Author Topic: Love brings negative emotions! (Read 5373 times)

•°o.O тîтℓєє O.o°• · « **on:** February 13, 2011, 04:32:45 PM »

Well everyone says Love is the most beautiful feeling in the world, yes it maybe sometimes of the day, but along with it brings all the other negative feelings -

When in love, you experience a variety of emotions. At times, love makes your spirit soar with happiness. At other times, falling in love can bring negative emotions such as jealousy,anger,heartache,fear of loss. Then there are times when love treats you like a doormat.

One of the famous quotes - Love means exposing yourself to the pain of being hurt, deeply hurt by someone you trust.

So is love really the most beautiful feeling? Thoughts?

Punjabi Janta Forums - Janta Di Pasand · « **on:** February 13, 2011, 04:32:45 PM »

Rubbie · « **Reply #1 on:** February 13, 2011, 11:35:12 PM »

Sweetie... its not love that brings negative emotions... rather..these are our expectations...
Because whom we love..we expect a lot from them...

Quote from: •°o.O тîтℓєє O.o°• on February 13, 2011, 04:32:45 PM

falling in love can bring negative emotions such as jealousy,anger,heartache,fear of loss.

So the things which u have mentioned here are becoz of our expectations from our loved ones...
When we will stop expecting ...love will bring only postive emotions

҂ ȿḉặᵰɗἷἧäѷїѧҋ↔ᶀɍǐȶĩṧӊ ₰ · « **Reply #2 on:** February 14, 2011, 04:33:43 AM »

Love alone isn't enough.

ਕਰਮਵੀਰ ਸਿੰਘ · « **Reply #3 on:** February 14, 2011, 05:30:48 AM »

Quote from: Rubbie on February 13, 2011, 11:35:12 PM

Sweetie... its not love that brings negative emotions... rather..these are our expectations...
Because whom we love..we expect a lot from them...

So the things which u have mentioned here are becoz of our expectations from our loved ones...
When we will stop expecting ...love will bring only postive emotions

agree , this is the only answer .
Love is just love no other emotions r associated with love.

TheStig · « **Reply #4 on:** February 14, 2011, 06:42:43 AM »

Quote from: Rubbie on February 13, 2011, 11:35:12 PM

Sweetie... its not love that brings negative emotions... rather..these are our expectations...
Because whom we love..we expect a lot from them...

So the things which u have mentioned here are becoz of our expectations from our loved ones...
When we will stop expecting ...love will bring only postive emotions

Agreed

•°o.O тîтℓєє O.o°• · « **Reply #5 on:** February 14, 2011, 03:22:35 PM »

Quote from: Rubbie on February 13, 2011, 11:35:12 PM

Sweetie... its not love that brings negative emotions... rather..these are our expectations...
Because whom we love..we expect a lot from them...

So the things which u have mentioned here are becoz of our expectations from our loved ones...
When we will stop expecting ...love will bring only postive emotions

Yeah I partially agree with what you say, but we expect a lot because we love them right, if we dont love them we wouldnt expect. So doesnt that chain reaction really make Love the cause for all these accompanying emotions.

One of the strong signs of falling in love is that you feel jealous if he/she talks or goes out with someone else ... Its not because you have expectation that he/she shoudl not talk to anyone but because you just feel possesive (in a good way) about them :)

Quote from: ✄※ḨҰĐṜØŞŦẨ₮ῘḈŜ on February 14, 2011, 04:33:43 AM

Love alone isn't enough.

I think I agree with that.

•°o.O тîтℓєє O.o°• · « **Reply #6 on:** February 14, 2011, 03:25:02 PM »

Quote from: §¤§ KARAM §¤§ on February 14, 2011, 05:30:48 AM

agree , this is the only answer .
Love is just love no other emotions r associated with love.

So you mean to say that love happens in the vacuum all by itself and that the only thing you feel. Theoretically maybe yes, practically Really?

ਕਰਮਵੀਰ ਸਿੰਘ · « **Reply #7 on:** February 14, 2011, 11:25:22 PM »

Quote from: •°o.O тîтℓєє O.o°• on February 14, 2011, 03:25:02 PM

So you mean to say that love happens in the vacuum all by itself and that the only thing you feel. Theoretically maybe yes, practically Really?

yes also practically really. Love is a stage when nthing except lv remains in the heart . No hate no joy no grief no expectation no wish to own that. Bt only devotion peace nd love.
Aaah its too deep n complicated. U just need to feel it. U cant learn it frm books or sm other sources.
People meet each other eat walk n talk nd then after 10 days says 'l really love u i can't live without u ' this is nt love.
love never follow any theory or law it has it's own way
Ha ha ha sanu te ji aje ehna lafza de mayne e ni pta te aj di gen pta ni ki bnai jandi e ehna nu.

҂ ȿḉặᵰɗἷἧäѷїѧҋ↔ᶀɍǐȶĩṧӊ ₰ · « **Reply #8 on:** February 15, 2011, 03:45:37 AM »

Jealousy = Well don't become 1. Anger = It's part o' the whole package. Rejection = It happens. Fear = Enjoy it while it last, don't worry about anything else.

powerlifter · « **Reply #9 on:** February 15, 2011, 04:18:07 AM »

love brings sadness cuz u expect more than usual!

҂ ȿḉặᵰɗἷἧäѷїѧҋ↔ᶀɍǐȶĩṧӊ ₰ · « **Reply #10 on:** February 15, 2011, 04:20:48 AM »

Quote from: PowerAssasinator on February 15, 2011, 04:18:07 AM

love brings sadness cuz u expect more than usual!

Dear god. :rabb: He really wants a kid. Help him!

powerlifter · « **Reply #11 on:** February 15, 2011, 04:24:12 AM »

Quote from: ✄※ḨҰĐṜØŞŦẨ₮ῘḈŜ on February 15, 2011, 04:20:48 AM

Dear god. :rabb: He really wants a kid. Help him!

my cat calling me "miaau" :laugh:

҂ ȿḉặᵰɗἷἧäѷїѧҋ↔ᶀɍǐȶĩṧӊ ₰ · « **Reply #12 on:** February 15, 2011, 04:27:59 AM »

Quote from: PowerAssasinator on February 15, 2011, 04:24:12 AM

my cat calling me "miaau" :laugh:

Gee you want a big family don't ya? A cat, a dog, ~~babies~~ baby, wife.

:

powerlifter · « **Reply #13 on:** February 15, 2011, 04:29:57 AM »

Quote from: ✄※ḨҰĐṜØŞŦẨ₮ῘḈŜ on February 15, 2011, 04:27:59 AM

Gee you want a big family don't ya? A cat, a dog, ~~babies~~ baby, wife. :

hahahaha oooowwwww baby :laugh:

҂ ȿḉặᵰɗἷἧäѷїѧҋ↔ᶀɍǐȶĩṧӊ ₰ · « **Reply #14 on:** February 15, 2011, 04:32:37 AM »

Quote from: PowerAssasinator on February 15, 2011, 04:29:57 AM

hahahaha oooowwwww baby :laugh:

Don't rush. Just keep on livin'.

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_noXiouS_ · « **Reply #15 on:** February 15, 2011, 03:25:41 PM »

It can provoke some of the negative emotions, however, there are also positive emotions associated with it as well. You can't say, being in love is the root cause of the negative energy, as it can be linked to many other issues in our lives as well.

Agree with Rubbie a little bit, that our expectations certainly can lead us towards disappointment. However, in this situation having high expectations can be a good thing, at least, you know what you want out of the relationship. They can help you steer towards the appropriate direction.

•°o.O тîтℓєє O.o°• · « **Reply #16 on:** February 15, 2011, 04:16:42 PM »

Well I def dint mean to say that love brings only negative emotions but what I mean is that negative emotions is part of the package.

I agree with you Noxiii darlingggg :love: :love:

Kudrat Kaur · « **Reply #17 on:** February 15, 2011, 08:45:41 PM »

Quote from: Rubbie on February 13, 2011, 11:35:12 PM

Sweetie... its not love that brings negative emotions... rather..these are our expectations...
Because whom we love..we expect a lot from them...

So the things which u have mentioned here are becoz of our expectations from our loved ones...
When we will stop expecting ...love will bring only postive emotions

yeah thats why i didn't expect that u wud wish me yesterday.. 8-> n i still have positive emotions for u :hehe:

EvIL_DhoCThoR · « **Reply #18 on:** June 11, 2012, 10:03:22 PM »

Quote from: ※ḨҰĐṜØŞŦẨ₮ῘḈŜ on February 15, 2011, 04:20:48 AM

Dear god. :rabb: He really wants a kid. Help him!

ahahahahahahahahahahha :laugh:

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