Author Topic: Better To Have Loved And Lost Than Never To Have Loved At All. (Read 3008 times)

SonnenKinder · « **on:** January 23, 2010, 08:17:29 PM »

Don’t you think that It is better to have loved and lost than never to have love at all?

So you lost out on something. But didn’t you enjoy it while it lasted?

Anything worthwhile in life involves risk – the risk of failure. Sometimes that risk is too great for people to contemplate. But their lives are surely less if they fail to do so.

By falling in love you risk rejection.

By trying to get a better job you risk rejection.

By trying to get a book published you risk rejection.

By trying to get to the national team for your sport you risk rejection.

But you still try.

And what if you do make that sports team and get to play one game only to be dropped immediately because there is someone better to take your place? Would you rather that you never had the chance to play for the team? Would you still be glad you had the opportunity? Was it worth it just for that short moment?

What about falling in love and then getting dropped very soon after? That hurts, but isn’t it worth it? Aren’t you wiser for the experience? Wasn’t it wonderful while it lasted?

All things pass eventually – good and bad. So in a way you have to let go of everything sooner or later. It’s just that some things change sooner than others. And some things a lot sooner than you would prefer and that can be difficult. But then that’s life so you might as well get use to it.

It’s still worth the risk to try new things – sure, it might not work out – but what if it does, how great would that be!

To do anything in this world worth doing, we must not stand back shivering and thinking of the cold and danger, but jump in, and scramble through as well as we can.

Punjabi Janta Forums - Janta Di Pasand · « **on:** January 23, 2010, 08:17:29 PM »

Y "BB" · « **Reply #1 on:** January 28, 2010, 04:52:29 AM »

Sone je tu eh app likhi aa tan
salute to u =D> =D> =D> =D>
exactly
mera v ahi sochna
risk har cheej ch aa
jaruri nahi je apa pyar kariye te oh sire chadde h pyar hona h ik rabb da taufa hunda aa
par haan pyar ch daga deina sabh toh gandi gal hundi aa
lyf z risk
risk lai jao lai jao :balle: :balle: :balle: :balle:

M. · « **Reply #2 on:** January 28, 2010, 04:56:23 AM »

If u havent loved, u havent lived..
becos... Even though love brings alot of pain with it sumtimes,
you learn alot about it!

*rAbh RaKHA* · « **Reply #3 on:** January 28, 2010, 04:05:53 PM »

agreeeeeeeeee guys

¤AnoNymoUs StyLo¤ · « **Reply #4 on:** January 28, 2010, 04:15:17 PM »

well said, worth trying either it works or not. munda sayana lagda :happy:

d33P<3 · « **Reply #5 on:** January 28, 2010, 10:47:10 PM »

agree wit u ..
love hurts alot buh u neva stop fallin in love .. talkin from experiance ..
n also if it doesnt go rite .. u learn new things.. n have more experiance ..

SonnenKinder · « **Reply #6 on:** January 29, 2010, 08:47:06 AM »

thnk u all, for yr comments. (for yanken), bibi those r exclusively my own views

Y "BB" · « **Reply #7 on:** January 30, 2010, 12:56:09 AM »

Quote from: SonnenKinder on January 29, 2010, 08:47:06 AM

thnk u all, for yr comments. (for yanken), bibi those r exclusively my own views

AWESOME VIEWS SONNEN =D> =D> =D> =D>
TERE ARGE BANDE BOHAT GHAT NE
DUNIYEA NU TERE ARGE BANDE CHAHEEDE AA :happy: :happy:

SonnenKinder · « **Reply #8 on:** January 31, 2010, 06:09:35 AM »

Quote from: мєιη тєяι on January 30, 2010, 12:56:09 AM

AWESOME VIEWS SONNEN =D> =D> =D> =D>
TERE ARGE BANDE BOHAT GHAT NE
DUNIYEA NU TERE ARGE BANDE CHAHEEDE AA :happy: :happy:

duniya nu chaida mere parents kol request karn pher. shyad hor bana den :happy:

Y "BB" · « **Reply #9 on:** January 31, 2010, 11:47:48 PM »

Quote from: SonnenKinder on January 31, 2010, 06:09:35 AM

duniya nu chaida mere parents kol request karn pher. shyad hor bana den :happy:

DAFA HONA AKAL TENU SARI UMAR N ANI :hehe: :hehe: :hehe:

« **Reply #10 on:** February 01, 2010, 12:08:54 AM »

sonnen yar yamraaj nu v tere warge bande chahide aa..
wadia post mil jaugi apply kar de
www.jobs-in-hell.gov/vacent-posts/
te
for more informaition mail at:-
yamraaj4ualwayz@wlcm2hell.com
specially tere lai yamraaj to request kar k laye ne!!!
:laugh: :laugh:

TheStig · « **Reply #11 on:** February 01, 2010, 01:20:31 AM »

very nicely expressed bro sonnen
ur thinking is really nice and i gt similar thinking to that.
Thats true why to shiver,everything has risk,but if we dnt wana take the risk then we probably are comprimising many good things and experience. I strongly agree with ur words they are so true.
Haar jitt ta laggi rehndi hai..je haar gaye matlab eh nahi ki its end of the world for u.its indeed a good experience ,u learnt something n u can do it better next time.

To add to that,
Asi chote hunde si and chalna sikhde aa girde aa.

Je ek bacha diggan te darr to uthna na sikhe ,fer oh chalna kive sikhuga?

But we did when we were young when we were kids,so whats the problem now.
Risk is everywher just dont worry and do what ur heart says and u think is right.

SonnenKinder · « **Reply #12 on:** February 01, 2010, 07:30:12 AM »

Quote from: тєяι мєяι on January 31, 2010, 11:47:48 PM

DAFA HONA AKAL TENU SARI UMAR N ANI :hehe: :hehe: :hehe:

aaho jeri hagi b c ma loka vich band ditta :happy:

SonnenKinder · « **Reply #13 on:** February 01, 2010, 07:33:40 AM »

Quote from: Codename 47 on February 01, 2010, 01:20:31 AM

very nicely expressed bro sonnen
ur thinking is really nice and i gt similar thinking to that.
Thats true why to shiver,everything has risk,but if we dnt wana take the risk then we probably are comprimising many good things and experience. I strongly agree with ur words they are so true.
Haar jitt ta laggi rehndi hai..je haar gaye matlab eh nahi ki its end of the world for u.its indeed a good experience ,u learnt something n u can do it better next time.

To add to that,
Asi chote hunde si and chalna sikhde aa girde aa.

Je ek bacha diggan te darr to uthna na sikhe ,fer oh chalna kive sikhuga?

But we did when we were young when we were kids,so whats the problem now.
Risk is everywher just dont worry and do what ur heart says and u think is right.

exactly my point of view Rahul Veer its nature of mankind to learn from mistakes and not from examples

SonnenKinder · « **Reply #14 on:** February 01, 2010, 07:35:56 AM »

Quote from: MALVE DA MUNDA-hOnEy on February 01, 2010, 12:08:54 AM

sonnen yar yamraaj nu v tere warge bande chahide aa..
wadia post mil jaugi apply kar de
www.jobs-in-hell.gov/vacent-posts/
te
for more informaition mail at:-
yamraaj4ualwayz@wlcm2hell.com
specially tere lai yamraaj to request kar k laye ne!!!
:laugh: :laugh:

teek aa ma kar denda apply par tu b mera pichha ni chadna aa jana mara kol. ma yamraj nu boluna honey chaida manu mera PA ni ta ma ni karda tari job shob :happy:

« **Reply #15 on:** February 01, 2010, 02:24:46 PM »

Quote from: SonnenKinder on February 01, 2010, 07:35:56 AM

teek aa ma kar denda apply par tu b mera pichha ni chadna aa jana mara kol. ma yamraj nu boluna honey chaida manu mera PA ni ta ma ni karda tari job shob :happy:

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
:laugh:YAR TU JA MAI AGLE SHOW TE AA JU!!