Author Topic: Khudkhushi (Read 14371 times)

rabbdabanda · « **on:** January 31, 2013, 06:33:38 PM »

sat shri akal dosto!

eh gal mere dimag wich bahut hi samhe ton ghum rahi c... koi syaana vyakti nahi milea ya fer main labhan di koshish nahi keeti si..eh swaal puchhan nu... par ajj ajit akhbaar padh rea c online tan ek chandigarh di khabar sahmne aayi...jo k fb te v ajit walea ne pics de nal upload kiti hai...
oh khbar kujh eda si k peo te puttar dowan ne apni maa de marn de gham ch khudkhushi kar layi...
eda di hi ik khabar hor si peo di maut de gham ch ik puttar ne khudkhushi kar layi... kujh khaa k.... te ohdi maa nu yakeen hi naa aawe k osda puttar mar chukka hai...oh 4 din tak ghare hi bed te pea reha.. 4 din tak osdi maa osnu bulaundi , uthaundi , hilaundi par oh naah kujh bolda na hillda ... akheer osne ohnu ghadees ke ghar de vehre wich le anda te keha k jad tak tu bolda nahi odon tak ehnu ghar nahi waddan daugi...
eh sabh padh k bahut hi gehra dukh pahunchea.. rooh kurlaa uthi... akhan nam ho gian te ohi swaal kuredya gya... k kyun karde ne lok?

kyu ?

eh vi rabb di marzi hundi hai? khudkhushian v rabb likhda hai kismat wich?
ya fer eh rabb di marzi de khilaaf hai?

main ajtak sunea te ehi aa k rabb di marzi de khilaaf hunda hai...par dil jeha dagmagaunda hai sochan laggeya... smjh nahi aundi ke eh ki hai?

please apo apne vichar dasso!

dhanwaad

Punjabi Janta Forums - Janta Di Pasand · « **on:** January 31, 2013, 06:33:38 PM »

Deleted User · « **Reply #1 on:** January 31, 2013, 06:42:07 PM »

jina loka da dimag wash ho janda oh kudhkushi kar lende

rabbdabanda · « **Reply #2 on:** January 31, 2013, 06:46:51 PM »

Quote from: Pr€€t on January 31, 2013, 06:42:07 PM

jina loka da dimag wash ho janda oh kudhkushi kar lende

swaal dobara padh

Miss K · « **Reply #3 on:** January 31, 2013, 08:52:53 PM »

This is an interesting topic. Main bhi ehs bahre socheya but I can't figure it out and mere kol jada knowledge tah hain nahi par ena jaroor keh sakdi aa ke Guru Granth Sahib Ji wich likiya hain ke when a person is born the number of his or her breaths is known to God just like sanjog is and nothing can change that. I also believe that no one has the right to take some one's life besides God. When it comes to situations like suicide and murders it sometimes gets overwhelming to understand why this happened and could it have been prevented. But one thing I've learned with time is that having faith in God is very powerful. Jo bhi hunda aa God knows what's happening and what will happen and it's best to just accept it.

Deleted User · « **Reply #4 on:** January 31, 2013, 08:58:42 PM »

Quote from: Pr€€t on January 31, 2013, 06:42:07 PM

jina loka da dimag wash ho janda oh kudhkushi kar lende

te +arh ke hi keha har jagah rabb nu blame karna band karo

rabbdabanda · « **Reply #5 on:** February 01, 2013, 03:21:19 AM »

Quote from: Miss K on January 31, 2013, 08:52:53 PM

This is an interesting topic. Main bhi ehs bahre socheya but I can't figure it out and mere kol jada knowledge tah hain nahi par ena jaroor keh sakdi aa ke Guru Granth Sahib Ji wich likiya hain ke when a person is born the number of his or her breaths is known to God just like sanjog is and nothing can change that. I also believe that no one has the right to take some one's life besides God. When it comes to situations like suicide and murders it sometimes gets overwhelming to understand why this happened and could it have been prevented. But one thing I've learned with time is that having faith in God is very powerful. Jo bhi hunda aa God knows what's happening and what will happen and it's best to just accept it.

yeah true dat! meri v ehi thinking aa!
banda din maheene saal nahi likha k leauda! saahan da lekhan hunda hai!
eh v gal hai k rabb jo krda sahi hi krda hai!
har swaal de wich hi jwaab hunda hai! par soch dayire wich nahi aa rahi eh gal!
may be kise nu te pata hi hou!

te ik gal hor , kayi wari eh v sochda hunda k jo log chheti marr jande! kayi bachpan ch hichal wassde ! kujh jawani ch! wekhya jawe eh lokan da kise nal koi vair nahi hunda! jina time v rehnde sabh de pyaare hi hunde! tahi lok akdar keh dende k change lokan nal hi kyu marha hunda! but ki eh log rabb de jyada nethe hunde honge!? jinha nu oh rabb da naam jappan da time v nai denda sochan samjhan da k oh rabb nu paa skde! os ton pehlan hi bula lenda jad tak bande ne life de wich sambhalna hunda! ki ohna nu mukti mil jandi?
bahut gunjala aaa aukhiyan! chheti nahi khulldian! par khol k main rehnia hi aa !

ki kise nu pata kujh ede bare? :waitin:

σн мαん gαω∂ Jค┼┼ ƒєя αgєуα · « **Reply #6 on:** February 01, 2013, 08:46:25 AM »

Rabb de nazariye naal ta pata nahi par je bande de nazariye naal dekhiye ta paap ya buzdili hi a kise cheej nu haar jaana vadia gal a par haar de darr to khedna shad dena ta paap hi a buzdili hi a zindagi ch maadhe taim de darr to zindagi nu jeona shadna mere hsaab naal ta galat hi a.

Gharry · « **Reply #7 on:** February 01, 2013, 10:14:09 AM »

buhet he changa topic a eda dia news read ker k her koi dukhi ho janda ,per meri ta e soch a k je appa rabb nu mande a te e rabb di marji a kyu k jo rabb nu manda o jado v burra ja changa hunda ehi kihnda k rabb di marji c bakki je kismit wich likhea ta loki asman tu digg k v bach jande je marna likhea hunda ta koi bacha nhi sakda i think rab di marji bina kujj nhi hunda

sᴀɴɪᴀ · « **Reply #8 on:** February 01, 2013, 11:55:32 AM »

kayi wari lokki khudksuhi kaar beth de aa kyun ki ohna nu pata nahi hunda how to handle things. ohna nu pata nahi lagda ke ohs ghum u kidda sambhalan, kidda deal karn ke ohna de dil de nazdeek jo bhi si oh hoon reha nahi. kayi wari ehda hunda ke koi problem vich fasseya hunda and they dont know how to get out of it. ohna nu ehi ik solution labh di aa. oh banda andro andri ghut ghut ke marda rehnda and kayi wari ohna kol koi hunda bhi nahi jehnu oh kuch bhi das sake jehde naal dil di gaal kar sake, apne app baare kuch share kar sake. ohna nu phir ehi ik solution labh di aa. a quick way out, in a certain way. eh solution nahi hundi but ohna di mental state eho jehi hundi aa ke ohna nu pata nahi lagda ke kuch hor bhi ho sakda to avoid the pain. mere dad de friend ne khudhkushi kithi si and he was close to my dad. mere dad bhi kehnde si ke oh chup chap rehnda si, ohnu tensions bahut si. like kayi wari tensions bahut kamjor kar dindiya bande nu. ohdi mentality phir othe hi aake rukh jandi aa ke bas, hoon kuch nahi ho sakda.

menu ehda lagda ke jehde bande di umaar pehla hi mukk jandi aa oh vapas jaroor aunda kisse hor roop vich kisse hor time vich navi soch le ke. meri family vich meri bhua 18 years di maar gayi si. like kayi wari menu lokki kehnde aa ke main ohna wargi lagdi aa, shoti hundi jidda oh saareya nu pyaar karde si ohda hi kardi aa. sade vich bahut similarites aa. main eh nahi kehndi that i am her. im just saying ke roop, soch, sabh kuch badal janda, bas kuch nah kuch ta reh janda oho jeha.

ik maa layi apni aulaad gwana bahut aukha hunda. ehs maa ne ta ik wari gwaya putt apna, oh mawa mahan aa jehdiya rojj apni aulaad nu nasheya kaar ke til til marde dekh diya aa.

suicide, drugs, an escape.

raab tuhanu dharti te pejj dinda naseeb banda app likh da. je ohde naal judo rawo ta harek mushkil ahsan lagdi aa ohda anchaal shadh do ta jindagi ohda hi adhi reh jandi aa.

rabbdabanda · « **Reply #9 on:** February 01, 2013, 02:49:32 PM »

hmm!
sarean ne apni soch mugabik jwaab ditte! wadia lga padh ke!
par mera mann haula nahi hoea !
eh te pata lag gya k lok khudkhushi kyu krde!
eh v theek aa rabb de marzi bina patta v nahi hillda! jo kujh hunda ohi krda!
bande de wass ki cheej aa!
kayi case eda de vi hunde aa k bande badi koshish krde khudkhushi krn de! bahut jyada drugs lai lainde ! ya kujh hor par fer vi kayi wari bach jande!
eh ek zarriya ban janda maut layi! pichle karma de kar k vi ho janda!

par second swaal aje vi smjh nahi aunda!
rabb jinha nj chhoti umare kol bula lenda! ki ohna nu mukti mil jandi ?!
kayi wari sochda huna k shyd kujh lekkhe dekhe reh jande hon!
mukti ton baad vi kujh karam ajehe rehnde hon! jinha da bhugtan karn layi ihna roohan nu wapis auna painda! es layi shyd jad karam poore hunde hon ! rabb kol chheti wapis bulaun da ikko ikk tareeka te saukha tareeka ehi howe kise da accident krwa k! khudkhushi krwa ke! wapis bula lenda howe!
jihde nal jehde lok ohna roohan de nal judde hon duniyaavi taur te! ohna de jo pichle karam hon! ohna di saza kh roohan de jkdum ohna di zindagi cho chale jaan de gham wich mildi howe! shyd kujh ajehian roohan de karma nu pattern wich rakhan layi or hisaab barabar krn lai rabb dujjian roohan nu kujh pal layi ohna di zindagi ch bhej k bula lenda howe te jihde nal ohna di baki di zindagi ohi dukh takleefan ch nikaldi howe jo ohna de purane karma de nateeje hon!

sach hi kihea syaanea ne "ohdian ohio jaane"
asin smjh skde hunde te ohda roop naa ban jande!
jiwe sartaaj ne kihea
" eh gunjala dimaag diyan khulldian ihdon .. jad parda khudaayi wala faash hunda ae"
sochan wich paa dendia eh gallan !

rabbdabanda · « **Reply #10 on:** February 11, 2014, 01:22:39 AM »

hmmm... kine swaal si odon mere dimaag ch... hun padh ke lagda...ehsaas hunda ke... insaan sari umar sachi sikhda hi rehnda... soch de wich kina thehraav te soch da dayira kina wadda hunda.. realize nai krda insan par thode jehe time wich vi soch wich bahut jyada farq painda rehnda... :smile:

★▄ ▁YeNk--E ▁ ▄★ · « **Reply #11 on:** February 11, 2014, 04:50:12 PM »

hahahhahahaha :D: dekhi ji mein thode sarya nalon vakhre type da janvar han :D: :D: :D: :D: :D:
khodkhushi aa k khodkushi

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:D: :D: :D: vese ji mein apna jera chota jya dimag ohi vartna baki te jinda la k rakhya :rockon: :rockon:
mein ji khod khushi eda hi kar lena
menu tan ji janvar v nal lag k khloje thoda pyar da response dave ene nal menu khushi ho jandi :D: :D:
eda hi bas khod khusi kar lena :D: :D: :D: :D:

rabbdabanda · « **Reply #12 on:** February 22, 2014, 05:07:55 AM »

Quote from: Top Da Shokeen on February 11, 2014, 04:50:12 PM

hahahhahahaha :D: dekhi ji mein thode sarya nalon vakhre type da janvar han :D: :D: :D: :D: :D:
khodkhushi aa k khodkushi : :
:D: :D: :D: vese ji mein apna jera chota jya dimag ohi vartna baki te jinda la k rakhya :rockon: :rockon:
mein ji khod khushi eda hi kar lena
menu tan ji janvar v nal lag k khloje thoda pyar da response dave ene nal menu khushi ho jandi :D: :D:
eda hi bas khod khusi kar lena :D: :D: :D: :D:

spam kyu karde hunde o yaar

°◆SáŅj◆° · « **Reply #13 on:** February 22, 2014, 05:27:23 AM »

hmm.. dis is a very tough question.. n i believe poore din raat v debate karo tan v ek nateeje te nahi pohnch sakde
i personally believe ke jo v hunda rab he karvaunda buh I've also heard and read k God always gives you two choices good & bad.. ohna de vicho
tusi kehri ek choice pick karde ohde hisaab nal he tuhadi agge di zindgi chaldi a..but the tricky thing is kehnde a k jine k
saah rab ne likhe hunde ne ohne he leh sakde a buh again i feel suicide is against God's will kyun ke I feel Baba Ji kade v
tuhade kolo khud apni zindgi nahi khatam karvaunge jado k eh sab ohna de hath wass a..
hor hadse thru tuhade saah lainge buh khud insaan de hathan thru ose insaan di zindgi nahi khatam karvaunge..
kyun ke Life is a gift from God so we can
make a difference in this world and HE would never want us to insult it by committing a suicide.

(again dis is jus my personal point view.. kaafi galt v ho sakda .. cuz main app poori tarah sure nahi eh suicide wali gal toh
bas my heart just tells me k its against God's will.)

rabbdabanda · « **Reply #14 on:** February 22, 2014, 05:48:37 AM »

Quote from: °◆SaNj◇° on February 22, 2014, 05:27:23 AM

hmm.. dis is a very tough question.. n i believe poore din raat v debate karo tan v ek nateeje te nahi pohnch sakde
i personally believe ke jo v hunda rab he karvaunda buh I've also heard and read k God always gives you two choices good & bad.. ohna de vicho
tusi kehri ek choice pick karde ohde hisaab nal he tuhadi agge di zindgi chaldi a..but the tricky thing is kehnde a k jine k
saah rab ne likhe hunde ne ohne he leh sakde a buh again i feel suicide is against God's will kyun ke I feel Baba Ji kade v
tuhade kolo khud apni zindgi nahi khatam karvaunge jado k eh sab ohna de hath wass a..
hor hadse thru tuhade saah lainge buh khud insaan de hathan thru ose insaan di zindgi nahi khatam karvaunge..
kyun ke Life is a gift from God so we can
make a difference in this world and HE would never want us to insult it by committing a suicide.

(again dis is jus my personal point view.. kaafi galt v ho sakda .. cuz main app poori tarah sure nahi eh suicide wali gal toh
bas my heart just tells me k its against God's will.)

yeah.. you r right!, i think...

filhaal, es nateeje te pahunchea main hun tak ke jo lok khudkhushi krde aa, ohna nu lagda k asin es dukhandi nagri ton mukt ho jange. par ohna nu fer auna hi painda houga. kudrat da eh rule change nahi ho sakda. koi es ton bhaj nahi sakda. karma da bhugtaan karna hi painda. es lai, situation nu rabb da bhaana mann ke challiye te sabh kujh hi sahi..sacha.. te jayiz laggega..

source : personal experience.

°◆SáŅj◆° · « **Reply #15 on:** February 22, 2014, 06:12:49 AM »

Hanji eh te hai.. n.. plus har ek de apne apne point of views ne

Quote from: Agent✯ne on February 22, 2014, 05:48:37 AM

yeah.. you r right!, i think...

filhaal, es nateeje te pahunchea main hun tak ke jo lok khudkhushi krde aa, ohna nu lagda k asin es dukhandi nagri ton mukt ho jange. par ohna nu fer auna hi painda houga. kudrat da eh rule change nahi ho sakda. koi es ton bhaj nahi sakda. karma da bhugtaan karna hi painda. es lai, situation nu rabb da bhaana mann ke challiye te sabh kujh hi sahi..sacha.. te jayiz laggega..

source : personal experience.

Anamika · « **Reply #16 on:** July 24, 2014, 11:25:50 AM »

Nice topic .... par conclusion samj ni aya ....

khudkushi banda apni marzi naal karda ke os di maut auni hi uda hundi ?

Gujjar NO1 · « **Reply #17 on:** July 24, 2014, 11:28:14 AM »

Quote from: RooH on July 24, 2014, 11:25:50 AM

Nice topic .... par conclusion samj ni aya ....

khudkushi banda apni marzi naal karda ke os di maut auni hi uda hundi ?

eydha jawab RDB de sakhda

ਕਰਮਵੀਰ ਸਿੰਘ · « **Reply #18 on:** July 24, 2014, 11:40:57 AM »

Mai ik khani suni c sukraat di rome da sant hoya jo.
Kehnde jad ohnu maut di szaa sunayi gayi ta os de chele boht dukhi hoye. Ohna ne kiha k tuc sanu v khudkushinkaran di ijazat dyo asi ni rehna es dunia ch

Sukraat ne aakhya " malik ne totta pinjre ch rakhya e. Hun je totta apni amrzi naal pinjra tod k udd jawe ta malik totte nu dubara fad k pinjre ch paa dayega te ia vaar pinjra pehla nalo v mazboot bnayega. So je malik apni khushi naal udayega ohi asli azadi hoyegi".

Gujjar NO1 · « **Reply #19 on:** July 24, 2014, 11:46:39 AM »

Quote from: ਕਰਮਵੀਰ ਸਿੰਘ on July 24, 2014, 11:40:57 AM

Mai ik khani suni c sukraat di rome da sant hoya jo.
Kehnde jad ohnu maut di szaa sunayi gayi ta os de chele boht dukhi hoye. Ohna ne kiha k tuc sanu v khudkushinkaran di ijazat dyo asi ni rehna es dunia ch

Sukraat ne aakhya " malik ne totta pinjre ch rakhya e. Hun je totta apni amrzi naal pinjra tod k udd jawe ta malik totte nu dubara fad k pinjre ch paa dayega te ia vaar pinjra pehla nalo v mazboot bnayega. So je malik apni khushi naal udayega ohi asli azadi hoyegi".

very nice 22 umeed aa eydhe vich rooh ji apne swaal da jawab zoror lbhan ge :ok:

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Khudkhushi karna rabb di marzi de khilaaf jana hai? ya fer eh v rabb di raza hi hundi hai?

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