helo helo sade vichkar punjab de ughe kalakar v pohnch chuke ne so tadia
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"ho asi amli sher punjab de sade kahnya varge patt,
Asi sher to nahiyo darde vekh k kutti nu jayie nath." hoye hoye

mai sochda ke har ik cheej da nuksaan te faydaa done hunde aa
so same thing with this too

hanji aah gal sahi kahi e

ih bahut hi sohna mudda chukkiya hai Karam Singh ne.. Mein kafi exmaples vekhiyan de idda diyan. Punjab tah chaddo US vich v. Kudi navi navi vyah ke US ayee teh fer ohnu nai pata ithe de system bare. teh je inlaws koyee suggestion dinde c teh dassde c she used to feel awkward and embarrassed about it. fer ohne phone teh ghare dassna ih sab. Like ithe tah hun car vich opposite side toh passenger seat teh bethna hun kayee baar sabne es tarah diyan mistakes teh hass pena.. fer ohne ih sab ghare dassna teh ohde mom dad ne bad feel karna..


hun parents kiwe vekh sakde aa apni bachi nu aukha hunde ohna ne munde teh munde di mom kol complain karti fer ki c munde kudi di larayee ho gayee teh kudi ghar chaddke India wapis chali gayee.. and got divorced. so vekhi inniyan nikkiyan nikkiyan galla kinniya galat sabit ho sakdiyan ne...


So Mein tah kahangi, Girls need to be more adjustable and understanding because this is she who is new member in family.
If she could adjjust to variety of problems and patience then many problems could be solved. :) Good Luck Girls!!


Well, I think not only Phone but facebook or other networking sites r going to become  be troublemaker for relationships in future too..

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So Mein tah kahangi, Girls need to be more adjustable and understanding because this is she who is new member in family.
If she could adjjust to variety of problems and patience then many problems could be solved. :) Good Luck Girls!!


Well, I think not only Phone but facebook or other networking sites r going to become  be troublemaker for relationships in future too..


Kudiya nu ki saza mili hoyi aa, that she is the ONLY one who needs to adjust?! She leaves her whole family to live with, what, pretty much  with a bunch of strangers. It is the guy's family who should be trying to make her feel more comfortable and help her in adjusting rather than pointing out her flaws and make her feel like an outsider that she already is... It has to be a joint effort!



agree with the second statement, social networking sites are likely to become a part of failed relationships more than anything else.

hanji sahi kiha kg main v is tra de mamle dekhe ne bohut kareeb to. Nox har var kuria hi ni samjhota kardia munde v karde ne . Mai ik gal hmesha sochda hunda k eh gharwalia bohut demanding hundia khas taur te aj kal dia . Shoti shoti gal te russ jana. Kise di gal ni sehni. Eh chohndia k munda usdi hal gal manne. (soch k dar jana pta ni mere vali kida di ayegi :hehe:   ) matlab eh k kuria vich maturity kafi late aundi e. Ki eh sahi e?
Bohut var is tra hunda k koi chachi tayi ya bhain bharjayi kuri nu pehla e matt de k bhejdia k sohre ghar dar k na rahi. Sas nu vahla sir na chadayi vgera vgera. Te vich pisya janda vichara mere varga.
So hun gall eh sahmne aa rahi a k mobile ta vichole da kam karda. Asli gall eh discuss honi chahidi k pati patni nu de rishte vich bahri dakhal andazi kitho tak te kini ku jayz e.
kuria nu inha rishtya nu samjhan lai ki tarika apnauna chahida.

veere tussi ta putha matlab le ge :D: main ta sidha likhia c :pagel:

hanji bai ji sahi kiha mafi chahuga ji

Peke vi ta family hi ne. teeje lok ta nahi /:) Nontheless, advice leni ta lawo, par enhi parkh honi chahidi ke you want to adhere to it or not and how it will affect your relationship with your husband/wife. At the end, it's ultimately you and him...other people shouldn't matter. I think if there is an issue, it should be discussed between wife and husband rather than other people. Not, only it keeps the relationship stronger it avoids, biased/negative 3rd party opinions.

If you look at it from the female perspective. Most marriages in Punjab are arranged. Initially, the girl isn't familiar with the husband or his family enough to discuss things openly. So, she finds it more easier to confide in her parents.

hanji vadia gall e. Nd eh v sahi e k navi navi viahi larki nu thori jhijak hundi e par thoda sma pa k usnu use ghar de halata mutabik v sochna shuru karna chahida. Na k ohi peke privar vich jive c use tra. Te peke parivar nu v chahida jitho tak ho ske dakhalandazi te slaha den to parhez karan te kuri nu salah den k apne pati nal gal kre te dove isda hal mil k kadhan. Kyo k suni sunai gal vich te asli sathiti vich kafi antar hunda. So kuri nu viah magro apne sochan da nazaria badalna chahida.
"he parmatma mainu pta ni kida di milni :hehe:

mai hune hune news dekh riha c ta ik khabar c k punjab vich aurta di sabha ne eh kiha k viah to magro mobile pati patni de sambanda vich bohut vadi bhumika nibhaunda e khas taur te negetive. Jive niki niki gal kuri apne pekya nu dasdi e te is nal ghar vich kalesh rehnda e kyo k is nal unha de ghar vich dusrya di dakhalandazi vadh jandi e. Is nal ik dusre te shak di v sambhavna vadhdi e te naubat talaak tak v pohonch sakdi e. So tuhade is bare ki vichar ne. Ki eh sahi e ?

helo helo ik jaroori soochna aa "koi sajjan galti nal apna cycle gwandia di dhaniye di kyari ch khda kar aya. Oh kehnde chukna chuk lao nai asi shanbure vale nu chuka dena aa" :D:

nai bai ji smose mere gale lai thik ni thodi der bad meri stage aa u no . . . . .

nek bai tuc aap kehlo nox nu jo kehna mere kann ch kahte kehne o

aah bande dekhe lagde ehi lagdi aa apne vali party. :exited:

ha ha ha ha ha ha ha vadia xperience aa thoda.
Bai ji saloh pind nsr kol a jehra ohi aa ya koi hor?