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Re: What would you do if you were put on an arranged marriage?
« Reply #40 on: December 02, 2010, 06:13:52 AM »
Not yet. But IF in future. I wouldn't mind as long as the guys 'my type'
and I see a future life partner in him? Hmmm. /:)
But chances of you being arranged to someone that's your "type" isn't quite possible because your parents are picking the bloke for you.

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Re: What would you do if you were put on an arranged marriage?
« Reply #40 on: December 02, 2010, 06:13:52 AM »

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Re: What would you do if you were put on an arranged marriage?
« Reply #41 on: December 02, 2010, 06:37:42 AM »
Yeh but in my case It wouldn't be like.
Oh they chose me a guy and I HAVE to marry em.
I've told my mum my choice. if I don't like em I simply won't marry him
( modern way of arranged marriage)

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Re: What would you do if you were put on an arranged marriage?
« Reply #42 on: December 02, 2010, 07:33:41 AM »
rab ne sab di jodi bnai ah ... arranged hove ya love...ki farak penda  :omg:

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Re: What would you do if you were put on an arranged marriage?
« Reply #43 on: December 02, 2010, 11:05:13 PM »


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Re: What would you do if you were put on an arranged marriage?
« Reply #44 on: December 03, 2010, 02:37:39 AM »
Yeh but in my case It wouldn't be like.
Oh they chose me a guy and I HAVE to marry em.
I've told my mum my choice. if I don't like em I simply won't marry him
( modern way of arranged marriage)
Modern way of arranged marriage eh? Lol. Nah i mean, it's odd as, asking your parents to go around looking for the right guy/girl for you.

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Re: What would you do if you were put on an arranged marriage?
« Reply #45 on: December 03, 2010, 05:20:07 AM »
Yeh but in my case It wouldn't be like.
Oh they chose me a guy and I HAVE to marry em.
I've told my mum my choice. if I don't like em I simply won't marry him
( modern way of arranged marriage)

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Re: What would you do if you were put on an arranged marriage?
« Reply #46 on: December 03, 2010, 05:30:38 AM »
Modern way of arranged marriage eh? Lol. Nah i mean, it's odd as, asking your parents to go around looking for the right guy/girl for you.
to me it isn't weird. thts the way my parents got married too..lol

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Re: What would you do if you were put on an arranged marriage?
« Reply #47 on: December 03, 2010, 06:35:21 AM »
Yeh but in my case It wouldn't be like.
Oh they chose me a guy and I HAVE to marry em.
I've told my mum my choice. if I don't like em I simply won't marry him
( modern way of arranged marriage)
biba stratosphere this was the end of this topic first u said it is odd in modern time bt this post prooved that arranged marriage has also a modern way bt u still don't  want to believe. Why? Do u have any ganiune reason for ur words if u hav then proov it. It doesn't mean that u r wrong bt if u think it is wrong it doesn't means other should also say it is wrong. Bt it seems u r trying to compell them to say it is wrong u r nt accepting their views.
We r frm different society nd culture so it is obvious that one thing which is wrong for u can be right for others. So stop wasting ur time here leave the discussion.
Pani ch mdhani paun da koi fayda ni, khido frolya leera e niklnia ne ha ha ha 

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Re: What would you do if you were put on an arranged marriage?
« Reply #48 on: December 03, 2010, 06:24:36 PM »
to me it isn't weird. thts the way my parents got married too..lol
Haha um ok.


biba stratosphere this was the end of this topic first u said it is odd in modern time bt this post prooved that arranged marriage has also a modern way bt u still don't  want to believe. Why? Do u have any ganiune reason for ur words if u hav then proov it. It doesn't mean that u r wrong bt if u think it is wrong it doesn't means other should also say it is wrong. Bt it seems u r trying to compell them to say it is wrong u r nt accepting their views.
We r frm different society nd culture so it is obvious that one thing which is wrong for u can be right for others. So stop wasting ur time here leave the discussion.
Pani ch mdhani paun da koi fayda ni, khido frolya leera e niklnia ne ha ha ha 
But arrange marriage isn't something i'd go for! or for that matter believe in, yeah you're right. Are you trying to change my mind? Because you can't. If i'm not genuine then i guess you're not genuine either because i'm not convinced whatsoever. Geezus mate i didn't say it was wrong, i'm saying it's odd! and if you've ever lived on a western country, you'll hear the exact same thing!

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Re: What would you do if you were put on an arranged marriage?
« Reply #49 on: December 03, 2010, 06:26:45 PM »
biba stratosphere this was the end of this topic first u said it is odd in modern time bt this post prooved that arranged marriage has also a modern way bt u still don't  want to believe. Why? Do u have any ganiune reason for ur words if u hav then proov it. It doesn't mean that u r wrong bt if u think it is wrong it doesn't means other should also say it is wrong. Bt it seems u r trying to compell them to say it is wrong u r nt accepting their views.
We r frm different society nd culture so it is obvious that one thing which is wrong for u can be right for others. So stop wasting ur time here leave the discussion.
Pani ch mdhani paun da koi fayda ni, khido frolya leera e niklnia ne ha ha ha 
erm explain karhan ch ki arz ah
If I explained my point of view..then whats wrong with tht. I never said tht someone shud agree :P

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Re: What would you do if you were put on an arranged marriage?
« Reply #50 on: December 04, 2010, 04:34:16 AM »
erm explain karhan ch ki arz ah
If I explained my point of view..then whats wrong with tht. I never said tht someone shud agree :P

He'd agree to anything other than mine.  :laugh: Because he's conservative and i'm liberal.

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Re: What would you do if you were put on an arranged marriage?
« Reply #51 on: December 04, 2010, 08:16:11 AM »
He'd agree to anything other than mine.  :laugh: Because he's conservative and i'm liberal.
lol silly

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Re: What would you do if you were put on an arranged marriage?
« Reply #52 on: December 04, 2010, 09:12:07 AM »
i think getting arrange marriage is not a bad thing... i think i will definatly go for it i do trust my parent and i knw they gonna think the best for me and anyway it's hard to trust aj kal daye munda  :angr: so for me getting arrange marriage would be no problem. and i'm not jst saying it i even told my parents that can choose any guy i have no problem.  by saying that omg my parents hugged me so tight and they both start kissing me and start crying . i will never forget that moment . si for me i don't care if ppl gonna say i'm old fashion or wutever i don't give a damn :happy:  i can do anything for my parents happiness

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Re: What would you do if you were put on an arranged marriage?
« Reply #53 on: December 04, 2010, 06:44:07 PM »
i think getting arrange marriage is not a bad thing... i think i will definatly go for it i do trust my parent and i knw they gonna think the best for me and anyway it's hard to trust aj kal daye munda  :angr: so for me getting arrange marriage would be no problem. and i'm not jst saying it i even told my parents that can choose any guy i have no problem.  by saying that omg my parents hugged me so tight and they both start kissing me and start crying . i will never forget that moment . si for me i don't care if ppl gonna say i'm old fashion or wutever i don't give a damn :happy:  i can do anything for my parents happiness

So you'll be happy to do it for your parents sake? Aight.

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Re: What would you do if you were put on an arranged marriage?
« Reply #54 on: December 04, 2010, 07:12:34 PM »
 :happy: :happy:

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Re: What would you do if you were put on an arranged marriage?
« Reply #55 on: December 04, 2010, 07:39:59 PM »
:happy: :happy:
Lol stop grinning? :happy:

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Re: What would you do if you were put on an arranged marriage?
« Reply #56 on: December 05, 2010, 03:25:53 AM »
ummm im jatt but I was born in vancouver so arranged marriage is odd for me as well i would never

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Re: What would you do if you were put on an arranged marriage?
« Reply #57 on: December 05, 2010, 04:44:14 AM »
i think getting arrange marriage is not a bad thing... i think i will definatly go for it i do trust my parent and i knw they gonna think the best for me and anyway it's hard to trust aj kal daye munda  :angr: so for me getting arrange marriage would be no problem. and i'm not jst saying it i even told my parents that can choose any guy i have no problem.  by saying that omg my parents hugged me so tight and they both start kissing me and start crying . i will never forget that moment . si for me i don't care if ppl gonna say i'm old fashion or wutever i don't give a damn :happy:  i can do anything for my parents happiness

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Re: What would you do if you were put on an arranged marriage?
« Reply #58 on: December 05, 2010, 05:31:38 AM »
ummm im jatt but I was born in vancouver so arranged marriage is odd for me as well i would never
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Re: What would you do if you were put on an arranged marriage?
« Reply #59 on: January 01, 2011, 04:01:27 AM »
if my parents do my arrange marriage then i havn't any prob in tht lol.

 

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