Author Topic: Pehli nazar da pyar (Read 3905 times)

ਕਰਮਵੀਰ ਸਿੰਘ · « **on:** October 29, 2010, 07:35:42 AM »

Sat sri akal ji,
mai ik swal sanjha karna chohnda ha jo aksar mere dimag ch aunda e k"pehli nazar de pyar namd koi chiz hai k nai"?
Meri samjh mutabik nai. Agar pehli nazar ch sanu koi changa lagda hai ta us nu attraction ya chahat kiha ja sakda na k pyar. Sanu pehli nazar vich sanu us bande d shakal surat , us da subha, ya us d personality changi lag sakdi e par is nu pyar nai kiha ja sakda kyo pyar ehna khasiata to pre hai. Asi kise nu dekh k hi pyar ni kar sakde. Jo banda is time tuhanu is time jis tra dikhai de riha hai zroori nai oh asal hove te pyar bande d bahri kaya nal nai rooh nal hunda e te asi us time tak us bande nal pyar nai kar sakde jad tak us d rooh nu na jan laiye te is tra ta sirf mil k ikathya time bita k ik duje nu samajh k ik dusre de jazbata d kadar karke ik dusre de dukh sukh vand k hi ho sakda e na k sirf dekh k. So is karke mera vichar hai k pehli nazar da pyar nai chahat hundi a par han eh pyar da pehla kadam zroor ho sakda hai.
Jehre sathi is gal nal sehmat hon oh zroor dasan kyo mai apni soch nu justify karna chohnda nd jehre sehmat na hon plz oh v apne vichar zroor dasan. Dhanvad ji

Punjabi Janta Forums - Janta Di Pasand · « **on:** October 29, 2010, 07:35:42 AM »

_noXiouS_ · « **Reply #1 on:** October 30, 2010, 04:11:04 PM »

shukar aa kise ne ta chajj di gall kiti :happy:

- let the critics come, then we talk!

Kudrat Kaur · « **Reply #2 on:** October 30, 2010, 04:19:57 PM »

Vase gal tah tuhadi theek aa Raje in philosophical way but if take it in scientific way..

Love happens in fifth of a second at first sight. and jehda appa kehne aa ke dil di dharkan tez honi, ya fer face red ho jana , ya tusi pyar vich sohne dissde ho all these happen becoz of chemicals released by brain. :pagel: :pagel:

n this is brain which falls in love not heart, Poor heart just suffer from aftereffects becoz of these released chemicals..

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here's link u can read it :happy: http://www.thaindian.com/newsportal/health/love-at-first-sight-happens-in-fifth-of-a-second_100450185.html

powerlifter · « **Reply #3 on:** October 30, 2010, 04:22:10 PM »

i found my face red everytime. wat a co-incidence with love 8->

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_noXiouS_ · « **Reply #4 on:** October 30, 2010, 04:23:57 PM »

Quote from: KUDRAT K.GREWAL on October 30, 2010, 04:19:57 PM

Vase gal tah tuhadi theek aa Raje in philosophical way but if take it in scientific way..

Love happens in fifth of a second at first sight. and jehda appa kehne aa ke dil di dharkan tez honi, ya fer face red ho jana , ya tusi pyar vich sohne dissde ho all these happen becoz of chemicals released by brain. :pagel: :pagel:

n this is brain which falls in love not heart, Poor heart just suffer from aftereffects becoz of these released chemicals.. :
here's link u can read it :happy: http://www.thaindian.com/newsportal/health/love-at-first-sight-happens-in-fifth-of-a-second_100450185.html

how can you say that's "love" and not something else?

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Jhanda_Amli · « **Reply #5 on:** October 30, 2010, 04:49:22 PM »

Quote from: _noXiouS_ on October 30, 2010, 04:23:57 PM

how can you say that's "love" and not something else? :

define something else

ਕਰਮਵੀਰ ਸਿੰਘ · « **Reply #6 on:** October 31, 2010, 08:19:19 AM »

Meharbani syane sajjna d jinha charcha vich hissa lya . Baki kudarat ji tuc swal to hat k jvab dita. Swal eh nai a k pyar dil karda ya dimag swal eh hai k pehli nazar vich jo v hunda usnu pyar keh sakde a ya chahat. So plz explain it thax.

_noXiouS_ · « **Reply #7 on:** November 01, 2010, 11:21:12 AM »

i think in order to have an appropriate discussion, we need to define "pyaar" first :happy:

Ķιℓℓα Ķαuя · « **Reply #8 on:** November 01, 2010, 11:54:31 AM »

agreed : define "pyar" first

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plus what's this love at first sight thing

: i never really understood this deal

the only love at first sight i see happening at the first thought is with a new born baby :love:

rest of things/people don't you have to know lil bit about the them before you realize the fact you have some kind of feelings :lost::lost:

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Gharry · « **Reply #9 on:** November 01, 2010, 12:00:40 PM »

dekho ji buhet janea de jabab ta appa nu samj nhi aye greji wich c ,per jo sawal a osda appa thoda jiha jabab likh ke dekhde a yr pehlli najer ch je banda changa lagu ta he koi osnal gall karo je gall karo fer sab kus pata lagg jaoo k kidda da sobha hy bande da ,osde kole kine k paise a ,o ki kem karda yr je bande di sakil he nhi chnagi lagu kise nu ta agge gall chalni he nhi es lai pehlli najer da piyar kus ta hunda he a

♥(ਛੱਲਾ)♥ · « **Reply #10 on:** November 01, 2010, 12:12:19 PM »

Pyar pyar kardi duniya..
Jis ne pyar kita ohi jane..
Eh ne ramja ishq diyan..
Peer fakeer sach akhh de sayiane...
Pyar de vich painde ne vichode...
Jehda sirre chad jave oh maujha manne...
Pyar vich kinne barbad hoye kinne awad hoye...
Mirza sahiba, heer ranjha kayi pyar ch mashoor hoye...
Kayi eshde patte mangde na panni....

Tu kyo dardi a jinde....
Jatt nal la yaari.... Jehda ishq di kadar nu jane... :love:

pyar krda tenu mainu dil ch vasna nae aunda...
Bullet de piche likhvia naam tera Sanu darna nae aunda...
Ek barri keh sanu apna....
Sanu tere nal pyar kina bar bar dasna nae aunda

Jhanda_Amli · « **Reply #11 on:** November 01, 2010, 12:17:28 PM »

Quote from: jatti_killa4nia_di on November 01, 2010, 11:54:31 AM

agreed : define "pyar" first :

plus what's this love at first sight thing : i never really understood this deal

the only love at first sight i see happening at the first thought is with a new born baby :love:

rest of things/people don't you have to know lil bit about the them before you realize the fact you have some kind of feelings :lost::lost: :

Its like this - You see a random guy in a grocery store or some else place. And then you go back to the same grocery store hoping to see the same person again.

- Com'n dont lie, everyone does it. First you like the person and the if you get intracted - talk and stuff, the person become your habit which is more of love.

Love is remembering, thinking, smiling while thinking, Trusting, relating most of the activities to the person you like, sometime waiting the evening to say hello, geting sad if one dont show up.. Etc Etc

Like is the simlar thing but it is love at a very low level - You like most of your friends. But sometime you dont trust on them as much you trust on your family (which is love)

Ķιℓℓα Ķαuя · « **Reply #12 on:** November 01, 2010, 12:27:06 PM »

Quote from: Daffa Hona on November 01, 2010, 12:17:28 PM

Its like this - You see a random guy in a grocery store or some else place. And then you go back to the same grocery store hoping to see the same person again.

- Com'n dont lie, everyone does it. First you like the person and the if you get intracted - talk and stuff, the person become your habit which is more of love.

Love is remembering, thinking, smiling while thinking, relating most of the activities to the person you like, sometime waiting the evening to say hello, geting sad if

seeing some random for the first time for example at a grocery store would lead to a crush i wouldn't say its love

in order for you to be thinking/ remembering something about someone you have to atleast talk to them to have any kind of memory :lost:

Jhanda_Amli · « **Reply #13 on:** November 01, 2010, 12:30:26 PM »

So you never repeated the process of going back to same place in hoping to see a random person you saw? - Lier :happy:

It is likness going to love or you wouldnt have gone. :blink:

Quote from: jatti_killa4nia_di on November 01, 2010, 12:27:06 PM

seeing some random for the first time for example at a grocery store would lead to a crush i wouldn't say its love

in order for you to be thinking/ remembering something about someone you have to atleast talk to them to have any kind of memory :lost: