Ok PJ friends today I need your help/advice :  :sad:

Ek problem hai joh ke kuch aise start huwi.. Koi 1 month pehle kisi ki shaadi thi.. Hum ladki ki taraf se uski Mehndi ke function main ge and wahan pe itne loog teh aur behtne ki jaga kam par rahi thi..  After 30 min or so ek family ay ( 2 ladkiyan and 1 unki ami ) and woh humare wale table pe humare saath beht gey as there was no other table available..

Woh 2 ladkiyan humse batain karne lagi and woh aunty humari khala aur cousin ke saath kuch baat karne lag pari.. :pagel: They started asking about my study, work, family members ect. and hum jawab dete dete aise batain karne lag ge as if we were good friends or something  :he: So somehow hum unko phone pe apnu kuch pics dhikaane lage ( Because we were talking about the fashion that's "in" at the moment in Pakistan) So I was showing them some of my snaps..

Iske koi 15 min baad those girls and that aunty came up with the pics of their brother  :dnk: That was the moment when I realized that something was wrong and I should keep my mouth shut haha.. So I stopped talking to them : Because hello hume kyun apne bhai ki pics dhika kar uski bataon suna rahi ho?? It became really akward  :lost:

Aur ab hume ghar pe baji ne ye bataya ke un logon ki call ay thi and woh bol rahe teh ke woh ghar aana chahte hain "just" to visit : Lekin I have a STRONG feeling ke unhu ne koi aisi waisi baat hi karni aa kar! Andaza toh ab ap logon ko bhi ho hi geya hoga  :sad:

Ab hume ye nahi pata ke hum aisa kaya karain ya kahe jiski wajha se woh log aay mat humare ghar.. I mean I dont even know them and I already know ke unke dimaag main kaya chal raha hai so it's better ke unko ghar aane hi na diya jaay or els there will be some problem which I want to avoid :pagel: Lekin kaise???? :dkn: Help! Give me some advice

I really dont know why but I have this problem ke agar koi humse aa kar baat kare toh I just start talking to them without thinking or having any kind of intention.. But 1 thing is veryyyy clear to me ke I need to stop talking to random people and keep my mouth shut! :

aap apne ghar walon ko samjhyie ke un ke sath koi jaan pehchaan bhi nahi hai to unhe ghar pe invite keo karein.....

Those people are sooo weird ke unhu ne kahi na kahi se koi jaan pechan nikal li hai :S And now saying ke we wanna come over..

My sis doesnt know all this happend at Mehndi so I think she isnt even aware why they wanna come home : Lekin I think I should tell her tah ke woh unko ghar aane hi na den

ji haan....you should tell what's in their mind according to you

let them come and see what happen. i am sure 100% if u dont want to marry that guy ur parents won't force you... why are u scare... this kinda a things gonna happen in future more cuz u r in ur age to get marrry. :

Kyun ke fazool ka azab hai :

Waise is this normal ke ap jao kisi ki shadi par aur rishte apne bhai/bete ke dhekne beht jao? I dont think thats normal lol

Nowadays people dont attend a wedding to wish the couple good luck for their future or to be part of their BIG day.. Instead they go to look for rishtes :s

Allah bachaay aisi auntiyon se.. I really hope I dont become this type of aunty later on :

:D: keh mai ta kise di amanmat a :laugh:

odde layi he jeondi a

: rehne do partner aap toh dheka de ge hume.. Nahi toh apka ji naam le lete aur jaan choot jaati :

lol chal koi na hoju sab theek

meri pic he dikhadi ohna nu :hehe:
india walle nal
viyaah karvauna a :

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I wont let them come in the first place.. And agar aa ge toh apki pic pakki hai haha

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I wont let them come in the first place.. And agar aa ge toh apki pic pakki hai haha

:hehe: hahaha yea
:) aap koi na panga lete he rehte ho

:love: chal solution de dine a lol

ohna nu keh do mai halle study karni a
i dnt want to marry ...
mai 5 saal tak karvau shaddi
i want to make my future first
den thnk about marrige :)

number das ohna da
mai phone te dhamki de dina
j oh kudi nu milen gaye ta thodia latta todd
denia mai :D:

Yeah aapp apni sis ko bta dao woh khud hi sambhaal lengi :)