YES EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT SOME WITH WRONG PERCEPTION.
This is the sad part, perceptions cannot be changed overnight, because it is something which dwells within the person and quite much becomes a part of him\her.
Tell me one thing, why do you think one should get out of his\her comfort zone to change their perception ? Just because it may not be convenient to you or it doesn't suit your interests ? One can only do this if they feel the "need" for that change !!
It's not about right or wrong, because what is wrong to you may be right to somebody else and vice versa.
This is the reason why I said "everyone is different" !
I'm not judging anyone here.
YOU ARE RITE IF SOMEONE IS RELIGIOUS BUT M NOT.
EVEN I AM NOT INTERESTED IN CHANGING ANYONE'S RELIGION. I WAS CHANGING JUST TO MARRY HER. AND YES I DONT REGRET ON MY DECISIONS. SHE WAS MORE VALUBLE FOR ME THAN RELIGION. I DONT HAVE TO SPEND MY LIFE WITH RELIGION BUT WITH HER.
I WAS CHANGING JUST TO MARRY HER. > I'm not trying to discourage you, but I would like to add that it is damn easy to just say that.It is not everyone's cup of tea to be a Sikh.
I DONT HAVE TO SPEND MY LIFE WITH RELIGION BUT WITH HER > If she thinks the same, then there should not be much of a problem.Did she not try to convince her parents ?
FAMILY OR PEOPLE ARE USING RELIGION IN A WRONG WAY. SO ULTIMATELY IT IS MAKING A MESS FOR OTHERS.
Parents are mature enough to know what is best for their children, because they've been around you know.Can't always blame the parents, because they too know that life cannot be lead happily just because the two love each other.Sometimes before marriage youngsters like tend to overlook many other aspects of life, so the parents feel more cautious about serious big decisions like these.
But if the girl isn't too religious like yourself, then I think parents these days are smart and mature enough to understand this as well.
AND OFF COURSE THAT IS WHAT I THINK..
BUT IF PEOPLE WILL LET IT GO THIS WAY ONLY THEN THIS WILL AGAIN BE THE PROBLEM IF I FELL IN LOVE WITH OTHER GIRL AND AGAIN I HAVE TO LOSE SOMETHING WHICH I DONT WANT. EVENTUALLY I WILL HAVE THE ONLY OPTION - FORGET LOVING.
AND THANKS FOR GIVING YOUR VALUABLE TIME.
BUT IF PEOPLE WILL LET IT GO THIS WAY ONLY THEN THIS WILL AGAIN BE THE PROBLEM IF I FELL IN LOVE WITH OTHER GIRL AND AGAIN I HAVE TO LOSE SOMETHING WHICH I DONT WANT > This may come as a bit harsh to you, but what you've just said here indicates that you don't want to learn from your experiences, you have no control over your emotions and fantasies and refuse to slam into reality ! What the hell does falling in love fuckin' mean ?! You're still a kid, and later in life you will need to "man up", and when that does happen you will realize that one just doesn't "fall" in love ! Love at first sight is all just "filmy" bullshit ! Are you getting me ?
EVENTUALLY I WILL HAVE THE ONLY OPTION - FORGET LOVING. > Now this is negative thinking.
I don't mean to tear apart your feelings, but you're sounding too desperate now, and discontented within yourself.As if your whole happiness just simply relies on love.Why does your happiness have to lean over somebody else ? Why the fuckin' hell do you want to be dependent for happiness on somebody else ? Don't chase love, let it come to you.
Now listen kid, take this as an advice coming from like an elder brother.True love is something which just doesn't happen at first sight, like I said before it is utter non-sense and some mature aged guys are still stuck up in this mentality.
Love is something which "grows" and "develops" (are you hearing me ?), and this whole thing is a two way investment.Attraction is just the first symptom and only the beginning verge of it, but it all depends upon the two if they decide to take it any further from there or not.You'll learn this when you'll grow older.
So don't ever say that like a sissy again that you'll just simply "FALL" in love again !!
That sounds too lame and boyish (don't mean to be rude).
I can feel your pain, and I'm not being heartless with you as it won't serve me any good purpose as well.
You take care of yourself.
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