM »



Zirwa aur Humza akathay university main pertay thay. dono class fellow thay. Dono aik dosray ko pasand kertay thay. Dono ka taluq azad khayal garano say thaa. Esse liyay dono nay ghar main apnay mustaqbil kay baray baat nahi ke thee. Dono nay soach rakha thaa kay Masters kernay kay foran baad ghar baat keray gay aur shaadi ker lay gay.

Dono ganto baeth kay suhanay mustaqbil kay khaab buntay rehtay thay. Zirwa ko pernay ka kuch zayadaeh he shoak thaa. Woh chaahti thee kay masters kernay kay baad M. Phill keray ge aur phir Ph.D. Humza ka eraada thaa kay woh masters kernay kay foran baad apnay daddy ko join ker lay ga family business main.

Humza say yeh bardaasht nahi hota thaa kay woh Zirwa say aik lamhay kay liyay bey khabar hu. Dono university main jatay apnay time say pehlay thay leaqin waapis bohat late aatay thay. Baaqi ka sara din messaging ya calls ke jati. Zirwa ko Humza ka aesa rawaeya acha lagta thaa. Woh us say aksar poachti rehti thee kay kya woh typical mardo ke tarah badlay ga tu nahi? Humza kehta thaa her beta howa lamha meray dil main tumhari mohabbat berhata hai. Main khud say begana hu sakta hu leaqin tum say nahi. Meray din ke ibtada tum say aur ekhtataam be tum he say hota. Tum say hamesha aaj ke tarah pyar aur us ka ezhaar keru ga. Zirwa Humza ke aese baatain sun ker nihaal hu jati thee. Dono nay saath jenay mernay ke qasmain khae thee.

Qismat kay khael koe nahi janta. Hota wahi hai ju Khuda chaahta. Ensaan kuch soachta hai aur hota kuch aur hai. Es say pehlay kay Humza ka masters ka result aata aur woh ghar baat kerta, aik din us kay  nay ussay bataya kay un logo nay us ka rishta taa ker deya hai. Humza nay magher mummy� Tu us ke mummy kehnay lagi kay magher wagher kuch nahi. Humain pata kay humara beta ferma bardaar hai esse liyay hum nay tumhara rishta tumhay bataey beghair taa ker deya. Shaadi kay cards taqseem kiyay ja chukay hain aaj.

Humza sakht pershaan thaa aur us nay Zirwa say es topic pay baat ke. Zirwa nay kaha kay woh apnay maa baap ke ezat per aanch na anay day. Us kay baad us nay phone band ker deya leaqin apnay aanso na roak paye. Zirwa apnay totay howay dil kay saath dosray shehar mazeed pernay chali gae.
Humza ke shaadi ko sirf 2 saal howay thay us ke biwi car accident main mer gae. Humza pershaan rehta thaa aur dosray shehar chala gya thaa. 1 din us ke bazar main Zirwa say mulaqat hu gae. Dono nay aik dosray kay baray poacha tu Humza nay bataya kay us ke biwi mer gae hai. Zirwa nay kaha kay us nay shaadi he nahi ke. Yeh qismat kay khael thay kay woh dobara phir mil gay thay aur phir dono nay shaadi ker le.  :happy:

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Re: What is Love?
« Reply #27 on: August 23, 2015, 02:26:35 AM »


Zirwa aur Humza akathay university main pertay thay. dono class fellow thay. Dono aik dosray ko pasand kertay thay. Dono ka taluq azad khayal garano say thaa. Esse liyay dono nay ghar main apnay mustaqbil kay baray baat nahi ke thee. Dono nay soach rakha thaa kay Masters kernay kay foran baad ghar baat keray gay aur shaadi ker lay gay.

Dono ganto baeth kay suhanay mustaqbil kay khaab buntay rehtay thay. Zirwa ko pernay ka kuch zayadaeh he shoak thaa. Woh chaahti thee kay masters kernay kay baad M. Phill keray ge aur phir Ph.D. Humza ka eraada thaa kay woh masters kernay kay foran baad apnay daddy ko join ker lay ga family business main.

Humza say yeh bardaasht nahi hota thaa kay woh Zirwa say aik lamhay kay liyay bey khabar hu. Dono university main jatay apnay time say pehlay thay leaqin waapis bohat late aatay thay. Baaqi ka sara din messaging ya calls ke jati. Zirwa ko Humza ka aesa rawaeya acha lagta thaa. Woh us say aksar poachti rehti thee kay kya woh typical mardo ke tarah badlay ga tu nahi? Humza kehta thaa her beta howa lamha meray dil main tumhari mohabbat berhata hai. Main khud say begana hu sakta hu leaqin tum say nahi. Meray din ke ibtada tum say aur ekhtataam be tum he say hota. Tum say hamesha aaj ke tarah pyar aur us ka ezhaar keru ga. Zirwa Humza ke aese baatain sun ker nihaal hu jati thee. Dono nay saath jenay mernay ke qasmain khae thee.

Qismat kay khael koe nahi janta. Hota wahi hai ju Khuda chaahta. Ensaan kuch soachta hai aur hota kuch aur hai. Es say pehlay kay Humza ka masters ka result aata aur woh ghar baat kerta, aik din us kay  nay ussay bataya kay un logo nay us ka rishta taa ker deya hai. Humza nay magher mummy� Tu us ke mummy kehnay lagi kay magher wagher kuch nahi. Humain pata kay humara beta ferma bardaar hai esse liyay hum nay tumhara rishta tumhay bataey beghair taa ker deya. Shaadi kay cards taqseem kiyay ja chukay hain aaj.

Humza sakht pershaan thaa aur us nay Zirwa say es topic pay baat ke. Zirwa nay kaha kay woh apnay maa baap ke ezat per aanch na anay day. Us kay baad us nay phone band ker deya leaqin apnay aanso na roak paye. Zirwa apnay totay howay dil kay saath dosray shehar mazeed pernay chali gae.
Humza ke shaadi ko sirf 2 saal howay thay us ke biwi car accident main mer gae. Humza pershaan rehta thaa aur dosray shehar chala gya thaa. 1 din us ke bazar main Zirwa say mulaqat hu gae. Dono nay aik dosray kay baray poacha tu Humza nay bataya kay us ke biwi mer gae hai. Zirwa nay kaha kay us nay shaadi he nahi ke. Yeh qismat kay khael thay kay woh dobara phir mil gay thay aur phir dono nay shaadi ker le.  :happy:
very nice story
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