Only way you can have a healthy and strong relationship is by being honest and loyal to your partner.

yea you are right but trust is something that's more important

I wonder if books/articles can help you for real

these are the things that most of people already know and it definitely helps

{***} Hamesha Ladki ke aankho se aankhen milakar hi baat kare, isse Ladkiyan impress hoti hai.

{***} Ladkiyon se usi topic par baat-chit karo jis me use baat karne me maza aaye, isse wo aapse bahut samay tak baat kar sakti hai. aur aapki Dosti Pyar me bhi badal sakti hai.

{***} Ladkiyan agar group me ho to aap unhe (Jinhe Patana hai) hi dekhte rahe, aisa karne se wo bhi aap ke taraf attract ho jayegi.

{***} Aap ki Padosan agar School/College jane ke liye nikal rahi ho to aap unke sang hole aur unse baat karte hue aap bhi jaye. aisa Continue 3 Dino tak kare aur 4th Din mat jana, wo 5th Din aapse jarur puchegi kal kyu nahi aaye. aur iss tarah mulakat se aap use Pata hi lenge.

{***} Jis ladki ko aap patana chahte ho,
usse jab bhi milo to uski family ki khariyat,haal-chaal zaroor pucho isse bhi ladkiyan bahut impress hoti hain."

{***} Ladki patane ka sabse best tarika hota hai ke aap ladki ke samne uski friend ka tarif karo ise ladki ke dil main jalan hogi aur woh aap ko propose kar degi kyu ki ladkiya hi laladkiyo se jalti hai aur is jalne main hum ladko ka fayda hota hai.

{***} Jis ladki ko patana ho uske har ang ki tariff karo, maslan bal se lekar khaal tak.....
dis tip work very nyce....

{***} Ladki se baat karte waqkt confident raho

{***} Aur ladki ke mobile pe hamesha top up karwado taki wo aap se mobile pe bhi batt karsake.

{**} Agar aap ladki ke maa baap ka dil jit liya to aap ko v ladki ka dil mil jaega,

{***} Kisi bhi ladki ka dil gahraai se jeetne ke liye uske future or present ki planing aur isme aane wali problem ko solve karne ke liye apne ko use hazir karo..pata hai ladki apni moral support ke liye bhi apna dil bahut gahrai se de deti hai..

{***} Kuch dino tak ladki ki har baatt mano jayda nahi bus............1 month........phir dkhna ladki tumahra kahna manege.........vo khte ha na tum ladkiyo ko ijaat do vo apne ijaat tumhe dey dege

Always try to appreciate her looks and her dressing sense even wen she isnt lookin gud.....this will make her feel more comfortable with u...... juz let her know that u r da most romantic person and she'll die for u

Here are 10 ways to create true intimacy, find pure love, and be truly happy in your relationship:

1. Use relationships to teach you how to be whole within.

Relationships aren’t about having another person complete you, but coming to the relationship whole and sharing your life interdependently. By letting go of the romantic ideal of merging and becoming “one,” you learn as Rainer Maria Rilke says, to love the distances in relationship as much as the togetherness.

2. See your partner for who he or she really is.


The romantic tragedy occurs when you view the person you are in love with as a symbol of what they have come to represent, the idea of them. When you realize that more often than not you don’t really know your partner, you begin to discover who they are and how they change and evolve.

3. Be willing to learn from each other.

The key is to see the other as a mirror and learn from the reflection how you can be a better person. When you feel upset, rather than blame your partner and point fingers, remain awake to what has yet to be healed in yourself.

4. Get comfortable being alone.

In order to accept that love can’t rescue you from being alone, learn to spend time being with yourself. By feeling safe and secure to be on your own within the framework of relationship, you will feel more complete, happy, and whole.

5. Look closely at why a fight may begin.


Some couples create separateness by fighting and then making up over and over again. This allows you to continue the romantic trance, creating drama and avoiding real intimacy. If you become aware of what you fear about intimacy, you’ll have a better sense of why you’re fighting—and likely will fight far less.

6. Own who you are.


We generally grasp at romantic love because we’re yearning for something that is out of reach, something in another person that we don’t think we possess in ourselves. Unfortunately, when we finally get love, we discover that we didn’t get what we were looking for.

True love only exists by loving yourself first. You can only get from another person what you’re willing to give yourself.

7. Embrace ordinariness.

After the fairy-dust start of a relationship ends, we discover ordinariness, and we often do everything we can to avoid it. The trick is to see that ordinariness can become the real “juice” of intimacy. The day-to-day loveliness of sharing life with a partner can, and does, become extraordinary.

8. Expand your heart.

One thing that unites us is that we all long to be happy. This happiness usually includes the desire to be close to someone in a loving way. To create real intimacy, get in touch with the spaciousness of your heart and bring awareness to what is good within you.

It’s easier to recognize the good in your partner when you’re connected to the good in yourself.

9. Focus on giving love.

Genuine happiness is not about feeling good about ourselves because other people love us; it’s more about how well we have loved ourselves and others. The unintentional outcome of loving others more deeply is that we are loved more deeply.

10. Let go of expectations.

You may look to things such as romance and constant togetherness to fill a void in yourself. This will immediately cause suffering. If you unconsciously expect to receive love in certain ways to avoid giving that love to yourself, you will put your sense of security in someone else

These 10 Valentine's Day gift ideas for a girlfriend are sure to be a hit, and keep you out of the dog house. As much as girls may say they don't expect a gift, they're lying. A Valentine's Day gift doesn't have to be something huge or extravagant to be a successful gift. A thoughtful gift is far superior to the tired old box of chocolates with a drugstore teddy bear.

Mix CD. When making a mix CD for your girlfriend as a Valentine's Day gift, keep a few things in mind. First of all, be sure to keep her music tastes in mind. If she's into indie music, a heavy metal screamo CD won't go over too well. Also, Valentine's Day is a romantic holiday. Try and keep the theme to different love songs, especially if they make you think of her.

Photo album/scrapbook. Taking the time and effort to complete a project like this says loads to a girlfriend. It doesn't have to be perfect, but she will appreciate the effort that you put into it. There are various websites available for assistance in creating a photo album online, complete with captions, that can be easily printed out.
 
Jewelry. Jewelry doesn't need to be extravagant to be appreciated. A cute bracelet, or a pretty pendant will do the trick quite nicely. As a general rule, avoid giving her a ring, unless you're in a long-term relationship.

Flowers, presented in a pretty vase. Red roses are the staple of Valentine's Day. However, not every girl really likes roses all that much. If you know what her favorite flower is, get her a big bouquet of fresh-cut flowers in her favorite variety. If she does indeed like red roses, get her two or three dozen, as opposed to the traditional one dozen. A pretty vase is a good investment, because she can keep it long after the flowers die.

Home-made coupon book. If your girlfriend is the type to always make a point to mention that she feels under-valued, then a home-made coupon book will be an excellent Valentine's Day gift. Include coupons for such things as back rubs, deep cleaning the house, taking her on a special date, letting her hold on to the remote, and so on.

Book of love poems. There are a wide variety of collections of love poems available. This particular Valentine's Day gift will be especially appreciated if your girlfriend is the literary type. There are collections that only include poems by the same poet, and others are collections by a variety of authors. Use your good judgment, and keep her personal taste in mind.

"Key to your heart". Is your girlfriend a hopeless romantic? If so, then giving her a symbolic key to your heart will go over very well. There is an ever-changing variety available. Jewelry stores offer different pieces in this theme. There are also skeleton keys that go along with heart shaped locks. :love: :love:

Service and detail her car. Women are notorious for letting car maintenance get the best of them. Which is not to say that women are incompetent when it comes to their cars. She will appreciate you doing this for her. If you don't have the specific knowledge required for this task, then take it to a shop nearby. Make sure the fluids are all okay, the brakes are in decent shape, get the oil and all filters changed, etc.

Make a special meal for the two of you. Who says that your romantic Valentine's Day meal has to take place in some impersonal, crowded restaurant? Plan a special Valentine's Day meal and go all out. If fancy meals aren't really your thing, then just make all her favorite foods. Don't forget the wine!  X_X X_X too much work :

Message in a bottle. While this particular message in a bottle doesn't necessarily need to be sent out to sea, it's a sweet gesture all the same. Write her a love letter, or simply tell her all the reasons you love her, and what makes her so special to you. thats something unique :laugh: :pagel:

sachii yaar its true...bhawe jhere marzi mulakk jaa awo sabh jagga ehi a

thank ju bai ji
bada sohna likhyia kang bai

veer bali sad gal aa bt eh aamad kis thaa te baith k hoyi c  :D: :D: :D: :D:

eh ta bed ch hi ho gyi...:Laugh:

3 basic parts of love..

1. Dhokhe se pyar karo magar pyar kar k dhokha na karo
 
2. Soch k pyar karo magar pyar kar k na socho

3. Dil tod k pyar karo magar pyar kar k dil na todo....

yaar ehna dukh te funny dassde a