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Messages - Kudrat Kaur
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« on: July 10, 2010, 11:30:15 PM »
yh bt galti ta maa di v aa je baby ho hi gaya c loka de dar toh ohnu sitan di ki lorh c je kuj kam karde aa ohde samna karn lai v tyar rehna chaida ryte?'
raje appa tah sirf news read karke react kar rahe ha..who knows how much is truth in this news..might be ohne deliver kitta hove toilet vich.. there r chances that one can deliver on toilet seat if last stage of labor progresses very fast..and she was not bale to move at that time..
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« on: July 10, 2010, 11:27:18 PM »
How disgusting…. This is shameful indeed… I agree with wat Noxious said...one need to be responsible for their own actions....If that lady was bold enough to go for a relationship with a guy against her family wishes without thinking of society ……. Then she should have the courage of bringing up that child as a Single mother… Then why the hell she is worried of society , Family and all …Now..? This is utterly despicable…
Rubie Sweetie.. we can give any kind of lecture here but its really easy to say but vary hard to do..
2483
« on: July 10, 2010, 11:25:41 PM »
I agree, we don't know what circumstances possesed her to perform such an act. However, one need to be responsible for their own actions. I fyou think you're mature enough to do the "deed" you should be mature enough to face the consequences. You can't blame the scoiety for your actions because you always have a choice, no onne forces you into a certain situation.
Baaki rahi gall postpartum depression di that's an aftermath, which isn't the immediate result of child delivery and nor in any case would cause you to have a baby in the restroom and leave it there.
Yeah, its true that one shud be responsible for her actions then Why only "Girl" is responsible for this in this case. Second, Who knows the actual conditions she might be raped.Lastly, if she was kicked out by parents out of house, all people around her were humiliating her then anyone cud be unstable in these hard conditions. So i think we cant make conclusion that girl is responsible for everything.. baki emotional instability of mother starts right after child birth u can read in stages of.. puerperium..and 80-90% mother suffer from this emotional unstability.. I wish i cud do something for poor girl i can understand how people r going to torture her after this accident..
2484
« on: July 10, 2010, 08:59:06 PM »
If that My Kid.. I can never spare something like .. Would have probably said Sweety enough get out of my place and forget you know someone at my place .. Would you spare that non-sense Kudrat?
and answer for this question is i know this will never happen with my kid.. in any way if we assume this happen I will never make her life hell but i cant say right now what i will say at that time but surely wud not harm her nor her baby..
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« on: July 10, 2010, 08:48:41 PM »
Explicit Comments - Apologizes
Psychology teh badh wich avvo Kudrat, what about her actions. She is the one who got laid with some "random guy" (who might have dumped her- Again a wrong choice while choosing the partner and Dont call that love, its lust.) Had a child for 9 months. Delivers it and the Flush into the Toilet - And the Toilet was required to be ripped apart to save the Child... My question is Why she need to get laid at the first place - Sabar naam de we koi chejj hunde aa. And Why need to grow the kid for 9 months if she was gonna dump it in a toilet - Get rid of it first up if you dont want it.
Customs are made for a reason. Edda teh kal nu 14-15 "KIDS" will have kids.. Now the parent won't know should they should buy bread for their kids or their grand kids.
Teh Maa nu ehne khalle kadde se Kudrat.. Maa Kollo Sabar nai se hunda? - Akal naam de koi cheej hunde aa.
If that My Kid.. I can never spare something like .. Would have probably said Sweety enough get out of my place and forget you know someone at my place .. Would you spare that non-sense Kudrat?
First of all no need for apology..its totally fine, its ur point of view. But i dont think in this way, I never said this is result of love and Actions r result of ur pshychology.. We shud never be so judgmental, this has not happened to u or me, so we cant understand the actual conditions why she had baby for 9 months..I think u r not aware abt Indian conditions.. yeah its totally right customs r for ours benefit but this doesn't mean u make one human life hell becoz of that..vekho mein nai kiha ke ih vadiya gal hai ya sarian nu 14-15 yrs kinds shud have kids mein sirf inna kiha ke je kise toh koyee mistake ho jandi aa ya fer koyee galat halatn da shikar ho gaya aa this does n't that person shud ne treated so badly.. baki wahtever she did with baby that might be result of her Postpartum blues.. Baki mein tah ikko gal kahangi ke ik tah sara blame kudi teh payuna galt aa, tuhanu ki pata ohda ihna 9 months vich kinna torture hoyea hona ya fer sade varge deya de es tarah diyan post which r totally against her. will cause how much trouble for her in future too..
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« on: July 10, 2010, 08:25:53 PM »
bt sis oh jera baby ohda ki
hanji sweetie, poor baby de idda de halat da jimewaar kaun aa??.. We cant blame that poor girl only..Dass raje kehdi maa da jee karega apne baby naal eve karan da???
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« on: July 10, 2010, 08:22:08 PM »
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so question is How can u tell which one r safest and which one r dangerous? Answer is simply look at the recycling number on the container.. if u look at the bottom of the container, u will see a little triangle with a number inside it. then follow guidelines as follows:
1. CONTAINERS WITH 3, 6, OR 7 ON THE BOTTOM- r most dangerous of all. They contain a dangerous and volatile chemical called BPA and shud be avoided at all costs.
2. CONTAINERS WITH A 4,5 ON THE BOTTOM- r generally considered safe. but u shud probably use them sparingly. and u shud never use them to microwave.
3. CONTAINERS WITH 1 OR 2 ON THE BOTTOM- R the safest. These include clear water containers, as well cloudy containers u normally found water and milk in. These containers r called PETE and HDPE, r safe for storing food and drink. But again never use them to microwave.
most dangerous cancer associated with plastic is breast cancer..So be careful guyz.. THANKS:)
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« on: July 10, 2010, 07:52:29 PM »
Whats the problem with u guyz.. all of u never try to understand the psychology or actual reason behind the scene and u come up with ur conclusions.. all this has happened becoz of us.. we r freaking retards who create these kind of conditions for that girl to get rid of that baby..I totally agree if they cant support the baby they shud have never let it happen but this does n't mean u will make that person's life hell especially girl..u know nobody else is responsible for these bad happenings in society but only "we" r responsible..Why all the times we value these society customs above over precious human life?? I am really disappointed with all the above responses..all these customs of society r for life, life is not for themm.. think abt it..
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« on: July 10, 2010, 02:03:45 AM »
mae ni payi aje tak :cooll:
fer menu pa doji..u know i am ur gr8 admirer.. :pagel: :happy:
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« on: July 09, 2010, 10:16:34 PM »
Who is "ek" now Sweetie.. :lost: :happy:
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« on: July 09, 2010, 10:11:50 PM »
Generally tah sare hi change Prabhu Sweetie..bus specifically appa pros teh cons vekhde aa baki mera thanks :sad:
p.s i like Kaddu name thinkg to change my usename to KADDU :happy: :laugh:
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« on: July 09, 2010, 10:07:39 PM »
prabh tusi sab nu thanks ditta sada thanks.. :sad:
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« on: July 09, 2010, 09:56:01 PM »
oh really, this means i dont like anybody, i just love everyone.. :happy:
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« on: July 09, 2010, 09:37:20 PM »
FORd shelby.....KUdrat ji thuadi car nu ki hoyaa....pic laah diti ohdi
nai meri nai c Yamlaji..mein tah California Rent teh litti c bus thoda style maran nu u know kayee baar jattitude aa janda blood vich vase i dont like fukri marna.. :happy: Kudrat mainu De davvo leh ke.. I can Adjust :happy:
hanji tuhanu hi leke deni aa jis din inne save ho gaye bus os din sab toh pehla thonu Mustang lai deni aa theek aa Jhanda Amliji.. :happy:
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« on: July 09, 2010, 09:31:36 PM »
Though its stylish car but my personal point of view is that its not gud for daily use.. First of all, its gas mileage is not gus..Pendu de kehne bahut gas fookdi aa baki bilkul v spacy nai aa u dont feel so uncomfortable inside this.. But i liked just one thing the best abt it thats the noise it makes while driving...just luv that.. :happy:
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« on: July 09, 2010, 06:30:33 PM »
meri ik hor request jado v time lagge laga dena no hurries, no worries.. :happy:
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« on: July 09, 2010, 06:25:33 PM »
Wahji Wah ah v hega ithe.. mein ajj pehli vaar vekhia.. :happy:
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« on: July 09, 2010, 06:21:19 PM »
:laugh: :laugh: its so funny.. :happy:
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« on: July 09, 2010, 06:16:01 PM »
Welcome Shankaholic , sound like somebody alcoholic :pagel: BTW bahut bahut Swagat tuhada.. Enjoy. :happy:
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« on: July 09, 2010, 06:01:44 PM »
Nice Post Prabhleen, But As Noxious said u shud welcome criticsm too..becoz jehre criticize karde ne ohi tuhanu real pyar karde ne.. :happy:
Rest I wud say British Rule was not only reason for reformation in Women conditions in that era. Many Indian leaders had fought for Women's rights and many Women organizations too. There r many names like Ram Mohan Roy, Ishwar Chandra Vidyasagar, Jyotirao Phule etc. who fought for the upliftment of women. Even history shows that the child marriage Restraint Act was passed with the efforts of Mahomed Ali Jinnah. Even women of India fought against British Rule like Rani Lakshmi Bai. ev Sarojini Naidu, a poet and the first woman to become the governor of a state in India was gr8 freedom fighter.
and we can find one more example of cruel British empire in Punjabi History that is Maharani Jind kaur.To halt her influence on the young Duleep, the Punjab’s new colonial masters dragged the Queen away from her son and imprisoned her. They campaigned against Maharani and named her as "Messalina of Punjab" so its quite hard to accept any gud stuff abt British Rule In India. But yeah, its true that British Ruler's Wives really took some firm steps for upliftment of Women In India.
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