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Re: Pehli nazar da pyar
« Reply #20 on: November 01, 2010, 02:19:33 PM »

i think in order to have an appropriate discussion, we need to define "pyaar" first  :happy:

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Re: Pehli nazar da pyar
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Re: Pehli nazar da pyar
« Reply #21 on: November 01, 2010, 03:17:12 PM »
yr mai ta lab u 2-3 -4 -5 sab kus bol dao per pehlli najer kithe a?

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Re: Pehli nazar da pyar
« Reply #22 on: November 02, 2010, 03:48:22 AM »
Noxios ne bikul sahi kiha k es swal da hal labhan lai eh janna zroori e k pyar te chahat vich farak ki e. Meri samajh mutabik dona vich farak te hai par ena mamuli e k labhna aukha e dove atte te namak vang ne jinha nu vakh karna mushkil e. So chahat ona chir hi rehndi e jina chir oh chiz ya shaks sade to door e . Chahat vich banda chohnda k oh shaks hmesha us de nal rhe hasse khede har pal sanjha kre us d care kre etc. Bt jado pyar ho janda e ta chahat khatam ho jandi e fir banda kuj paun d nai sochda sgo apna kuj kurban karan d sochda oh apnia ichava mar k apne pyare d icha da satkar karda usda apna aap khatam ho janda apne pyare sahmne ehi hai sacha sucha pyar .par eh zroori nai k har bande d  chahat pyar vich badle kyo k pyar jihe sache suche ehsas lai ik sacha sucha dil hona zroori e. Ik farak hor v e jo shayad kise ne mehsoos kita hove k chahat ik extreme emotion e bt pyar soft delicate emotion e.

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Re: Pehli nazar da pyar
« Reply #23 on: November 02, 2010, 12:53:54 PM »
Love at first sight - Impossible. Oh sirf infatuation hai. You can't truly love someone unless you know him or her. Love upon seeing a gorgeous person is illusive and unlikely. Love entails a deep understanding and caring for a person and how is it possible that you were able to just know, you found that in a mere moment.




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Re: Pehli nazar da pyar
« Reply #24 on: November 02, 2010, 01:14:29 PM »
Vase gal tah tuhadi theek aa Raje in philosophical way but if take it in scientific way..

Love happens in fifth of a second at first sight. and jehda appa kehne aa ke dil di dharkan tez honi, ya fer face red ho jana , ya tusi pyar vich sohne dissde ho all these happen becoz of chemicals released by brain.  :pagel: :pagel:

n this is brain which falls in love not heart, Poor heart just suffer from aftereffects becoz of these released chemicals.. :loll:
here's link  u can read it  :happy:  http://www.thaindian.com/newsportal/health/love-at-first-sight-happens-in-fifth-of-a-second_100450185.html
AS of now, your definition of Love is same as doing lot of other things. I mean, jadon v appa koi ve kam karde, odon apna brain he sabh kuj karda, brain he signal dinda apne kisye ve body port nu move hoon lai, hai na?
Oh bhamme appa oss signal bare conscious haan bhame nahi haan.

 So i agree, appa nu pehla kisye pyaar di definition te agree hona paina...

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Re: Pehli nazar da pyar
« Reply #25 on: November 02, 2010, 03:17:23 PM »
Love at first sight - Impossible. Oh sirf infatuation hai. You can't truly love someone unless you know him or her. Love upon seeing a gorgeous person is illusive and unlikely. Love entails a deep understanding and caring for a person and how is it possible that you were able to just know, you found that in a mere moment.




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haha! exactly!!!!!

people misuse the word "love" these days lol jithe marji arra dinde a :happy:

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Re: Pehli nazar da pyar
« Reply #26 on: November 02, 2010, 03:22:24 PM »
there is no such a thing as pheli nazar da pyaar all BS :waitin: :cooll:

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Re: Pehli nazar da pyar
« Reply #27 on: November 02, 2010, 06:49:26 PM »
okji.. my first response was just review of one of the articles , that was not my personal opinion.

OK lets define LOVE first. In my opinion, Love is directly proportional to Time period of your relationship.

Pyar ik ajehi sucha teh ucha emotion aa, jo idda hi nai ho janda. ih oh feeling aa jo ik insaan di Rabb naal hai teh ik Sikh di Guruji naal aa. Jado Guruji ne kiha Singh sajo teh Dastaar banno tah os layee Sikh will do anything like our sikhs r still fighting in US Army for that. Jado babaji ne kiha naam japo teh kirat karo teh assi babaji nu pyar karde aa, then we will do anything to follow the path shown by Guruji, Chahe sanu roti mile ne mile, saun nu mile na mile.

So Love happens When u develop care, affection and respect and devotion for other person.

Pyar oh hai jo apne Mom teh dad Vich aa. Jado ik munda teh kudi ik duje nu milde ne gal karde ne,teh fer kehnde ne.. "LOVE U, LOVE U " that is not love. that is just likeness u develop for other person par love oddo hunda When u live together, go thru all the up and down of life together and support each other. that is Love.

So Whhen u say "I Love U" that is not love and When u feel it and really mean it then U need not to say it, Your Whole Body Language screams about it.

Therefore, When for one person , U just break the bubble of "I", "EGO" or "ATTITUDE" and fully devoted for him or her
That is called LOVE. Got it my friends??.. 8-> 8-> :pagel:




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Re: Pehli nazar da pyar
« Reply #28 on: November 02, 2010, 07:04:04 PM »
i agree with kudrat ji... she define it very nicely.. hope u guys understand too  :loll: :rockon: :excited:

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Re: Pehli nazar da pyar
« Reply #29 on: November 03, 2010, 10:13:55 AM »
Hanji hun kudrat ji ne bilkul sahi define kita thax kudra ji gr8 words. Nd ik gal hor a ji mainu khushi a k mai sahi sochda c thax all is pheli nu suljhaun lai

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Re: Pehli nazar da pyar
« Reply #30 on: November 03, 2010, 10:20:55 AM »
haha! exactly!!!!!

people misuse the word "love" these days lol jithe marji arra dinde a :happy:eh gal bilkul sahi kahi a

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Re: Pehli nazar da pyar
« Reply #31 on: November 04, 2010, 03:22:16 PM »


I thought St Augustine in Captain Corelli's Mandolin captured the definition of "love" beautifully.

"Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being "in love" which any of us can convince ourselves we are. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident. Your mother and I had it, we had roots that grew towards each other underground, and when all the pretty blossoms had fallen from our branches we found that we were one tree and not two."

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Re: Pehli nazar da pyar
« Reply #32 on: November 04, 2010, 05:03:00 PM »
i also agree with kudrat ji. :okk: :okk: :okk:

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Re: Pehli nazar da pyar
« Reply #33 on: November 04, 2010, 07:05:59 PM »
Thanku Thanku ji.. Nai vase idda delectures tah mere kol wadhu hunde ne .. :hehe:

Baki Thanks vala button v hega.. Zara gor Farmavo ohde teh v sare jane  :pagel: :pagel:

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Re: Pehli nazar da pyar
« Reply #34 on: November 04, 2010, 07:18:37 PM »
 :wait: another love u love u wala topic :waitin:
 bore na karo  :yawn:

 pehli nazar da pyaar.. me and the gym wala bench  :love:

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Re: Pehli nazar da pyar
« Reply #35 on: November 05, 2010, 10:51:32 AM »
okji.. my first response was just review of one of the articles , that was not my personal opinion.

OK lets define LOVE first. In my opinion, Love is directly proportional to Time period of your relationship.
Pyar ik ajehi sucha teh ucha emotion aa, jo idda hi nai ho janda. ih oh feeling aa jo ik insaan di Rabb naal hai teh ik Sikh di Guruji naal aa. Jado Guruji ne kiha Singh sajo teh Dastaar banno tah os layee Sikh will do anything like our sikhs r still fighting in US Army for that. Jado babaji ne kiha naam japo teh kirat karo teh assi babaji nu pyar karde aa, then we will do anything to follow the path shown by Guruji, Chahe sanu roti mile ne mile, saun nu mile na mile.
So Love happens When u develop care, affection and respect and devotion for other person.

Pyar oh hai jo apne Mom teh dad Vich aa. Jado ik munda teh kudi ik duje nu milde ne gal karde ne,teh fer kehnde ne.. "LOVE U, LOVE U " that is not love. that is just likeness u develop for other person par love oddo hunda When u live together, go thru all the up and down of life together and support each other. that is Love.


So you gotta move in with a girl first to love her.. Interesting :loll: :loll: .. But who will allow you to move in? :pagel:

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So Whhen u say "I Love U" that is not love and When u feel it and really mean it then U need not to say it, Your Whole Body Language screams about it.Therefore, When for one person , U just break the bubble of "I", "EGO" or "ATTITUDE" and fully devoted for him or her
That is called LOVE. Got it my friends??.. 8-> 8-> :pagel:

Body language Screams? :| .. I thought people only scream with their mouth :hehe:

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Re: Pehli nazar da pyar
« Reply #36 on: November 05, 2010, 10:53:45 AM »

I thought St Augustine in Captain Corelli's Mandolin captured the definition of "love" beautifully.

"Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being "in love" which any of us can convince ourselves we are. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident. Your mother and I had it, we had roots that grew towards each other underground, and when all the pretty blossoms had fallen from our branches we found that we were one tree and not two."

Kuch apna we likh la bebba.. lokka nu quote karke ke karna..  :happy: .. wesse we writer the jabliya jehha marda aa :pagel: :loll:

Je main edde punjabi kette.. Janta ne hasan lagg pena :pagel: :loll:


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Re: Pehli nazar da pyar
« Reply #37 on: November 12, 2010, 02:37:46 PM »
Kuch apna we likh la bebba.. lokka nu quote karke ke karna..  :happy: .. wesse we writer the jabliya jehha marda aa :pagel: :loll:

Je main edde punjabi kette.. Janta ne hasan lagg pena :pagel: :loll:



I guess, you need to read it again, likely a comprehension issue as your calling it "jabliya" or maybe a thought processing issue.  :whew:

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Re: Pehli nazar da pyar
« Reply #38 on: December 30, 2010, 03:39:09 PM »
pehli nazar  :rabb:

 

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