Kachi umre edda ee hunda beeba ji

eh sab kuch saade culture ch ae apne family lyi thode bahote sacrifices krna  :D:
I understand this concept fully,even kids from Pind de sarkaari school to the suburbs of Chandigarh understand it.  :D:
But, if it's analyzed to the finest of its details then it shows the cowardliness of the person not to stand for what he/she loves and he/she rather enjoys the mere comfort of cowardice then to act courageously for what he loves. ON the other hand, the person cares for his/her parents pride for parents their children are their pride. But this is an illusion to some extent. However, Parents possess no right to interfere in their children's freewill after they turn 18.  I :laugh: when they interfere in their child's free will I swear I find them more childish than their own child.



Something similar should be applied to Immature Parents so they could realize they are being too childish,delusional and coward to oppose their children's decision:

"Don't point fingers and blame your children for you lost something precious you loved more than your life, like respect ,pride and such because of your  growing up children did something which you consider immoral but in reality it's not....." If you lost something like your pride and respect just because your child did something wrong then it's not your pride and respect. It's your illusion. Understanding of Pride and Respect goes beyond anyone's imagination.
I also understand the girls being the Pride of her parents, I can also debunk this. :D: It was never in our culture, such things are taking place because of the challenged stupid mentality of people.

Lastly, to the original poster,Stylish Kaur Ji Kyo bechare mundeya nu kuri bnaun te ture paye o agle janam lyi  :D: :D: :D: :D: :D:..chddho pare, Munde like ME samjh sakde aa kuriyan di majbooriyan,te khud nu kade v Push ni krde kuri te or kuri de decision di disrespect ni krde,je kuri diyan kuj majbooriyan ne ta main puraniyan punjabi movies wala jatt ban ke kuri nu ghar toh ni bhajaun jaavana ga modey te gandaasa rakh ke  :D: and  fer walk away karn di himmat rakhda haan without even saying a single word  :smile: cuz I'll respect her decision and love isn't to be forced or pushed upon.  :blah:

OH sowie. :D: Stylish kaur, aakhri paragraph padh lo bas baaki da shad do.
And yeah overthinking ni krni chahidi as Roopal said.  :mean:

Exactly.

Seems like it is time to move on....simple solution

I read through that essay, and I agreed with it, shahbaash :ok:

Actually the problem is ..Too many people are trying to find the right person instead of being the right person.

Koi galt sahi ni hunda it all depends on our thinking ..depends on u ..positive sochna or negative !!

PREACH IT BABE !  :pray: