Secondly, I am a singer and dancer, I write english music and dance to english songs and I have recently got some interest for a major recording company in America.

However, many Punjabi people say that I am departing from my beliefs and morals and I am wrong. This makes me deeply sad because I absolutely love music and these people are telling me I'm wrong and too provocative and Punjabi girls don't do this. What do you think? Do you think it's wrong that I am becoming a singer/dancer? Their are many young women in Bollywood but none are Punjabi and British singer Jay Sean who is also Punjabi-Sikh is a representative of Western Desi's but he is a male and I know that people think different of male and female in Punjabi culture and I'm scared people will think I'm wrong and hate me. Would you honestly feel uncomfortable with a young Punjabi-Sikh female singer/dancer? Do you think many Punjabi people will get angry and not respect me?

Well I am not going to be part of the first thing you have up there ... there have been so many unpleasant discussion here recently that :

anyway - deciding our career and passion is not some thing our culture tells us. We should do what you like. but to be respected in a culture.. I think one needs to be in the "dayara" of the culture. Its great that you are good at singing and dancing. You should definitely pursue that. There is nothing bad about that.

Hard Kaur is a rapper and hip hop singer .. she is from UK. I don't think she is hated by Punjabis. Unless you do major scandals like some of western pop singers, I believe you should have no problem being accepted by punjabi culture as a singer.

 ik chote jeha and simple sentence jo kise jawan munde di zindgi tabaah kar sakda hai :


 - "Yaar oh kuri tere wall dekh di c"