Lol .... it is not that bad .. now a days arranged marriage is just like being set up for a date by your parents rather than your friends.... so chill ....
I think I agree with Jahndaji ... koi vi way hove .. assi taan ik bakra labna aa :hehe:
I m not kidding.. Love marriage are more of trouble, so much trouble
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Think this way - So what ever suffering you (as a guy or girl) will have after your married life. You start to worry about them right now.
Very small example
Example 1 - If you and a girl are friend and girl ask you to help in her resume - You have a choice of yes or no. But if that girl is your girlfriend, you dont have a choice and she won't ask for "help" in a resume .. It will more be of a order - "do my resume", even when you have a final to write the next day... :hehe:
example 2 - I have a buddy and he has a gf but they dont own a car as both are undergrads. When ever the girl has to go to work .. The guy accompany her in the bus for back and forth; and each side is like 30-45 mins bus ride.... I look at them and like seriously that is causing urself trouble at the age you dont want :hehe: :hehe:
example 3 - if your gf flats a tyre on the highway, you are the first one to get a call and make sure you get it fixed it early or you in trouble :laugh: ... Now these things should be after marriage.. why you kids wanna suffer now with love relationship :hehe:
.....and the list goes on :hehe: :hehe:
So basically if you are in going into love marriage let say 5 years from now. Your suffering already started 5 years ahead, :laugh:
Well good about love marriage - ya may be you found someone of your choice (so a one young kid choosing); but if you get into arrange 20 people will find you someone who match perfect for you - Now you be the judge :hehe:
second good - Ya you dont feel lonely and stuff.. But the company comes with a big price.. :laugh: