pheli vaar mae aah sunaya...... k ous dae parents ous nu akhdae nae b vaal katwa la.........>>>>oh  vaal rakhne chounda c

thoade ki vichar nae?

pheli vaar mae aah sunaya...... k ous dae parents ous nu akhdae nae b vaal katwa la.........>>>>oh  vaal rakhne chounda c

thoade ki vichar nae?

who exactly we are talking abt
baaki jado tak munde di apni marji nai aa odo tak koi ni force kar sagda
i remember jado mai pane baal kataaye c blame oh meri marji c
i cried after for a long time n regretted my action for a long time
but now i guess i feel better this way but one day i ll be a sardar again
one day i hope babaji da hokum zarror hovega mainu ke sikh sajj ja putt hun
bahut ho gaya
n that day i hope i dnt even had to makeup my mind i ll be a sikh frm appearance and frm heart :rabb:

dad encourages, mumz neutral....but overall saare encourage karde aa...but bro ne hale v rakhe hoye aa..
personally, its his decision..and il b happy wid watever he does..:)

mai bde maan nal kehna k mera privar te mera nanke parivar sab sardar ne bache ki te budhe ki sirf ik cousin nu shad k us di koi madical problem c.
Baki dadke parivar vich sab ne sir vadaye hoye ne.
Sade parents strict ne asi apni marzi nai karde jo hunda sabdi rzamandi nal :smile:

mom kehnde hunde a lambi gut sohni lagdi a ...te dad kehnde hunde c katwa de putt ehna nu aine vadde vaal ki krne a aivain hi sir dukhuga ehna nu kehda amb lagne a... :D:

pheli vaar mae aah sunaya...... k ous dae parents ous nu akhdae nae b vaal katwa la.........>>>>oh  vaal rakhne chounda c

thoade ki vichar nae?

actually,  i know someone with a similar story ...the kid loved basketball ...i still remember we used to watch/play basketball and he used to say "didi, i'll be the first sardar playing in nba"  when he was about 9 or 10 yrs old..when his mom kinda encouraged him into cutting his hair and as a child he did...however after few years he realized that's not who he is ..and he grew em again...now he is 18 i believe....

personally, both sides (nanke and dadke) of my family encourage kids to keep their hair considering bunch of them are amrit dhari...there are few here n there kids that are not but not all parents are all that strict and most of them believe that the child will  the stage of realization  and keep it on their own..some have done that.. but yeah i do believe parents have a lot to do with what kinds of path one child may go into however ...you can't really make anyone in the world we live in today.

 ajj kal di peeri ta koi suggestion sunni b ni chounda :hehe: gal manni ta bohat door di gal a. :hehe:

Waisa tanu ni lagda k aah galat galh aa bachya nu dhaake naal kam karwona ..... jina dae parents dhake naal kase rakhwonde tae katwondae aa banda di apni life aa tusi ous nu slah dao putt ada ni karna bande nu majboor ta ni karna chayi da thats what i think.....


mere ghar daya nae manu kade kush ni kaya ess bare.... haan mere vaada veer ous nae vaal katwae hoyae aa ous nu bahut rokaya c na kar par oh bahut jayada zor la raya c katwon layi ta ghar daye ki kah sakde c..... kade kade manh vich khyaal aa janda k ani door aa gae athae apna mulakh ni athae india vali galh ni banh ni othae ta munda pagg ghaint ji bani howe kuri kari naal setting athae oh sab ana isaan oh maje ni  :pagel: hor loka dae nikkae-2  makhol kise vele dimaag kharaab kar dinde aa..... manu lagda tusi sab jaani ho..........

Baki manu lagda mere ghar dae ni kush khan gae jae kite future vich mae katwone b chawa.... par mera veer Manu ik galh har vaar akhda jaroor jae vaal rakhe tae daari (bear) Mustache (mush) ni katani matlab k pakka kam karna jae daari mush katnae tae beshak vaal b katwa dayi ouse din.



hor baki mae ajj kalh kaffi dekhya ki jinna veer vaal rakhe hoye aa oh b modern jae banhde jande darri mush nikki karwa k rakhi hundi............. oh dae bare tusi ki soch de o?

well I definitely don't think that a parent should force their child to cut or not to cut their hair because if you try to force them you will make them do the opposite just because they don't like the fact they are being "forced" into their parents wants.

Parents should try to tell them the meaning behind it and the importance of it in your Religion/Culture. They shouldn’t put final decision on their kids. It does not do any good if you’re just putting your decision upon them. 

Baki rahi gal ohna loka di long hair rakhde and shave/trim their beard...i believe that guys who keep long hair and tie as a ponytail and shave off their beard not only look hideous but it's a disrespect to all the reasons they might even want to keep their hair.  baki apni apni soachni a :hehe: who am i to say anything about anyone.  Its always easy to judge other than ourselves.

mere khyal ch je apne culture nu bchauna ta parents di dakhal andazi lazim honi chahidi aa. Jyadatar bache is tra da kam udo karde jad oh jwani ch pair rakhde ne. Us vele ohna da nazuk daur hunda. Nawia feeling hundia te ise vjah karke bache is tra da faisla laine ne coz they want to look cool. :hehe: oh sochde sardas bandya nu kudia pasand ni kardia :D:
Ya kai var jad bacha pagg banani shuru karda ta usto sahi ni banh hundi and pehla pehla kai problem v hundia. So oh sochda is da yabb e muka dyo.
So parents nu is time bachya na zyada sma bitauna chahida ik frn di tra. Te je parents chohnde ne k bacha sardar e rahe ta usnu bachpan to e pagg banan di adat pauni chahidi e. Sade ghar dya ne ghar vich bakayda path karva k sade (me n bro) pagg banvayi c nd usto bad mai 8th to e pagg banda han nd feel proud.jad kde pagg sahi ni c banh hundi dad aap banh dinde c.
So parents nu bachya nu mahaul e us tra da dena chahida e . . . . .