Author Topic: Love marriage v/s arranged marriage (Read 1932 times)

ਕਰਮਵੀਰ ਸਿੰਘ · « **on:** December 21, 2010, 03:45:13 AM »

It is funny to discuss about love marriage v/s arranged.
It is like asking some1 if the suicide is better or being murdered.

҂ ȿḉặᵰɗἷἧäѷїѧҋ↔ᶀɍǐȶĩṧӊ ₰ · « **Reply #1 on:** December 21, 2010, 04:41:31 AM »

I don't understand how a few pj members are ok with arrange marriage.

ਕਰਮਵੀਰ ਸਿੰਘ · « **Reply #2 on:** December 21, 2010, 05:53:57 AM »

plz nt again

Jhanda_Amli · « **Reply #3 on:** December 21, 2010, 10:55:20 AM »

Bai chahhe arrange kar la..Chahhe Love.. "Behle da bakra" teh tu (munde) ne he banna aa..

- So balle de bakre nu chahe chatka lavo chahhe halal karo.. gal teh ekko aa

•°o.O тîтℓєє O.o°• · « **Reply #4 on:** December 21, 2010, 11:40:06 AM »

Quote from: ※ḨҰĐṜØŞŦẨ₮ῘḈŜ on December 21, 2010, 04:41:31 AM

I don't understand how a few pj members are ok with arrange marriage.

Lol .... it is not that bad .. now a days arranged marriage is just like being set up for a date by your parents rather than your friends.... so chill ....

I think I agree with Jahndaji ... koi vi way hove .. assi taan ik bakra labna aa

LondonPunjabi · « **Reply #5 on:** December 21, 2010, 11:52:39 AM »

Oh yaro, mere Ma Peo di arranged marriage ci. Mein kehna changa hoia, nai tan Peo sada shada reh jana ci te sade verge Rab di dhuni vich turian firna ci.

@@JeEt@@ · « **Reply #6 on:** December 21, 2010, 11:58:58 AM »

Jhanda_Amli · « **Reply #7 on:** December 21, 2010, 12:59:54 PM »

Quote from: Titlee on December 21, 2010, 11:40:06 AM

Lol .... it is not that bad .. now a days arranged marriage is just like being set up for a date by your parents rather than your friends.... so chill ....

I think I agree with Jahndaji ... koi vi way hove .. assi taan ik bakra labna aa

I m not kidding.. Love marriage are more of trouble, so much trouble

Think this way - So what ever suffering you (as a guy or girl) will have after your married life. You start to worry about them right now.
Very small example
Example 1 - If you and a girl are friend and girl ask you to help in her resume - You have a choice of yes or no. But if that girl is your girlfriend, you dont have a choice and she won't ask for "help" in a resume .. It will more be of a order - "do my resume", even when you have a final to write the next day...

example 2 - I have a buddy and he has a gf but they dont own a car as both are undergrads. When ever the girl has to go to work .. The guy accompany her in the bus for back and forth; and each side is like 30-45 mins bus ride.... I look at them and like seriously that is causing urself trouble at the age you dont want

example 3 - if your gf flats a tyre on the highway, you are the first one to get a call and make sure you get it fixed it early or you in trouble

... Now these things should be after marriage.. why you kids wanna suffer now with love relationship

.....and the list goes on

So basically if you are in going into love marriage let say 5 years from now. Your suffering already started 5 years ahead,

Well good about love marriage - ya may be you found someone of your choice (so a one young kid choosing); but if you get into arrange 20 people will find you someone who match perfect for you - Now you be the judge

second good - Ya you dont feel lonely and stuff.. But the company comes with a big price..

powerlifter · « **Reply #8 on:** December 21, 2010, 01:22:21 PM »

Quote from: ※ḨҰĐṜØŞŦẨ₮ῘḈŜ on December 21, 2010, 04:41:31 AM

I don't understand how a few pj members are ok with arrange marriage.

ਗਰੇਵਾਲ · « **Reply #9 on:** December 21, 2010, 02:11:32 PM »

yr pehlli gall ta e a k veer mere ne topic banea o v funny bol ke yr eda da topic funny kida ho sakda e buhet he jaruri topic a ,dujji gall nam desi a te bolda greji a mai ena de buhet topic dekhe a jithe mera veer kihnda punjabi ch gall karo te ajj app he greji ch topic bana reha ,bakki mera bro jhanda ta hamessa he theek gall karda appa osde nal a

•°o.O тîтℓєє O.o°• · « **Reply #10 on:** December 21, 2010, 02:16:17 PM »

Quote from: Jhanda Amli on December 21, 2010, 12:59:54 PM

example 3 - if your gf flats a tyre on the highway, you are the first one to get a call and make sure you get it fixed it early or you in trouble ... Now these things should be after marriage.. why you kids wanna suffer now with love relationship

and the list goes on

Hahahaha this is so true .. just last week ..early 7 AM... my close fren while driving to office decided to roll off the road into the snow. Her car wouldnt move anymore. Now normally you would call 911 or AAA ... but she calls her boyfrend... and when he doesnot pick up the call (poor guy is sleeping) she calls me up and asks me to walk up to his apartment and wake him and ask him to come to the spot.

And guess what he did after going there .... Call 911. There was just so much he could do...

But yeah I would expect my boyfriend to be there when I have a flat tire.... and he better be there fast

And Jhandaji - tuhanu bahut experience lagda aina gallan da

ਗਰੇਵਾਲ · « **Reply #11 on:** December 21, 2010, 02:28:59 PM »

yr punjabi janta da nam change ker dao

:angry:ethe ta admin v greji bolde a tusi ki loka nu punjabi bolen lao ge pehhla appa ta bol lao

•°o.O тîтℓєє O.o°• · « **Reply #12 on:** December 21, 2010, 02:42:13 PM »

Quote from: Titlee on December 21, 2010, 02:16:17 PM

Hahahaha this is so true .. just last week ..early 7 AM... my close fren while driving to office decided to roll off the road into the snow. Her car wouldnt move anymore. Now normally you would call 911 or AAA ... but she calls her boyfrend... and when he doesnot pick up the call (poor guy is sleeping) she calls me up and asks me to walk up to his apartment and wake him and ask him to come to the spot.

And guess what he did after going there .... Call 911. There was just so much he could do...

But yeah I would expect my boyfriend to be there when I have a flat tire.... and he better be there fast

And Jhandaji - tuhanu bahut experience lagda aina gallan da

Sorry Garewal saab ...

Maafiiiiiii

Aa lao main punjabi vich likhiya hun...

Main kehndi si Jhanda ji ne jo kiha oh kaafi sach aa ... pichale hafte hi meri dost di car da accident ho gaya savere savere ... ohh cops nuun call ni kitta ... unhe apne boyfren nuun call kitta ... ohh vichara sutta si te phone ni chakkiya unhane... us ton baad meri friend ne mainu call kita te kehndi ki uhde apartment jaake ... usde vichare boyfrend nuun utha ke bhej .. meri car kharab ho gayi ... vichara sutta uthiya si .. chetti chetti paj ke gaya ,....

Uthe ja ke unhe hor kuj vi ni kitta ...bad 911 nuun cal kitta ....

Je mera vi boyfren hove te flat tire ho je te ...main vi us nuun hi call karungi ... aur je ohh late ho gaye by chance .. fer taan dekho ki hunda

And Jhandaji - tuhanu bahut experience lagda aina gallan da

Ķιℓℓα Ķαuя · « **Reply #13 on:** December 21, 2010, 03:08:07 PM »

Both have ups and downs to it ...just like any other relationship

how can there be a relationship where there aren't any ups n downs nothing comes easy

but being Indian myself and maybe from seeing so many arranged marriages work out ...there definitly is something that makes it work out ...maybe that the elders dont ONLY look at the "love between two people" but the other things that come along with marriage (possibly rest of the family and so many new relations)

again your just not marrying one person it is the whole family.. everyone is affected not just the couple that are getting married

Jhanda_Amli · « **Reply #14 on:** December 21, 2010, 03:26:13 PM »

Quote from: ਗਰੇਵਾਲ on December 21, 2010, 02:28:59 PM

yr punjabi janta da nam change ker dao :angry:ethe ta admin v greji bolde a tusi ki loka nu punjabi bolen lao ge pehhla appa ta bol lao

aa grewal de navve duty leye aa asse.. Jehra punjabi nai bolda.. Odde ton punjabi bulvone

@ Title - For the first time.. I seen an american chick doing punjabi when asked by a user. All hail Title :worship: .. Usually we have a fight after that. You want examples ask Jatti California de or _Kamli_

Punjabi for Grewal

- @ Title - Main phele warr wekhiya hai ke america de koi kuri ne punjabi kette hai jaddo kesse user ne complaint kette... Title ji tusse mahan ho.

Je thanu mere es gal teh nai jakeen teh "Jatti California" ja "Kamli" kollo push lavo.. ohna da jawab aggo ke hunda hai ...

@@JeEt@@ · « **Reply #15 on:** December 21, 2010, 03:32:50 PM »

love marriage tauba tauba dusman de v na hove

Jhanda_Amli · « **Reply #16 on:** December 21, 2010, 03:33:46 PM »

Quote from: SaNdHu_BoYz on December 21, 2010, 03:32:50 PM

love marriage tauba tauba dusman de v na hove

Sandhu jhooth marda aa.. Kal hajje teh chat wich g/f bhalda se

Ķιℓℓα Ķαuя · « **Reply #17 on:** December 21, 2010, 03:36:34 PM »

Quote from: Jhanda Amli on December 21, 2010, 03:26:13 PM

aa grewal de navve duty leye aa asse.. Jehra punjabi nai bolda.. Odde ton punjabi bulvone

@ Title - For the first time.. I seen an american chick doing punjabi when asked by a user. All hail Title :worship: .. Usually we have a fight after that. You want examples ask Jatti California de or _Kamli_

Punjabi for Grewal - @ Title - Main phele warr wekhiya hai ke america de koi kuri ne punjabi kette hai jaddo kesse user ne complaint kette... Title ji tusse mahan ho.
Je thanu mere es gal teh nai jakeen teh "Jatti California" ja "Kamli" kollo push lavo.. ohna da jawab aggo ke hunda hai ...

ethe kera translation de paise milde a jera free ch translate kariye english to punjabi bar bar

dictionary chukan te kam sar lain

theka thore lea a hun

Jhanda_Amli · « **Reply #18 on:** December 21, 2010, 03:38:19 PM »

Quote from: Jatti_Killa4nia_Di on December 21, 2010, 03:36:34 PM

ethe kera translation de paise milde a jera free ch translate kariye english to punjabi bar bar dictionary chukan te kam sar lain theka thore lea a hun

Live example - I didnt even ask for a translation yet

- Jhanda Amli never lies

@@JeEt@@ · « **Reply #19 on:** December 21, 2010, 03:42:38 PM »

amli 22 meri ta love mariage ho k v tut gai 6 mnth vch ta pta mainu lol lol

N@@R · « **Reply #20 on:** December 21, 2010, 04:12:37 PM »

Quote from: SaNdHu_BoYz on December 21, 2010, 03:32:50 PM

love marriage tauba tauba dusman de v na hove

means tahudi ho jave dusman di ni hove....so mean

@@JeEt@@ · « **Reply #21 on:** December 21, 2010, 04:18:44 PM »

mere nal kine krauni a.lok ta mainu apna nam tak nai dasde.ki kare bechara sandhu

N@@R · « **Reply #22 on:** December 21, 2010, 04:46:48 PM »

vichara oh hi sandhu gal hazam ni hoie

@@JeEt@@ · « **Reply #23 on:** December 21, 2010, 04:53:55 PM »

ki karia g hundi he nai

N@@R · « **Reply #24 on:** December 21, 2010, 05:02:08 PM »

fir tusi hazam hin walian galan karia karo na fir

•°o.O тîтℓєє O.o°• · « **Reply #25 on:** December 21, 2010, 06:01:00 PM »

Quote from: Jhanda Amli on December 21, 2010, 03:26:13 PM

aa grewal de navve duty leye aa asse.. Jehra punjabi nai bolda.. Odde ton punjabi bulvone

@ Title - For the first time.. I seen an american chick doing punjabi when asked by a user. All hail Title :worship: .. Usually we have a fight after that. You want examples ask Jatti California de or _Kamli_

Punjabi for Grewal - @ Title - Main phele warr wekhiya hai ke america de koi kuri ne punjabi kette hai jaddo kesse user ne complaint kette... Title ji tusse mahan ho.
Je thanu mere es gal teh nai jakeen teh "Jatti California" ja "Kamli" kollo push lavo.. ohna da jawab aggo ke hunda hai ...

Hahahah Jhanda ji you are funny ... assi taan sariyaan nuun khush rakhan vaale log

Quote from: Jhanda Amli on December 21, 2010, 03:38:19 PM

Live example - I didnt even ask for a translation yet
- Jhanda Amli never lies

That was really funny ... Kinne pange lainde ho tussi

Jhanda_Amli · « **Reply #26 on:** December 21, 2010, 06:29:22 PM »

Nah ajj kal teh time kath milda ... Nai teh mitheye asse jaddo mood wich hoye oddo teh GS de we Totte udda deye de aa

Quote from: Titlee on December 21, 2010, 06:01:00 PM

Hahahah Jhanda ji you are funny ... assi taan sariyaan nuun khush rakhan vaale log

That was really funny ... Kinne pange lainde ho tussi

~PuNjabi_NightMarE~ · « **Reply #27 on:** December 21, 2010, 07:15:21 PM »

arrange marry zindabaad

҂ ȿḉặᵰɗἷἧäѷїѧҋ↔ᶀɍǐȶĩṧӊ ₰ · « **Reply #28 on:** December 22, 2010, 04:39:29 AM »

Quote from: The desi dude on December 21, 2010, 05:53:57 AM

plz nt again

Dude wtf i was just wondering, why are you getting all pissed about it? Were you put on an arrange marriage or somethin' that now you're trying really hard to convince yourself and us all that it's aight. Infact everyone is better off not gettin' married.

Lolzzzz Yaaar!!!!!!!! · « **Reply #29 on:** December 22, 2010, 05:28:24 AM »

FOR ME I THINK SOON IT WILL B BOTH............SUICIDE AS WELL AS MURDER....

Quote from: The desi dude on December 21, 2010, 03:45:13 AM

It is funny to discuss about love marriage v/s arranged.
It is like asking some1 if the suicide is better or being murdered.

Ķιℓℓα Ķαuя · « **Reply #30 on:** December 22, 2010, 09:00:02 AM »

Quote from: Yeh on December 21, 2010, 03:38:19 PM

Live example - I didnt even ask for a translation yet
- Jhanda Amli never lies

emi faltu bolda rehnda

PrInCeSs oF gOd · « **Reply #31 on:** December 22, 2010, 09:07:21 AM »

both are gud n both r bad lol.

.

Jhanda_Amli · « **Reply #32 on:** December 26, 2010, 06:59:26 PM »

Quote from: Jatti_Killa4nia_Di on December 22, 2010, 09:00:02 AM

emi faltu bolda rehnda

... Kenna aukha hunde aa

Jhanda_Amli · « **Reply #33 on:** December 26, 2010, 07:01:16 PM »

Recovered!!

Why someone deleted it?

... Is that some mod? - Reason dus ke delete kariya karo

ਕਰਮਵੀਰ ਸਿੰਘ · « **Reply #34 on:** December 26, 2010, 10:05:47 PM »

Maafi chahuga ji mai hi del kita c ehdi vjah c k mera dimag khrab ho gya c. Ik us gori mem karke mai usdi pehli reply te hi keh dita c k mai is topic te dubara koi behes nai chonhda kyo dusre topic vich is bare kafi charcha ho chuki c te bar bar ik hi gal te bewjah di behes mera dimag khrab kardi e nd tuc usda dusra reply parh sakde o te mere kol koi trika nai k mai usnu smjha ska.
Dusra thora jiha gussa grewal sahb te aya jo kehnde a k desi dude dujya nu punjabi boln lai kehnda par ap greji bolda jad k mai kise nu kde koi slah ni diti.
Tisra us din mai jdo eh sabh type kita ta post karan to pehla hi achanak browser band ho gya. Mai mobile internet use karda so ina kuj type karan lai kafi time te mehnat lagdi e so mera hor dimag khrab ho gya .

dil kita mob chak k bus cho bahar sut dya fir sochya kahnu faltu di behes ch paina is lai mai topic del hi kar dita.
Mai eh topic as a joke bnaya c par fer ohi behes

_noXiouS_ · « **Reply #35 on:** December 26, 2010, 10:13:42 PM »

The desi dude - gusse khanu hunde, it's a discussion. You lay out your views and the other does the same, not necessary both parties have to agree. You can't enforce your opinion on someone else.

Plus, sometimes, some things are better left alone, no need to argue with a wall.

ਕਰਮਵੀਰ ਸਿੰਘ · « **Reply #36 on:** December 26, 2010, 10:31:19 PM »

Hanji hanji mai v ehi keh riha ji par oh gori mem mainu irritate kardi e mai ohnu kai var kiha k thik a biba jo to mandi e bt oh ni samajhdi tuc usda reply paryg hona is vich ate eh behes shayad thode hi ik topic vich kafi ho chuki e so bar bar ohi gal....
Jo tuc hun kiha na k dusrya de apne vichar ne te mere apne mai eh gal sarya nu do topics vich hi das chuka k is behes da koi ant ni koi natija ni thik e apna vichar rakhne par apne vichar dusrya te thopne sahi ni te eh gori mem ehi kar rahi e

҂ ȿḉặᵰɗἷἧäѷїѧҋ↔ᶀɍǐȶĩṧӊ ₰ · « **Reply #37 on:** December 27, 2010, 03:19:52 AM »

Quote from: _noXiouS_ on December 26, 2010, 10:13:42 PM

The desi dude - gusse khanu hunde, it's a discussion. You lay out your views and the other does the same, not necessary both parties have to agree. You can't enforce your opinion on someone else.

Plus, sometimes, some things are better left alone, no need to argue with a wall.

Well said.

And if you're going to talk about me, feel free to do it in english, don't be a wuss.

Mizz_Kumari · « **Reply #38 on:** December 27, 2010, 05:03:52 AM »

Personally LOVE

ਕਰਮਵੀਰ ਸਿੰਘ · « **Reply #39 on:** December 27, 2010, 07:22:47 AM »

Ha ha ha ha ha ha

N@@R · « **Reply #40 on:** January 02, 2011, 07:52:58 PM »

Quote from: SaNdHu_BoYz on December 21, 2010, 03:42:38 PM

amli 22 meri ta love mariage ho k v tut gai 6 mnth vch ta pta mainu lol lol

tusi sanu invite ni si na keta tahi tut gi hun jad keti ta sare pj frndz nu invitation de dio fir ni tutdi

Jhanda_Amli · « **Reply #41 on:** January 02, 2011, 09:08:55 PM »

Quote from: _noXiouS_ on December 26, 2010, 10:13:42 PM

The desi dude - gusse khanu hunde, it's a discussion. You lay out your views and the other does the same, not necessary both parties have to agree. You can't enforce your opinion on someone else.

Plus, sometimes, some things are better left alone, no need to argue with a wall.

And no need to call people names, Admin sabh.

_FaTeH_ · « **Reply #42 on:** January 02, 2011, 09:24:32 PM »

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