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How strict are Punjabi parents?
« on: September 13, 2010, 04:32:09 PM »
In regards to their children dating a Non-Indian?

My BF told me his parents are pretty nice, they live in India. And obviously they've never met me. Only my BF's cousin and his bro knows about me and they're cool with me and him dating. Just hoping it'll be the same with the parents.

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How strict are Punjabi parents?
« on: September 13, 2010, 04:32:09 PM »

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Re: How strict are Punjabi parents?
« Reply #1 on: September 13, 2010, 07:51:19 PM »
Thats nice that your BF's family is so coperative....Its quite different in different families in same punjabi culture.. But i don't know about other families.. But my family is really very strict. Even i don't know they are much aware about this dating system or not..I guess not.. :pagel:... I think they wont allow me to date an Indian, forget about Non- Indian.. /:) :pagel: :pagel:

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Re: How strict are Punjabi parents?
« Reply #2 on: September 13, 2010, 07:56:40 PM »
Thats nice that your BF's family is so coperative....Its quite different in different families in same punjabi culture.. But i don't know about other families.. But my family is really very strict. Even i don't know they are much aware about this dating system or not..I guess not.. :pagel:... I think they wont allow me to date an Indian, forget about Non- Indian.. /:) :pagel: :pagel:
:loll: That last line is pretty hardcore. The thing is he wants me go with him to visit his family and it might be little awkward because they don't even know a thing about me.

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Re: How strict are Punjabi parents?
« Reply #3 on: September 13, 2010, 07:58:43 PM »
:loll: That last line is pretty hardcore. The thing is he wants me go with him to visit his family and it might be little awkward because they don't even know a thing about me.

Oh you should. You will be a VIP there.  :happy:

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Re: How strict are Punjabi parents?
« Reply #4 on: September 13, 2010, 08:04:45 PM »
Oh you should. You will be a VIP there.  :happy:

I agree  to this!

Some families are very strict specially one from Miss Kudrat's pind!

Nah they are all fine. My family.. damn they ask me why dont u find a non indian girl friend hahaha.. they dont really care about any religion

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Re: How strict are Punjabi parents?
« Reply #5 on: September 13, 2010, 08:08:44 PM »
Oh you should. You will be a VIP there.  :happy:
I hardly think so.  :happy: They might kick me out of their house.


I agree  to this!

Some families are very strict specially one from Miss Kudrat's pind!

Nah they are all fine. My family.. damn they ask me why dont u find a non indian girl friend hahaha.. they dont really care about any religion

You're lucky. How i'd love to hear that come out of my BF's mouth.

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Re: How strict are Punjabi parents?
« Reply #6 on: September 13, 2010, 08:10:12 PM »
Some families are very strict specially one from Miss Kudrat's pind!(Village) :pagel:
I didn't expect this response from u Codename 47ji.. :sad: :sad:

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You're lucky. How i'd love to hear that come out of my BF's mouth.

BTW Codename47ji is single and looking for his LAILA  :pagel: :pagel:



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Re: How strict are Punjabi parents?
« Reply #7 on: September 13, 2010, 08:12:45 PM »
I hardly think so.  :happy: They might kick me out of their house.

You're lucky. How i'd love to hear that come out of my BF's mouth.

Not really they wont kick you out!

Damn people have misconceptions about indian families. Its not how they show you in TV/ Movies.


Kudrati ji Sorry :) I was kidding ..

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Re: How strict are Punjabi parents?
« Reply #8 on: September 13, 2010, 08:18:02 PM »
I didn't expect this response from u Codename 47ji.. :sad: :sad:

BTW Codename47ji is single and looking for his LAILA  :pagel: :pagel:



"Laila" meaning GF?

Not really they wont kick you out!

Damn people have misconceptions about indian families. Its not how they show you in TV/ Movies.


Kudrati ji Sorry :) I was kidding ..
His brothers were both put on arranged marriage so i just wondered.

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Re: How strict are Punjabi parents?
« Reply #9 on: September 13, 2010, 08:26:27 PM »
"Laila" meaning GF?
His brothers were both put on arranged marriage so i just wondered.

LAila - Majnu was Indian love couple same as Romeo and Juliet .

haha kudrat ji.

I am in Aus and people come and talk to my parents about my marriage to hook me up with someone  :happy:
thats why i m not going to india cuz I wont agree to it

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Re: How strict are Punjabi parents?
« Reply #10 on: September 13, 2010, 08:34:59 PM »
I hardly think so.  :happy: They might kick me out of their house.



They wont.. iF they do.. Drop by my place .. I have a house in punjab too. We make sure the VIP Part is completed well done :happy:

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Re: How strict are Punjabi parents?
« Reply #11 on: September 13, 2010, 09:35:49 PM »
They wont.. iF they do.. Drop by my place .. I have a house in punjab too. We make sure the VIP Part is completed well done :happy:

hahaha .. ashqi marno na hateo veer :happy:

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Re: How strict are Punjabi parents?
« Reply #12 on: September 13, 2010, 09:49:40 PM »
:loll: amlu ohnu chade oh already commited aa.... :laugh:

mlpb punjabi parents really awesome... before many years ago parents anger like diz relationship  but now everthing iz changin.... u dont worry u should go dere....

wen u ll go dere??? n where in punjab????

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Re: How strict are Punjabi parents?
« Reply #13 on: September 14, 2010, 01:59:35 AM »
LAila - Majnu was Indian love couple same as Romeo and Juliet .

haha kudrat ji.

I am in Aus and people come and talk to my parents about my marriage to hook me up with someone  :happy:
thats why i m not going to india cuz I wont agree to it
Oh i see. And geez, you're the definition of a real man i must say.  =D>

They wont.. iF they do.. Drop by my place .. I have a house in punjab too. We make sure the VIP Part is completed well done :happy:
Nice!!  :dumlak: Not sure if this is supposed to be the drumming smiley.

:loll: amlu ohnu chade oh already commited aa.... :laugh:

mlpb punjabi parents really awesome... before many years ago parents anger like diz relationship  but now everthing iz changin.... u dont worry u should go dere....

wen u ll go dere??? n where in punjab????
That's sort of what my BF told me as well but he said he wasn't very sure if his dad would approve. He hasn't set a date yet. I'm not even sure if i'm going or if he's going to go without me. We're only just planning.

 

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