Janta here i read a topic abt arrange mrg one side saying it's so old nd odd in this modern world nd one side saying it is good coz its our tradition nd the opponent doesn't have any ganiune reason to proov it wrong so i thought to share the idea behind the arranged marriage .
It was the great thinking of our forefathers to manage the society , to create a social system. When human was living as a wild animal in jungle at very first time the women felt the need to have a parmanent partener bcoz at that time the women led the group so when they became mothers then they needed smbdy to take care of their children so that they can go out on hunt. So it was the beginning of life time relation. Human started to live in couples it helped to creat our society .

All creatures on this earth interbreed so that their species stay alive and for that in jungle the animals gone wild to proov the superemacy on the group nd the most powerfull always get all females. Bt the human breed was intelligent nd had social behaviour they create the relations between the male nd female like father mother brother sister to prevent the fight for woman. If they did not do like that then all male would fight for the female and the female would never be safe in the world so the society builders create these relations nd then the term arranged  marriage war imerged. The parents took care of their children tought them the ideas nd techniques to live nd also prevented them to make sex relation upto a specific age as they were nt mantally and physically prepared  for that . When they reached at the specific age they find a partener for their child bcoz the children were grown up in a society where they knew the female as mother or sister bt nt as a partener nd were not able to make such deciessions. So thats why the arranged marriage is the important part of indian society cultur. So it helped alot to make human a social animal.
And its also prooven that arranged marriage goes long than lv marriag coz if it is an arranged marriage then it is nt only a relation it is also a reponsibility.

either way in any marriage... u gotta put in da effort ... kai arranged marriages vi tut jandia...
cus u never know bande ne kehaja niklna... :okk:

Ur rite simar

Meh vi Asal  ch hi ds Rai a..  :rockon:

interesting :wait:

Nai ji eda te koi gal ni k mai thodi gal nal sehmat a kyo eh jo v mai likhya oh mere apne view ne nd mai apne hi view nal disagree kive ho sakda bt  behes karan de piche koi fayda ni tuhada apna nazria te mera apna mai is karke tuhanu galat ni keh sakda k tuc mere nal sehmat nal nd tuc v mainu galat ni keh skde so behes da koi fayda ni tuc kehna mai thik a te mai kehna mai so koi fayda ni

I get where you're coming from but you can't expect me or anybody else to believe that arrange marriage is the way to go. I'm just voicing my opinion and alright if that's what you believe then ok, can't do anything about that. And no, arrange marriage doesn't always survive longer than love marriage. That's bull! where did you even hear that from?

I get where you're coming from but you can't expect me or anybody else to believe that arrange marriage is the way to go. I'm just voicing my opinion and alright if that's what you believe then ok, can't do anything about that. And no, arrange marriage doesn't always survive longer than love marriage. That's bull! where did you even hear that from?

yes i also said the exact thing in ur topic

I think unless you are in love a marriage cannot survive..

marriege  :balle: :rockon: :excited: :blush: