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« on: October 14, 2010, 12:38:20 PM »

What do you guys think of people who continue their pre-marriage affairs after marriage as well?

Meaning if a person had bf/gf prior to them getting married, they still continue to have a relationship with that person.




I feel like it's a shame, don't get married if you are going to continue to see the other person. Not fair to the spouse, you not only end up ruining his/her life but of families from both sides, if it does become public.

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Post Marriage Affairs
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Re: Post Marriage Affairs
« Reply #1 on: October 14, 2010, 01:04:11 PM »
marriage sab to vadia cheej aa os ton pele te after relation sab gand hai  :yawn:

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Re: Post Marriage Affairs
« Reply #2 on: October 14, 2010, 01:23:32 PM »
je tu enu poll bnondi, sarea ne No affairs kena si
lol tu os question da jawab puchdi jeda jawab iko hona

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Re: Post Marriage Affairs
« Reply #3 on: October 14, 2010, 01:36:37 PM »
je tu enu poll bnondi, sarea ne No affairs kena si
lol tu os question da jawab puchdi jeda jawab iko hona

and hence the reason for no poll. Just need to hear people's viwes. Morally, we are aware of the appropriate bahavior. Par ajj kal janta de dimaag kharaab ne.

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Re: Post Marriage Affairs
« Reply #4 on: October 14, 2010, 01:39:17 PM »
yr ethe koi sach nhi bolda hun tu sachi poll karoni c chori chori eda kon daso koi nhi

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Re: Post Marriage Affairs
« Reply #5 on: October 14, 2010, 03:31:44 PM »


I just hope certain audience de khaane vich kujh pae jawe.  /:)

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Re: Post Marriage Affairs
« Reply #6 on: October 14, 2010, 03:49:50 PM »
sahi keha noxo aj kal janta badi confuse state ch rehndi aa ki right aa te ki wrong pta nhi hunda

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Re: Post Marriage Affairs
« Reply #7 on: October 14, 2010, 05:24:07 PM »
Noxious r u looking for an answer to solve ur personal life problems  :hihpanga: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

lolz
neways i feel like thr no use getting married if ur gona keep in touch with ur post relationships ...wen u get married it should be a commitment as if u were born again..but this time u belong to someone and thats the only person who shall be apart of ur life in each and every way...keeping ur post relationships alive after being married with somone else u are ruining 3 lives urs ..ur ex...ur new life partners as well...no one will be happy...so just dont get married if ur gona do crap like dat!!!!!!!!!!!!!!   :angry: :angry: :angry:

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Re: Post Marriage Affairs
« Reply #8 on: October 15, 2010, 12:17:23 AM »
 :loll:


Um it happens.

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Re: Post Marriage Affairs
« Reply #9 on: October 15, 2010, 12:55:57 PM »
Noxious r u looking for an answer to solve ur personal life problems  :hihpanga: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

which one of my statements made you think, I'm having personal life problems and for which I was looking for solutions on an online forum? I would really like to hear, how that thought came about.

If you ask my personal opinion, ever heard of trasnference theory? I feel like,I've hit a nerve. :pagel:

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Re: Post Marriage Affairs
« Reply #10 on: October 15, 2010, 01:18:17 PM »
i dont really understand why anyone would stay in touch with their ex ..there is a reason they are ex LOL! and if ur so attached(or in love) with that person why get into new relationship? thats like ruinin ur own n someone else's life on purpose ... especially in punjabi culture u dont really marry one person its the whole family thing..the whole family is affected by the actions one take :happy:

its simple...if your not over ur ex...dont get into new relationship until ur mind setting is settled :happy:

vese ajj kal janta eni care ni kardi what others have to say or how it affects others around them (sell dia fishaaaa)

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Re: Post Marriage Affairs
« Reply #11 on: October 15, 2010, 01:37:59 PM »
ppl who have marriege affairs die a painfull deaths :rockon:

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Re: Post Marriage Affairs
« Reply #12 on: October 15, 2010, 01:46:39 PM »
ppl who have marriege affairs die a painfull deaths :rockon:

I second that  :loll:

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Re: Post Marriage Affairs
« Reply #13 on: October 15, 2010, 03:07:13 PM »
which one of my statements made you think, I'm having personal life problems and for which I was looking for solutions on an online forum? I would really like to hear, how that thought came about.

If you ask my personal opinion, ever heard of trasnference theory? I feel like,I've hit a nerve. :pagel:


lolz hahahahaha yes i have  :blink:

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Re: Post Marriage Affairs
« Reply #14 on: October 16, 2010, 01:04:11 AM »
dil marr ja greji boli jani a

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Re: Post Marriage Affairs
« Reply #15 on: October 16, 2010, 04:43:22 AM »
Yaar mainu ni greji baahli aundi

 apniya khariya khariya gallan ne.

Pehli gal aj kal loka ne pyar de naam nu hi daag la ta. Koi kise naal pyar ni karda matlabi aa sare. Aj kal lok apne partner nu eh ehsaas davanude rehnde main tere layi eh kita eh kita. Koi kise di khushi vaste apne ap nu dukh ni de sakda. Aj kal edha de person ya ta haini ya bhaut ghat aa. Vaise pyar da matlab hi eh hunda apne pyar nu khush rakhna chahe jidha marji rakho . Ap dukhi hovo jo marji karo ohnu eh ehsaas na hon diyo.

Mere ik friend di example dasda. Mere friend di Gf da viah ho giya. Oh ohnu aje v milda eh keh k k main mar ju kuch kha k . Viah vani kraunda.

Hun ik gal daso j oh kudi de husband nu pata lagu. Oh kudi di jindagi ta kharab ho ju. Eh kaahda pyar hoyia. Naale jinna ne ohnu 25 saal pyar dita. Ohna nu dukh dinda, na viah kra k.

Bhut lecture de ta hana?

:D 
oh love hi kaahda jo true na hove

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Re: Post Marriage Affairs
« Reply #16 on: October 16, 2010, 07:27:30 AM »

What do you guys think of people who continue their pre-marriage affairs after marriage as well?

Meaning if a person had bf/gf prior to them getting married, they still continue to have a relationship with that person.




I feel like it's a shame, don't get married if you are going to continue to see the other person. Not fair to the spouse, you not only end up ruining his/her life but of families from both sides, if it does become public.
v pata nahi...apna te viah nahi hoyaa..so no experience ...lol

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Re: Post Marriage Affairs
« Reply #17 on: October 16, 2010, 07:37:31 AM »
v pata nahi...apna te viah nahi hoyaa..so no experience ...lol

na tu ki kehna chahuna jine reply kita onha de vyah hoyo aa....
menu taan pta vi nahin mera kado hoya

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Re: Post Marriage Affairs
« Reply #18 on: October 16, 2010, 07:46:08 AM »
main ik topic likhiya c love 2 prostitution walll k afair theek ai viah theek ai per love nu edan veopaar na banao soch samz k kise de nede howo viah tonh baad de relation eh te badi vadi pro ai esada koi hall ni labhda arenge marrige te koi gall ni shayd koi kammi reh gi hove love marrige waliyan da v eho haal ai after marige shame full.....tnx 4 this topic

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Re: Post Marriage Affairs
« Reply #19 on: October 16, 2010, 07:09:14 PM »

Mere ik friend di example dasda. Mere friend di Gf da viah ho giya. Oh ohnu aje v milda eh keh k k main mar ju kuch kha k . Viah vani kraunda.Hun ik gal daso j oh kudi de husband nu pata lagu. Oh kudi di jindagi ta kharab ho ju. Eh kaahda pyar hoyia. Naale jinna ne ohnu 25 saal pyar dita. Ohna nu dukh dinda, na viah kra k.



eho jehe ghinaune kam karan nalo marrna hi changa :pagel:

 

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