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What IS LOVE ?
« on: October 30, 2015, 04:03:39 AM »
Just sharing a drop out of the sea of my knowledge.  :D: I'm not gonna write several pages about it.

Quick check.

Love is about appreciating each other's personality, physical & spiritual success as well as each others actions toward the betterment of each other and appreciating the perception of the being for other species or for whatever it is. About, What does he do to better himself in every aspect of his life along with taking care of and working with nature?
What does he really think about and do for other species that co-exist with us? i.e; animals.

Love is expressed by doing things for your partner that could help/elevate him/her in any way. Not the things that could only be a mere temporary comfort.
It's not about claiming or making vows about dying for each other whatever. That's stupid. For you in a relationship ought to save each other from any disaster that may come your way, no matter what.  :blah:

A love relationship needs a balance as all other things need it so. Not giving away your "love" energy stupidly and unconditionally to him so at the end of the day you feel all worn out lol.

Some Important Note: Depending on your bioelectrical field, your love can either blow someone away or it will mean nothing if you had low bioelectricity. So when you love someone you give them away your own energy. So love wisely and conditionally. Unconditional love doesn't exist and you should be happy for it's non-existence if you could figure out *why*.
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What IS LOVE ?
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Re: What IS LOVE ?
« Reply #1 on: October 30, 2015, 05:50:31 AM »
Love is beautiful in its truest form only when its unconditional. If you expect something back then thats not love. Your bartering, not loving. I like your post! Keep it up buddy! :smile:

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Re: What IS LOVE ?
« Reply #2 on: October 30, 2015, 07:37:40 AM »
Love is life

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Re: What IS LOVE ?
« Reply #3 on: October 30, 2015, 07:50:25 AM »
waste of time :D:

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Re: What IS LOVE ?
« Reply #4 on: October 30, 2015, 08:09:11 AM »
Love is life its first part in life bt second part is pain in love

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Re: What IS LOVE ?
« Reply #5 on: October 30, 2015, 08:26:05 AM »
Love is life

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Re: What IS LOVE ?
« Reply #6 on: October 30, 2015, 11:33:01 AM »
L for Land of sorrow.

 O for Ocean of tears.

 V for Velley of death.

 E for End of life

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Re: What IS LOVE ?
« Reply #7 on: October 30, 2015, 02:03:19 PM »
L for Land of sorrow.

 O for Ocean of tears.

 V for Velley of death.

 E for End of life

100% sahi gal aa

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Re: What IS LOVE ?
« Reply #8 on: October 30, 2015, 02:38:05 PM »
dukh me milda :D:

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Re: What IS LOVE ?
« Reply #9 on: October 31, 2015, 10:14:53 AM »
Devotion , unconditional..... If conditional then it is a relationship.

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Re: What IS LOVE ?
« Reply #10 on: October 31, 2015, 10:25:56 AM »
Love: its a feeling that can never explained in words. A mother can never explain how much she loves her child. In love, no condition, no expectations.

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Re: What IS LOVE ?
« Reply #11 on: November 01, 2015, 04:16:05 AM »
Vehle te ameer loka d khed nu kehnde pyaar

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Re: What IS LOVE ?
« Reply #12 on: November 01, 2015, 07:47:42 AM »
Vehle te ameer loka d khed nu kehnde pyaar
Oh really lalli aah kiya example deti  =D>

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Re: What IS LOVE ?
« Reply #13 on: November 01, 2015, 11:39:47 PM »
wastage of time

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Re: What IS LOVE ?
« Reply #14 on: November 02, 2015, 01:42:28 AM »
Love is beautiful in its truest form only when its unconditional. If you expect something back then thats not love. Your bartering, not loving. I like your post! Keep it up buddy! :smile:

Actually, When I say love conditionally I don't mean that you should expect something back, ofcourse you shouldn't expect something in return.  It all depends on your partner whether if he will be willing to give something in return for the appreciation he's received from you. Now that *Something* is NOT anything materlistic thing or anything else that only benefits *You*. It's something that should elevate both of you in every aspect and should make the bond stronger,then.

When I say unconditionaly love can either get you hurt or killed I say it for facts I know. Just how many times you got hurt when you cared & loved someone unconditionally and they just took it for granted and they never or little valued it?

Many people get hurt when they do anything unconditionally because it's against the laws of universe and against nature herself, so things doesn't last longer or doesn't even work at all if you do anything unconditionally.

Thanks for the lilke, :P :2cool:



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Devotion , unconditional..... If conditional then it is a relationship.
Exactly. People can love unconditionally,show devotion and appreciation which is the first step. Unless it turns into a relationship it's stagnant and doesn't do any good for you or for the one you love.

i.e; You can love your pet dog unconditionally but unless you put some effort to build a relationship with him that makes the bond stronger of you both, that feeling of devotion and unconditional love is useless until you express it with action and that action should be towards the betterment of you both and your relationship with him.

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So it's, you do something for him to express your love and he does something for you in return more than you did for him. That something is what builds the trust,makes the bond stronger,and benefits both of you.

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Love is life its first part in life bt second part is pain in love
The so-called pain people complaint to suffer with in love relationship is because they love unconditionally which often is taken for granted by the other. That makes it easy for the person,tempt him to cheat or whatever he may like to do.

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Re: What IS LOVE ?
« Reply #15 on: November 02, 2015, 06:43:16 AM »
Actually, When I say love conditionally I don't mean that you should expect something back, ofcourse you shouldn't expect something in return.  It all depends on your partner whether if he will be willing to give something in return for the appreciation he's received from you. Now that *Something* is NOT anything materlistic thing or anything else that only benefits *You*. It's something that should elevate both of you in every aspect and should make the bond stronger,then.

When I say unconditionaly love can either get you hurt or killed I say it for facts I know. Just how many times you got hurt when you cared & loved someone unconditionally and they just took it for granted and they never or little valued it?

Many people get hurt when they do anything unconditionally because it's against the laws of universe and against nature herself, so things doesn't last longer or doesn't even work at all if you do anything unconditionally.

Thanks for the lilke, :P :2cool:



...Exactly. People can love unconditionally,show devotion and appreciation which is the first step. Unless it turns into a relationship it's stagnant and doesn't do any good for you or for the one you love.

i.e; You can love your pet dog unconditionally but unless you put some effort to build a relationship with him that makes the bond stronger of you both, that feeling of devotion and unconditional love is useless until you express it with action and that action should be towards the betterment of you both and your relationship with him.

...
@♥ ¤Ġσℓgαρρι¤ ♥
So it's, you do something for him to express your love and he does something for you in return more than you did for him. That something is what builds the trust,makes the bond stronger,and benefits both of you.

...
 The so-called pain people complaint to suffer with in love relationship is because they love unconditionally which often is taken for granted by the other. That makes it easy for the person,tempt him to cheat or whatever he may like to do.

...
complain*

Your right, and not everyone is always going to live up to our expectations. It's a cruel world out there these days, i see it everyday within my friend circle and relatives. Everyone's becoming selfish and they only care about you if it's benefiting them at the same time. If it's not, you can tell there's a slight difference in they're attitude or how they'll express themselves through words. You'll notice that little pause before they comment back if they're jealous! That pause is to gather their fake emotions and put on a mask before they give you a compliment so they look sincere. But if your smart, you'll pick up on that hesitation! I'm psychic so i can pick up on a lot of things, for example i can (im sure everyone can if they try) tell when someones being fake or they're putting on a front. I just sense something's wrong and my intuition is never wrong! :rabb:

So don't worry let people do what they're doing, you do your own thing. This is all a part of life, God wants you to go through certain episodes in life with some people so you can learn a lesson! Then he'll test you down the road with the same situations but different people to see if you learned. If not, same process will happen all over again, trust me i been through this, so i know for sure! :hehe:

I have such a kind and naive heart sometimes I go out of my way to help others. When it's time for me, no one shows up or does anything, it hurts the most when people you expected to always be there, put in the minimum requirement and bounce. :sad: So basically love with all you have but NEVER expect anyone to put in as much as you did into the relationship. If they do, let that be a surprise :ok: ! Every relation is different based on what people, their attitudes, personalities, the moment in general. Also another thing i noticed now a days is people can't block out their feelings. For example if someone had a bad day, they'll continue that negative behavior with everyone they meet and don't realize what they're doing. So many times dont take it personally if someone you love is acting like a douche! We've all had bad days and can understand !

I have so much more I want to share lol but I don't wanna write a whole chapter :hehe: I'll comment back later, let some people reply first! I love the topic though!!! :ok: Good work  8->

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Re: What IS LOVE ?
« Reply #16 on: November 02, 2015, 01:39:06 PM »
Love ik ehsaas a Jisde vich koi lalach nai hunda k samne vala person v sanu ona pyar kare ja fr sadiyan sharta te jarurta pooriyan kare.

Jo bs jarurta te sharta rakhde a oh pyar nai hunda.


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Re: What IS LOVE ?
« Reply #17 on: April 08, 2016, 03:24:43 AM »
Love kuch ni h bas feelings han.

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Re: What IS LOVE ?
« Reply #18 on: April 08, 2016, 04:29:50 AM »
Pta ni

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Love ki hunda

 

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