Mein eh topic ta shuroe kita...because I want your opinion about this....
Minu thori der hoi a mein India gei si to spend my holidays over there....I've seen ke haje tak vi Punjab vich people prefer to have boys....mein kade sochea vi nei si ke es zemane vich ehda ho sakda ya...From recent studies there is shown ki kudiyan highly educated ne Punjab vich ...even more than boys...so why the difference?????

I went with my mum to India te as u should know I have another sister...we don't have any brother...te jedon sanu ghare milan ohnde si pind de rehn wale ....al these woman asked my mum...tuhade koi munda nei he? Jedon mum nei kehndi si ..they responded chelo koi gall ni ji ...jime Rab di marzi.... :angry: what the hell was that????? How can u say that to someone...Eh ta bass ik niki ji gall a ...but we all knw ki India vich aj tak vi kine families ne jedon ohna nu peta chall jave they have a babygirl they kill it...ya with the new technology they simply ask for an abortion...
Minu boht maan a apne desh te par eh kuch sunn ke I doubt the thinkingstandard of the people over there.

Par finally it's showing some result...and hun Punjab de lok apei apni galti bhugtan ge...cause Punjab vich their is a lack of girls now...Aj de din their are not enough girls in Punjab in comparison to the boys over there...Jad hun ohi bechea de viah kerwon di umar ho gei ta mundea nu hun kudiyan ni labdiyan viah kerwon de lei...eh mein apne valon la ke nei keh rei ....these are real researches and studies done by several Indian and other universities...


Pleasse do tell what u think about these differences people make between girls and boys..thnks

sab to vadi gal ke kudi da viah hoke oh sohre ghar chali jandi, ik munda hi apne maa peo di dekhbhaal karda

Agree. I think punjabi parents don't benefit from the daughter at all. First, they have to keep extra restriction on her, god forbid she even looks at someone. Second, viah layi kharcha more on girl's side than the guy. Third, viah to wadh she belongs to her husband's family - her family loses the extra help. Where, a son would get married and bring a wife into the house (extra help) so she can take care of the parents and the son can provide for them financially. So, it's all selfishness actually, if you think about it! I don't really blame them for securing their futures either. In the western countries, at least when you're older, you have more options avaliable to you, to spend your elderly life (nursing facilities,etc...) where in Punjab that isn't available.

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joke kihne sunaya? :pagel:

it dnt matter
reli it doesnt
m not kidding
it doesnt matter ok

I totally agree with Miss Punjaban that u can find these type of examples in our society..

in my opinion,  instead of pointing towards them we need to have equality in our point of view beoz we r the ones who will future mothers and fathers..
Its difficult to change others and make other to behave the way u want but its easy to change ourselves.
but I have not seen any kind of descrimination in my family so cant say anything in detail but have heard from others therefore, i beleive we r going to be significant part of this society so if we want to change society we need to change ourselves..

yaaa ur rite
totally aagree

even mah mom has to go thru it.. we r gurls in our fmaily.. n jado vi kisse nu dasso oh ehio pushda tuahda koye veer heni :sad: :sad: mera jawab bas ek hunda.. hanji hege ne.. mere jeju mere veeran ton vi vadh ke ne ..jinna nu mein veer kehndi aan oh jano vadh pyare ne.. luv mah veeras bas ehi kehna asisn tan..
buh in our fmaily,it really deosnt matteh..we(gurls) know our responibilites n know how to work on em.. baba ji di mehr hai ajj tak mom papa nu oh har ek kushi diti ae jehde oh hakkdar ne.. papa de assin putt aan tey putt banke hi har ek jimevari nu nibayyeya eh

n rahi india valeya di gal tan oh hamesha edha hi karde aan.. jinna de sare putt ne ohna ne ki sukh payeya assin sare vekh hi lende aan ethe..