Ready to take the plunge and introduce that most romantic phrase
into your relationship' s dialogue?

Instructions

STEP 1: Decide if you do, indeed, love your mate. Most partners can
see through a halfhearted 'love ya' - which won't do your
relationship any good.

STEP 2: Consider the possibility that your partner might not respond
with the hoped-for 'I love you, too.' If you can handle that and
still want to express your love, go for it. If you can't, then
consider holding off until either you're certain your partner will
respond as hoped or you're OK with it if he or she doesn't.

STEP 3: Think about how you'd like to let your partner know the way
you feel, keeping in mind that uttering those words may give birth
to a lifelong memory. If spontaneity works for you, wait for the
perfect moment. If you're more methodical, consider writing a love
letter first, then telling your mate in person the next time you get
together.

STEP 4: If you decide in advance when to reveal your love, plan a
special evening around it. Such relationship milestones warrant
celebration.

STEP 5: When you tell your partner you love him or her, do so while
making total eye contact, and while you are holding each other. This
gives the moment the intimacy it deserves.

Tips & Warnings
Avoid saying the 'L' word for the first time in the heat of passion -
your partner may doubt the sincerity of your proclamation