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I'm not going to bother to comment on the subject as I don't enough to do so.
 
 
One thing I've noticed in this topic is all the harsh statements towards the topic starter. She's asking for advise, you don't have to so rude in giving her some help deciding her future. Everyone has their opinions but express it in a manner that isn't going to offend someone. Come-on, let's all grow up, you don't need to be so defensive.

well said!!!!

I have been trying to support her from starting to boost her confidence....she is already in very complicated situation.....and we all r making it harder for her by degrading her.....not cool

biologically and ethically, there are complications in marrying your cousins and all...like muslims do.....genetic issues.....but these two are not related at all....i mean they come from different backgrounds

and also, let's assume their ancestors were same

DNA doesn't change over time, other than a few somatic mutations here and there which don't effect overall development......the amount of genetic material halves with each generation......

so lets say......their great great great great grandmother was same

so great great great great grandmother = 100
great great great grandmother = 50
great great grandmother= 25
great grandmother= 12.5
grandmother = 6.25
mother= 3.125
her= 1.5625

so there are very few chances of getting any biological defects in your babies :)

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abla nari  :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

i will not react  :happy:

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jama hi kamla tu fateh

oye na larri challo....fight topic bana lao nama....eh topic da kahte rape kari jaanne done jaane....larrno tusi hatna ni...edu changa ik nama topic bano....Fateh de bode te Nikko di gutt  :happy: :happy: :happy:




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no...jaroori ni aa ke je kise da last name same aa taan ohde grand grand grandparents same hon.....pattian add add hundian....back in the days there were different tribes....oh tribes de add add naam rakhe hunde c....kise da sandhu c kise da gill c and so on......par eh ni c hunda ke punjab sirf ik hi gill yaan ik hi sandhu tribe c......"Gill" tribe oh c jehre lok moisture de kolle rende c...oh chahe beas kol rehnde hon chahe oh jehlum kole

so eh jaroori ni haiga ke eh kudi te oh munda same tribe vichon hon.....kai lokki jalandhar vall sandhu koi ludhiane vall....te bahute jaada amritsar ch ne...ehda matlab eh ni haiga ke ohna de grand grand grand parents same sige....

so same last name da matlab eh bilkul ni haiga ke eh bhen bhra ne.....je picha deeply pata kita jaave taan ehna da last name "Gill" different ho sakda...jimme different pattian...by the way mere mom da doctor ohda naam Edward Gill aa...gora oh...so ehda matlab ke ohde grand grand grand parents v same aa

Guru Gobind Singh ji refrain a Sikh from marrying two last names dhadkeh and nanakeh.....but je pata kita jaave changi taraan naal....I bet there ancestors were not same....different patti de hon ge eh...and there will be more than just Gill to one of their last names......jimme Gill Chahal....Shergill.....

Last names are modified more than needed over few centuries.......so if you really want the guy's parents to agree.....then you have to do some research and dig deeper....I know you will be fine :)

  : that is messed up, seriously we are living in 21st century and there r so many other "serious" things to worry about and people are still stuck with last names  :wait: .....you just tell them that you guys r lucky that ur daughter in law will be at least punjabi....i mean biologically it would made sense if your genes r clashing with his....but u guys are from different families n background....i dont know when people will come out of these small little nonsense priorities  :wow:


i wish u all the luck and just make his parents realize that they can not find anybody better then you for their son...i mean these days people should care about their kids feelings and happiness...other than the  last names when their kids are ready to get married  :cooll:


Good luck sweetheart and may God bless you  :smile:

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