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Re: Indian woman delivers, abandons baby in 'Plane toilet'
« Reply #20 on: July 10, 2010, 10:11:40 PM »


First of all no need for apology..its totally fine, its ur point of view.
But i dont think in this way, I never said this is result of love and Actions r result of ur pshychology..
We shud never be so judgmental, this has not happened to u or me, so we cant understand the actual conditions why she had baby for 9 months..I think u r not aware abt Indian conditions..
yeah its totally right customs r for ours benefit but this doesn't mean u make one human life hell becoz of that..vekho mein nai kiha ke ih vadiya gal hai ya sarian nu 14-15 yrs kinds shud have kids mein sirf inna kiha ke je kise toh koyee mistake ho jandi aa ya fer koyee galat halatn da shikar ho gaya aa this does n't that person shud ne treated so badly..

baki wahtever she did with baby that might be result of her Postpartum blues..

Baki mein tah ikko gal kahangi ke ik tah sara blame kudi teh payuna galt aa, tuhanu ki pata ohda ihna 9 months vich kinna torture hoyea hona ya fer sade varge deya de es tarah diyan post which r totally against her. will cause how much trouble for her in future too..


I agree, we don't know what circumstances possesed her to perform such an act. However, one need to be responsible for their own actions. I fyou think you're mature enough to do the "deed" you should be mature enough to face the consequences. You can't blame the scoiety for your actions because you always have a choice, no onne forces you into a certain situation.

Baaki rahi gall postpartum depression di that's an aftermath, which isn't the immediate result of child delivery and nor in any case would cause you to have a baby in the restroom and leave it there.

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Re: Indian woman delivers, abandons baby in 'Plane toilet'
« Reply #20 on: July 10, 2010, 10:11:40 PM »

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Re: Indian woman delivers, abandons baby in 'Plane toilet'
« Reply #21 on: July 10, 2010, 10:53:17 PM »
How disgusting…. This is shameful indeed…
I agree with wat Noxious said...one need to be responsible for their own actions....If that lady was bold enough to go for a relationship with a guy against her family wishes without thinking of society ……. Then she should have the courage of bringing up that child as a Single mother…
Then why the hell she is worried of society , Family and all …Now..?
This is utterly despicable…

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Re: Indian woman delivers, abandons baby in 'Plane toilet'
« Reply #22 on: July 10, 2010, 11:25:41 PM »
 
I agree, we don't know what circumstances possesed her to perform such an act. However, one need to be responsible for their own actions. I fyou think you're mature enough to do the "deed" you should be mature enough to face the consequences. You can't blame the scoiety for your actions because you always have a choice, no onne forces you into a certain situation.

Baaki rahi gall postpartum depression di that's an aftermath, which isn't the immediate result of child delivery and nor in any case would cause you to have a baby in the restroom and leave it there.

Yeah, its true that one shud be responsible for her actions then Why only "Girl" is responsible for this in this case.
Second, Who knows the actual conditions she might be raped.Lastly, if she was kicked out by parents out of house, all people around her were humiliating her then anyone cud be unstable in these hard conditions.
So i think we cant make conclusion that girl is responsible for everything..
baki emotional instability of mother starts right after child birth u can read in stages of.. puerperium..and 80-90% mother suffer from this emotional unstability..
I wish i cud do something for poor girl i can understand how people r going to torture her after this accident..

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Re: Indian woman delivers, abandons baby in 'Plane toilet'
« Reply #23 on: July 10, 2010, 11:27:18 PM »
How disgusting…. This is shameful indeed…
I agree with wat Noxious said...one need to be responsible for their own actions....If that lady was bold enough to go for a relationship with a guy against her family wishes without thinking of society ……. Then she should have the courage of bringing up that child as a Single mother…
Then why the hell she is worried of society , Family and all …Now..?
This is utterly despicable…


Rubie Sweetie.. we can give any kind of lecture here  but its really easy to say but vary hard to do..

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Re: Indian woman delivers, abandons baby in 'Plane toilet'
« Reply #24 on: July 10, 2010, 11:30:15 PM »
yh bt galti ta maa di v aa
je baby ho hi gaya c loka de dar toh ohnu sitan di ki lorh c
je kuj kam karde aa ohde samna karn lai v tyar rehna chaida ryte?'

raje appa tah sirf news read karke react kar rahe ha..who knows how much is truth in this news..might be ohne deliver kitta hove toilet vich.. there r chances that one can deliver on toilet seat if last stage of labor progresses very fast..and she was not bale to move at that time..

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Re: Indian woman delivers, abandons baby in 'Plane toilet'
« Reply #25 on: July 10, 2010, 11:46:06 PM »
Rubie Sweetie.. we can give any kind of lecture here  but its really easy to say but vary hard to do..

Kudrat.... In general I'll say that whenever we do anything without telling anybody ...deep in our mind we knw that its wrong....... and if u knw that u are rite then u need not to be afraid of anybody...
And that lady knew she was wrong... that is why she has taken such step.....
I agree that general Indian mentality has a long way to go before it accepts single parenthood...... society never changes its mentality overnight. The change is gradual......  But sumbody  has to take initiative....

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Re: Indian woman delivers, abandons baby in 'Plane toilet'
« Reply #26 on: July 10, 2010, 11:50:15 PM »
Kudrat.... In general I'll say that whenever we do anything without telling anybody ...deep in our mind we knw that its wrong....... and if u knw that u are rite then u need not to be afraid of anybody...
And that lady knew she was wrong... that is why she has taken such step.....
I agree that general Indian mentality has a long way to go before it accepts single parenthood...... society never changes its mentality overnight. The change is gradual......  But sumbody  has to take initiative....


Theekaa sweetie.. mann lende aa raje gal galat c par try to read my all other responses i have already try to explain there might be many reasons she got into this trouble..
khair jo tusi keh raho oh v theek aa but why only that poor girl is suffing becoz of all that ???

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Re: Indian woman delivers, abandons baby in 'Plane toilet'
« Reply #27 on: July 11, 2010, 12:00:41 AM »
Kudrat.... In general I'll say that whenever we do anything without telling anybody ...deep in our mind we knw that its wrong....... and if u knw that u are rite then u need not to be afraid of anybody...
And that lady knew she was wrong... that is why she has taken such step.....
I agree that general Indian mentality has a long way to go before it accepts single parenthood...... society never changes its mentality overnight. The change is gradual......  But sumbody  has to take initiative....


Phela janta ne Kuria Mar detiya saryia Punjabi Wich, jaman ton phela he katal karee jande aa.. Teh hun aa Single Mother walla drama shurro kar lavvo.. Edde kammi se...
Kyun Single Mother katho honna.. can't a girl be wise enough to choose a mate for herself who can get old with her... Jezz  /:)
if she can't leave it to her parents, par hun aa single walla na ratta Shuroo karoo Punjab wich.
« Last Edit: July 11, 2010, 12:10:25 AM by Daffa Hona »

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Re: Indian woman delivers, abandons baby in 'Plane toilet'
« Reply #28 on: July 11, 2010, 12:08:31 AM »
Whats the problem with u guyz.. all of u never try to understand the psychology or actual reason behind the scene and u come up with ur conclusions..
all this has happened becoz of us.. we r freaking retards who create these kind of conditions for that girl to get rid of that baby..I totally agree if they cant support the baby they shud have never let it happen but this does n't mean u will make that person's life hell especially girl..u know nobody else is responsible for these bad happenings in society but
only "we" r responsible..Why all the times  we value these society customs above over precious human life??
I am really disappointed with all the above responses..all these customs of society r for life, life is not for themm..
think abt it..
I agree with you Kudrat ji
Who created these sort of conditions? Isn't that our fault?
We,so called very smart, socialized and civilized people in the world , pretend to be something we are not.
We say we don't discriminate someone on based on religion or anything like that but ask yourself do we really?
How many people commit suicide,kill each other , fight everyday just because a girl and a boy are love each other and they don't have same caste / religion ? or not same status?
Parents of these guys say" what will people say? "
Because of this fear they have to do these things . Sometimes I think western culture has some good things that we can learn
   





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Re: Indian woman delivers, abandons baby in 'Plane toilet'
« Reply #29 on: July 11, 2010, 12:14:17 AM »
Phela janta ne Kuria Mar detiya saree Punjabi Wich, jaman ton phela he katal karee jande aa.. Teh hun aa Single Mother walla drama shurro kar lavvo.. Edde kammi se...
Kyun Single Mother katho honna.. can't a girl be wise enough to choose a mate for herself who can get old with her... Jezz  /:)
if she can't leave it to her parents, par hun aa single walla na ratta Shuroo karoo Punjab wich.



My friend got married , he is from US and he told me to be very careful when I goto India If someone wants me to hook up with someone make sure about the girl first.
He said there are more single mothers in Punjab then in states! I was really shocked to know all this. Good things they never learn

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Re: Indian woman delivers, abandons baby in 'Plane toilet'
« Reply #30 on: July 11, 2010, 12:17:39 AM »
Theekaa sweetie.. mann lende aa raje gal galat c par try to read my all other responses i have already try to explain there might be many reasons she got into this trouble..
khair jo tusi keh raho oh v theek aa but why only that poor girl is suffing becoz of all that ???

Kudrat am not against that girl.... I am jst opposing wat she has done ....of course she needs help ...am not denying that fact.....but wat she has done that cannot be justified by considering only psychological point of view...
Wat abt the psychology of the child who was abandoned by his mother......jst after birth...
I am really feeling bad for that girl.... and as a human we need to support her during this difficult time...
but jo galat hai oh ta galat hai naa

Phela janta ne Kuria Mar detiya saryia Punjabi Wich, jaman ton phela he katal karee jande aa.. Teh hun aa Single Mother walla drama shurro kar lavvo.. Edde kammi se...
Kyun Single Mother katho honna.. can't a girl be wise enough to choose a mate for herself who can get old with her... Jezz  /:)
if she can't leave it to her parents, par hun aa single walla na ratta Shuroo karoo Punjab wich.

Atleast it was better option than abandoning child in plane's toilet...  i was saying that......If that lady was bold enough to go for a relationship with a guy against her family wishes without thinking of society …… Then she should have the courage of bringing up that child as a Single mother…..

baki sabde apne apne vichaar ne... as I have said previously ..we cannot change the mentality overnight.. ...
Am sorry if i had said sumthing wrong



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Re: Indian woman delivers, abandons baby in 'Plane toilet'
« Reply #31 on: July 13, 2010, 12:39:16 AM »
ajj kal de janta nu pta ni kehre bhoot chamri aa

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Re: Indian woman delivers, abandons baby in 'Plane toilet'
« Reply #32 on: July 13, 2010, 12:50:38 AM »
end te ehi main kehna ke its alll girl's fault..kise nu koi nai kuj keh sakda..apni ijat apne hath..kuri nu apni limit dekhni chidi aa..eh kise da fault nai haiga..no matter ke munda kidda da aa...osnu thuri bouat sharm rakhni chidi si...ke o koi limit cross kar rehi aa jisda nitaja i think she knows..o eni vi bachi nai si ke osnu eh nai pata hove ga ke o pregent ho sakdi aa..so hor main kuj nai kehna..chehe kise nu meri gal da gussa lagge..kise nu koi blame loan di loar nai...eh serfi kuri da fault aa..thats ittttttttt...

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Re: Indian woman delivers, abandons baby in 'Plane toilet'
« Reply #33 on: July 13, 2010, 01:42:50 AM »
I read.. " eh kudi 'study -visa'  te 'bahar'(frn) (do't know the country) gaye hoye si....
 baki tuhano pata hi hai ..punjab toh gaye munde-kudiya kuj jayda hi beparwah ho jande ne bahar de khulle te  azadi bahre mahool ch. (jayda azadi pachde nahi).
te jado eh study pure karke vapis India aa rahe si ta 'eh' sab hoya .




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Re: Indian woman delivers, abandons baby in 'Plane toilet'
« Reply #34 on: July 16, 2010, 01:27:49 PM »
kehn nuyeh sis kehn nu ta bhut kuj keh sakde bt reality we dun knw

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Re: Indian woman delivers, abandons baby in 'Plane toilet'
« Reply #35 on: July 16, 2010, 02:04:36 PM »
end te ehi main kehna ke its alll girl's fault..kise nu koi nai kuj keh sakda..apni ijat apne hath..kuri nu apni limit dekhni chidi aa..eh kise da fault nai haiga..no matter ke munda kidda da aa...osnu thuri bouat sharm rakhni chidi si...ke o koi limit cross kar rehi aa jisda nitaja i think she knows..o eni vi bachi nai si ke osnu eh nai pata hove ga ke o pregent ho sakdi aa..so hor main kuj nai kehna..chehe kise nu meri gal da gussa lagge..kise nu koi blame loan di loar nai...eh serfi kuri da fault aa..thats ittttttttt...
agree with mehak... pehla kare lage kuch sochdi nhi den blame only munde ta nhi kuri ta blame pehla ana chaida je tuhanu kuch pata nhi ta pehla kisnu puchlo ki aa kam galat hai ja sahi.... well mera mom kehde hunde c je app nu akal nhi hai ta wall de slap mar ka puchlo ki aa kam galat hai ja sahi oh vi sach das di hai.... i hate diz kind of stuff.... mera hisab nal usnu chowk vich ja ka goli mar dani chaidi hai ki ik kuri nu dekh ka baki kuriya galat na karna... u know mai tuhanu ik real story sundi aa... mai india gayii uthe meri ik frnd c... mainu usde bare pehla nhi pata c jis tym pata laga bahut hurt hoya usda dad foreign country vich hai n oh apni mom, sis, n bro naal rehndi aa .... usdi age almost 19 years hai... mai jis tym di gal kar rahi hai usdi age honi 16 years... oh nite tym apne bf nu mildi hundi c... n u know wat oh apni family nu roj neend diya goliya dedi hundi ccc... i shocked wen i know all diz i gave her 2 or 3 slaps n kick her.... shag nhi aundi lokya nu ik kari jande aa kaljug hai....

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Re: Indian woman delivers, abandons baby in 'Plane toilet'
« Reply #36 on: July 16, 2010, 02:49:55 PM »
simar sahi keha kalle mundya nu blame karan nal kuj nai hona even i know one of dis typ gal jedii raat nu apna ghardeyan nu dudh ch goliyan pa ke dindi c jad sare so jande c tan ohde bf oh milan anda c ghare ohde dats really sickkkkk I hate dis kinda stufff.....

 

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