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8 ways ignore pain
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Know the pros. Everybody has natural (and necessary) mechanisms for ignoring pain and negative feelings. The harder thing to do is to let yourself feel the feelings fully, when you are ready, and deal with them. However, at times it can be important to ignore them for some time. For example, when they are too powerful for you to deal with, and you are not ready, when they interfere with a strong need, such as the need for survival, to work for money, to negotiate a tough situation with people who cannot support you with your feelings, or to protect yourself from temporary hazards.
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Know the cons. Read the warnings below. Hiding your feelings can delay your progress, can inhibit healthy communication and trust.
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Control your anger. Before anything else, the key is anger. As anger builds in you, it can be used to help block off thinking. Try to concentrate to be angry and to push it down.
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Stop feeling whatever it is If you wish to live with no sorrow, after you can control your anger well enough, begin to talk yourself out of sadness; to just not care. This is the next step in learning - to not lose yourself in emotions and feelings. Try to stop caring and say "I control my life." Be bold be strong. Try push it out of your head. Things wont bother you if you wont let them.
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Block out mental stresses and pain for physical pain. This system is a bit different because now you must endure before you can truly leave behind physical pain. This doesn't mean you have to cut yourself. You just have to accept the feeling of pain when you're hurt. Find a sparring partner, a close friend perhaps, preferably someone bigger.
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Focus. Now you must realize a truth in life. It's a truth that you will need to focus on. All your feelings come from thoughts and impulses in your head that tell you something is wrong or right, like a burn or a tickle. What you must do is realize that with enough pushing and controlled thought, you can change wrong to right, sorrow into happiness, etc. With pain, all you do is tell yourself it doesn't hurt. It seems simple, but is harder than one can truly imagine.
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Find help from inspirational quotes. Try to look up inspiring quotes on Google. Try listening to songs that have strong lyrics.
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Know that you won't always be hurting. Sooner or later, you'll find light at the end of the tunnel.
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:hehe: Mai keha lod pye hee jandi aa sometime kise na kise nu :hehe:
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9 Read Gurbani. Helps provide some light in this darkness of a world.
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9 Read Gurbani. Helps provide some light in this darkness of a world.
i think dis da best way to ignore pain nd fight wid it
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Mehoko nice topic it'z helpful
Thanks for sharing :)
Btw Gs ji it shd be the 1st one b'coz maunu lagda jeh insan yh karle baki 8 di lod hi nhi paini :)
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9 Read Gurbani. Helps provide some light in this darkness of a world.
Thanks inder ji please eh vi edit kar deo.. Eh bilkul sehi aa jado mera man bhatke ja dil na lage I always do jupji sahib da path te mere Mann nu shanti meldi aa
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peg is another main thing :D: :D:
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peg is another main thing :D: :D:
o really so peeni shuru kar deni chidi hana..
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aho lassi :hehe:
o really so peeni shuru kar deni chidi hana..
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ghainttttt gal kehti mehkuuu :okk: :okk: :okk: :okk:
sab to wdia gal kahi tu =D> =D> =D> =D> =D>
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ghainttttt gal kehti mehkuuu :okk: :okk: :okk: :okk:
sab to wdia gal kahi tu =D> =D> =D> =D> =D>
mainu lagda teno vi koi pain laggi lagdi :wait:
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engreji ghat bol leya karo uuda naam punjabi junta rakhiya :D:
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ok :okk:
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8 ways ignore pain
1
Know the pros. Everybody has natural (and necessary) mechanisms for ignoring pain and negative feelings. The harder thing to do is to let yourself feel the feelings fully, when you are ready, and deal with them. However, at times it can be important to ignore them for some time. For example, when they are too powerful for you to deal with, and you are not ready, when they interfere with a strong need, such as the need for survival, to work for money, to negotiate a tough situation with people who cannot support you with your feelings, or to protect yourself from temporary hazards.
2
Know the cons. Read the warnings below. Hiding your feelings can delay your progress, can inhibit healthy communication and trust.
3
Control your anger. Before anything else, the key is anger. As anger builds in you, it can be used to help block off thinking. Try to concentrate to be angry and to push it down.
4
Stop feeling whatever it is If you wish to live with no sorrow, after you can control your anger well enough, begin to talk yourself out of sadness; to just not care. This is the next step in learning - to not lose yourself in emotions and feelings. Try to stop caring and say "I control my life." Be bold be strong. Try push it out of your head. Things wont bother you if you wont let them.
5
Block out mental stresses and pain for physical pain. This system is a bit different because now you must endure before you can truly leave behind physical pain. This doesn't mean you have to cut yourself. You just have to accept the feeling of pain when you're hurt. Find a sparring partner, a close friend perhaps, preferably someone bigger.
6
Focus. Now you must realize a truth in life. It's a truth that you will need to focus on. All your feelings come from thoughts and impulses in your head that tell you something is wrong or right, like a burn or a tickle. What you must do is realize that with enough pushing and controlled thought, you can change wrong to right, sorrow into happiness, etc. With pain, all you do is tell yourself it doesn't hurt. It seems simple, but is harder than one can truly imagine.
7
Find help from inspirational quotes. Try to look up inspiring quotes on Google. Try listening to songs that have strong lyrics.
8
Know that you won't always be hurting. Sooner or later, you'll find light at the end of the tunnel.
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:hehe: Mai keha lod pye hee jandi aa sometime kise na kise nu :hehe:
eh topic e parh lwe.. :D: pain ape bhul jana.. :lol:
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jandu balm
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peg is another main thing :D: :D:
hahahhahaha Mottu :hehe: