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Re: Question - Optium Age of Getting Married and Kids
« Reply #20 on: June 07, 2010, 08:16:02 PM »
Optimum age to get married = 21 years
fer aish karo, jdo marji bache peyda karlo

Jeez Billu ...  :loll: :loll: :loll:


thanks pragmatic ji and roop ji for supporting my views
That's what I think

Jhanda veere if your not that old then you can get married , You seem to be very desparate :wait: . Don't worry we are here , we can take care of everything. Just don't forget to invite us  :happy:

I owe u a number 25 may be? so ya girls have 2 years to impress me !  :waitin:
which will never happen.
kiddin hun khush jhanda singh ji
haha rahul ji.. a gurl can never impress ya. wow.. letz c wot happens.. :wait: :wait:

well laghda tan edha hi eh .. rajje kamlo is so desperate to get marry..chalo rahul ji ehna de hath peele kariye..pj di kisse kuri nu push lende if they r interested in him?? wah say :pagel: :pagel:

I am into arrange marriages.. mere Kardiya nu Manna lavvo.. I wont say a Thing... :loll:
They decided so much good from me ... Let them be the judge.. :happy:


ok i think the best age to get marry is 23-25.. 
get engaged with the person for a year or so..thne get to know each otheh..n then jado sahi lagge ohdo committed ho javo

aa ke gal hoyye... You get engaged and then still think of Back off...
Choose the one with whom you are perpared to get Old... Rather than trying after being engaged...  :happy:
Tere teh hun kardiya nu keh ke arrange marriage karaa denne aa.. tu app kamli aa.. tu ke samjna - Bus bhut ho geyya samjon Samjon walla bhanna..  /:)


hmm..This is really very serious issue for me these dayz..I wud like to answer little seriously abt it..
I totally Agree with Codename 47 and after him with Pragmatic  .Really very mature answers..

For me, Everbody suggest I shud get married now rather I shud say compelled. But I really think one shud be mentally,Physically, Economically Prepared for this.In my case,I want to achieve something in my prefessional career and it will take atleast year or year and half..
I wud not like to be burden for him but I wish that he can look upon me for any kind of support including economically if he will need that..So, I am doing my best for this atleast before marriage  i wud like to have my own house here..(just one short term goal)..Rest, for me its 27 but i dont know I want my parents to be happy too more than me..

Baki Jhanda Amliji, Tusi Diapers di baali fikar karde ho..Those r not so expensive..Appa tuhanu PJ teh Cheap deal available karavnage..and I hope PJ wud love to help u for that..   :happy:

Burden of what ji..
Nalle I dont worri cause the diapers are expensive.. I worry cause they are dirty.. :loll:

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Re: Question - Optium Age of Getting Married and Kids
« Reply #20 on: June 07, 2010, 08:16:02 PM »

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Re: Question - Optium Age of Getting Married and Kids
« Reply #21 on: June 07, 2010, 08:16:57 PM »
BTW .. Forget Diapers from Now.. That is completely Irrelevent..
Hun Saree Diaper de davve na ho jayio  :pagel:  :loll: :loll: :loll:

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Re: Question - Optium Age of Getting Married and Kids
« Reply #22 on: June 07, 2010, 08:22:27 PM »
thanks kudrat ji for that

Roop ji haha thats so true  :happy:
Jhande veere de hath peele karne hi pene lagda

ghardye ni apa mana lena fikar kahdi..

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Re: Question - Optium Age of Getting Married and Kids
« Reply #23 on: June 07, 2010, 08:27:52 PM »
leh My Bapu is a Strik man - Try karke wekh lavvo ... :loll:


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Re: Question - Optium Age of Getting Married and Kids
« Reply #24 on: June 07, 2010, 08:52:54 PM »
bapu ji nu mana lawange
kudi kaun a  :happy:

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Re: Question - Optium Age of Getting Married and Kids
« Reply #25 on: June 07, 2010, 09:16:20 PM »
bapu ji nu mana lawange
kudi kaun a  :happy:

Mainu kehre pasand aaa.. :loll:

Dussa ...
Matta Mere de Nau..
Teh Tere Bhabi Bai...  :happy:

Lagg geyye samaj bai  :happy:

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Re: Question - Optium Age of Getting Married and Kids
« Reply #26 on: June 07, 2010, 09:24:45 PM »
 :waitin: too much majaak ni chalna  :angry:

dasso kehri kudi aa mai aap rishta leke jana apne veere da

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Re: Question - Optium Age of Getting Married and Kids
« Reply #27 on: June 07, 2010, 10:20:23 PM »

So you 28-29  and I am 30 - 31 ... Perfect match.. Damn wat we waiting for.. :loll:
- Well My whole point of posting this is... You Saying Love you to anyone.. Are you ready to old with the person.. That is why I am asking for a Number.. :loll:

well .. I still have 5-6 yrs to go how abt u  jhanda amli ji…  :loll:
 
ok  back to serious discussion… your point  makes sense …..  wat I feel is ..it depends on mutual understanding of both persons in relationship and  of course the families of either side….
Baki ghardeya  agge  ta  sabde hath khade ne  :rabb:

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Re: Question - Optium Age of Getting Married and Kids
« Reply #28 on: June 07, 2010, 10:42:27 PM »
Bro. i wuld marry when i wuld be able to tke up my family expenditure...
nw i Am studing bt still i hesitate to ask me father for money.
they done a lot much for  us nw its our time ...
and i wander the rght age shuld be when one culd easily efort all the family exp. or it might be 25 - 30 .

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Re: Question - Optium Age of Getting Married and Kids
« Reply #29 on: June 07, 2010, 11:21:57 PM »
well .. I still have 5-6 yrs to go how abt u  jhanda amli ji…  :loll:
 
ok  back to serious discussion… your point  makes sense …..  wat I feel is ..it depends on mutual understanding of both persons in relationship and  of course the families of either side….
Baki ghardeya  agge  ta  sabde hath khade ne  :rabb:


Sadde we enne ke he la lavvo ji ... So gal batt pakki samjiye fer :pagel: :loll:  :loll: :loll:


@ Navi - Guys tends to 25-30 .. Girls a bit younger i guess... And Billu wants it 21.. :loll:


:waitin: too much majaak ni chalna  :angry:

dasso kehri kudi aa mai aap rishta leke jana apne veere da

:loll: bai jedde nal marji karaa de.. I trust your Choice..
Badh wich par mere bapu ji nu Manna leyye :loll:
« Last Edit: June 07, 2010, 11:53:19 PM by Jhanda Amli »

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Re: Question - Optium Age of Getting Married and Kids
« Reply #30 on: June 07, 2010, 11:49:47 PM »
Lao ji. . .simple answer. . . .perfect age 2 get married is b/w 27-30. . . Bt j banda kamaun lag peya aa ta, j nahi kamunda ta mrg hi nahi krni chahidi, coz aaj oh hi prsn khush reh sakda jheda kamaunda aa, aaj kal diyan saarian needs paise naal hi purian hundiyan. . . . . . .bt sab toh phela aapne parents bare soacho jina ne tuhanu kamaun de kabil baneya, then aapni mrg bare. . . . . .
Bt hanji
j vehla hi rehana psnd hou ta ik ameer kudi lab lao :laugh: :hehe:

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Re: Question - Optium Age of Getting Married and Kids
« Reply #31 on: June 08, 2010, 12:32:20 AM »
na mai kida jehri marzi naal kara dawa baad ch menu galla kadnia
je gaddi leni hove ta gal bakhri aa hehe

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Re: Question - Optium Age of Getting Married and Kids
« Reply #32 on: June 08, 2010, 05:21:17 AM »
:loll: .. Jhalliye tu we teh esse generation de aa.. :pagel:


Extra thought-
- I dont know ... Sometimes I feel like Girls are more inclined to get married then guys (sooner) .. enna ne patta ke jawaka de Diaper we change karne ne badh wich  :pagel:  :loll:
par me kinda different  :mean: asi tan nibhaun nu bethe aa,,, koi nibhaan ala h n milda  :pagel: :pagel:

nah menu v koi khas chah nahi vyah da.. par menu pata hai eh tan hona h aa.. fer kiyu nah right age te hoje :mean: nahi tan uncle types da munda  miluga... :pagel:

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Re: Question - Optium Age of Getting Married and Kids
« Reply #33 on: June 08, 2010, 03:10:35 PM »
Jeez Billu ...  :loll: :loll: :loll:


I am into arrange marriages.. mere Kardiya nu Manna lavvo.. I wont say a Thing... :loll:
They decided so much good from me ... Let them be the judge.. :happy:


aa ke gal hoyye... You get engaged and then still think of Back off...
Choose the one with whom you are perpared to get Old... Rather than trying after being engaged...  :happy:
Tere teh hun kardiya nu keh ke arrange marriage karaa denne aa.. tu app kamli aa.. tu ke samjna - Bus bhut ho geyya samjon Samjon walla bhanna..  /:)


Burden of what ji..
Nalle I dont worri cause the diapers are expensive.. I worry cause they are dirty.. :loll:
tuahnu samjayona ayokha eh.. n being engaged is a commitment itselff... ..n back karn vare soch vi ni sakde...shado..n mein ni arrange marrainge karvayoni tey nah hi love karvayoni.. :pagel: :pagel: baki mom naal gal ni karwa sakde tuahdi.. tusi sare jane ek passe hoyi jande menu ekaleya shad ke :sad: :sad:

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Re: Question - Optium Age of Getting Married and Kids
« Reply #34 on: June 08, 2010, 03:12:32 PM »
leh My Bapu is a Strik man - Try karke wekh lavvo ... :loll:


bapu ji nu rahul ji ne mana lena..tusi kuri da naam dasso..sheti..
mien tan ready aan.. kamlo mein keha sim de naal naal tuahdian vi lavan karwa denian..mara karcha katoga :he: :he:

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Re: Question - Optium Age of Getting Married and Kids
« Reply #35 on: June 08, 2010, 03:42:48 PM »
I donno why everyone is so ready to get me married :loll:

@ Mishri - Na dus hain kamli na hovve ta... Je tu nachna a teh tenu Dj Lavva denne a.. Saree Raat Nachi javve.. Mer Jaan nu evve tangna eh..

nalle bhee PJ walia kuria bhut boldiya.. Sanu teh koi Sau jehhe kuri chaide aa.. jehra kath bolde hovve.. nalle respect nal bole (Old School Punjabi Jatti) nalle changa bolde hovve ... etho main pasand kar leyye teh Jehre pasand kette ohne aa ke mere Phande(utensils) Puthe paa denne aa.. Mainu teh waqt pau pau.. Nal ne mere kardiya ragar chadne aa ohne .... evve Saree umar da ratta  :loll: - So mainu Baskash davvo Saree janne.. asse charee change aa.. :happy:

par me kinda different  :mean: asi tan nibhaun nu bethe aa,,, koi nibhaan ala h n milda  :pagel: :pagel:


Lagda tenu we PJ Matrimonial wich enter krna penna.. Evve late hunde a Sadde Yankeen  :happy:  :loll:
« Last Edit: June 08, 2010, 04:20:45 PM by Jhanda Amli »

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Re: Question - Optium Age of Getting Married and Kids
« Reply #36 on: June 08, 2010, 04:21:17 PM »
I donno why everyone is so ready to get me married :loll:

@ Mishri - Na dus hain kamli na hovve ta... Je tu nachna a teh tenu Dj Lavva denne a.. Saree Raat Nachi javve.. Mer Jaan nu evve tangna eh..

nalle bhee PJ walia kuria bhut boldiya.. Sanu teh koi Sau jehhe kuri chaide aa.. jehra kath bolde hovve.. nalle respect nal bole (Old School Punjabi Jatti) nalle changa bolde hovve ... etho main pasand kar leyye teh Jehre pasand kette ohne aa ke mere Phande(utensils) Puthe paa denne aa.. Mainu teh waqt pau pau.. Nal ne mere kardiya ragar chadne aa ohne .... evve Saree umar da ratta  :loll: - So mainu Baskash davvo Saree janne.. asse charee change aa.. :happy:

Lagda tenu we PJ Matrimonial wich enter krna penna.. Evve late hunde a Sadde Yankeen  :happy:  :loll:
SO U mean pj dian kurian sau ni hegian /:) /:) n jeyada boldian ne

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Re: Question - Optium Age of Getting Married and Kids
« Reply #37 on: June 08, 2010, 04:25:45 PM »
 :loll: :loll:

dus kenna aukha wekhde aa.. :loll:

nah nah sariya bhut sau aa ji.. Teh sariya ton sau sadde Mishroo.. Hun teek aaa... Sadde Mithe Mishri  8-> 8->

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Re: Question - Optium Age of Getting Married and Kids
« Reply #38 on: June 08, 2010, 04:26:42 PM »
:loll: :loll:

dus kenna aukha wekhde aa.. :loll:

nah nah sariya bhut sau aa ji.. Teh sariya ton sau sadde Mishroo.. Hun teek aaa... Sadde Mithe Mishri  8-> 8->
NO COMMENTS dil torh tan koye veyah ni karna assin tuahda.. forget it /:) /:)

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Re: Question - Optium Age of Getting Married and Kids
« Reply #39 on: June 08, 2010, 04:29:14 PM »
leh dus That was joke.. Naraj katho hunde aa ne mere Mishro...  :happy:
karoo karoo chette chette viah.. main teh ready aa.. viah kyun nai karna.. :loll: :loll:
Leh far Candy Kha la  :candies:  :happy:

 

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