Author Topic: Whats your attitude towards Life?? (Read 16461 times)

Kudrat Kaur · « **Reply #20 on:** April 28, 2011, 08:48:21 PM »

Quote from: _noXiouS_ on April 26, 2011, 09:49:38 PM

To the most important things in life, I usually give it all I got, and deal with the end result later. Whether, it's positive or negative. If negative, at least, I don't have anything to regret...when I put my best-self forward. It also varies on how much I want it! When I want it, I like to get it, however, it doesn't always happen...leads to some disappointment...but, hey, tomorrow's another day, and I end up getting distracted with something else that's lingering :

Smallest things - I usually put them in the back of my head and I think these bother me the most. It's a daily nag, that there is something there.However, I won't deal with because it's not that important.

For me, cumulative stress effect is the most from the smalles things in my life...as, I tend to let them linger for too long.

-hope, I made some sense.

really nice to hear all this.. I think you know a lot about yourself but one thing is there that even though u know but u don't want to deal with it..From your statement here, u look more of optimistic at conscious level but pessimistic internally.. but What do you think, we can do to avoid this cumulative stress effect ( i like this term)?

Punjabi Janta Forums - Janta Di Pasand · « **Reply #20 on:** April 28, 2011, 08:48:21 PM »

Kudrat Kaur · « **Reply #21 on:** April 28, 2011, 08:53:49 PM »

Quote from: •°o.O тîтℓєє O.o°• on April 26, 2011, 10:02:45 PM

With life I have learnt to expect the best realistically. Not too much ... not too less. In either case I will loose happiness or success. So best is to expect what is realistically possible. I am glad I learned this soon.

I am a practically optimistic person.

So, you meant u r always optimistic sweets? Its really very sweet to hear that we are optimistic.. but would u like to share something here with us which really shows that you r optimistic in actual?
only if u wanna share... :)

Kudrat Kaur · « **Reply #22 on:** April 28, 2011, 08:59:30 PM »

Quote from: KER BEAR on April 26, 2011, 10:00:17 PM

I would say I’m pretty pessimistic about things. I generally believe we don’t have control over any aspect of our lives. We have a good instinct about things and have an idea about the probability of an event occurring, but believing that I have control over any aspect of my life is very amusing to me. We can try our hardest to steer the direction we want to go, but life's head winds are sometimes too strong.

I think you get the point. I’ll just finish off with an example.

My job is a bit strange because every few months there are a shuffle of jobs. It’s odd, but if you get sick of where your working you know you have the opportunity to switch in 5-6 months. Well anyways, I went a bit early to see what spots are left a few weeks ago, because my seniority isn’t the greatest. After I checked that most of my top choices were already taken, I go to my friend I bet God is sitting back in his cozy chair and laughing his ass off watching us stress out over this shit.

That is a circumstantial situation, but the idea applies all the time. I generally have an open and imaginative perspective on things. (That’s without help, imagine that 8-> )

After reading you post one thing i would like to say, You are very confused Bear -JI

and Why u talking about "WE" here ..Why not "I".
Your first line don't match with you rest of the statement.. and Why u wanna involve God here? r u that kind of personality who like to blame God for their actions?

Kudrat Kaur · « **Reply #23 on:** April 28, 2011, 09:08:50 PM »

Quote from: NYPuNJaBI on April 26, 2011, 10:12:11 PM

To simply put my outlook "Expect the best, Prepare for the worst."

general statements cant describe ur individual attitude..Try to think harder about your individual thinking too.. then if you would like to, please share with us.

Quote from: ©od€nam€ 47 on April 26, 2011, 10:52:54 PM

My simple rule of life is : " aun deyo dekhi jau"

There is no point of making strategies to tackle your good or bad times. I just do what I can :)

Codename47ji.. tuhanu lagda tusi sachi eve hi sochde ho.. apne mann vich hamesha plans nai hunde .. kujh cheeja di khushi nai hundi aa? kujh cheeja da dar nai hunda?, jehde layee assi prepare rehna chahunde aa... so ki soch hundi aa tuhadi "ki ayuga idda jo dekhi jau"?

Kudrat Kaur · « **Reply #24 on:** April 28, 2011, 09:13:04 PM »

Quote from: Nek Singh on April 27, 2011, 06:11:39 AM

kudrat ji di discussion toh menu sadi people function wali manager yaad aa gyi
oh vi edah hi kuj kuj puchdi rehndi aa.......

my approach is to just go with the flow...... :rockon:
na jayda planning,
na jayda tension.

however i have been told manytimes that this approch doesn't work all the times........

bus ah sare HR wale idda de hi hunde ne ji .. :hehe:
so here we talking about flow.. what kind of flow in life) u expect most of the times? nalle try to elaborate what kind of consequences u face when u go with just superficial planning?

Kudrat Kaur · « **Reply #25 on:** April 28, 2011, 09:15:44 PM »

nalle I would love to hear your individual experiences rather than just general statements..
harek insaan apne aap vich unique aa.. thats why we get new inventions.. nai tah duniya ne agg di khoj toh baad taraaki hi nai karni c.. :pagel:

Steppenwolf · « **Reply #26 on:** April 28, 2011, 09:19:58 PM »

I thought it made quite good sense. But if your going to analyse my grammar and confuse it with my thought. Than your analysis needs a little more work. :)

I can fix it easily...

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I would say I’m pretty pessimistic about things. I generally believe we don’t have control over any aspect of our lives. We The Human species have good instincts about things and have an idea about the probability of an event occurring, but believing that I have control over any aspect of my life is very amusing to me. ~~We can try our hardest to steer the direction we want to go, but life's head winds are sometimes too strong.~~

I used god as a reference to show the irony in the situation. Wasn't blaming or anything like that.

Kudrat Kaur · « **Reply #27 on:** April 28, 2011, 09:34:49 PM »

Quote from: KER BEAR on April 28, 2011, 09:19:58 PM

I thought it made quite good sense. But if your going to analyse my grammar and confuse it with my thought. Than your analysis needs a little more work. :)

I can fix it easily...

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I would say I’m pretty pessimistic about things. I generally believe we don’t have control over any aspect of our lives. We The Human species have good instincts about things and have an idea about the probability of an event occurring, but believing that I have control over any aspect of my life is very amusing to me. ~~We can try our hardest to steer the direction we want to go, but life's head winds are sometimes too strong.~~

I used god as a reference to show the irony in the situation. Wasn't blaming or anything like that.

Naah, I didn't try to pick out any grammar thing here.. becoz i know English is the toughest language, mixture of Latin, French, German, greek etc.. lol
Well, we leave that issue.. but i thought u like to take others reference rather than talking about yourself.. i might be wrong there....and when u said God is laughing at our stress.. What did that suppose to mean?

Baki don't u think u need to explore more about yourself?

Rubbie · « **Reply #28 on:** April 28, 2011, 09:43:30 PM »

I really dnt knw.... am like bipolar
The situations on which i just cried bcoz i felt like they were out of my control....now when i look back ..i laugh at myself
.....and those experiences showed me different perspect of life...
Now whenever am stuck... i just take a deep breath and tell my self ...am OK... its not worst than..'that' :he:
and I can be very pessimistic at times.....there are thoughts like- Why it is always with me... am I a trouble girl !!!

Steppenwolf · « **Reply #29 on:** April 28, 2011, 09:49:40 PM »

Quote from: Kudrat Kaur on April 28, 2011, 09:34:49 PM

Quote from: KER BEAR on April 28, 2011, 09:19:58 PM

I thought it made quite good sense. But if your going to analyse my grammar and confuse it with my thought. Than your analysis needs a little more work. :)

I can fix it easily...

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I would say I’m pretty pessimistic about things. I generally believe we don’t have control over any aspect of our lives. We The Human species have good instincts about things and have an idea about the probability of an event occurring, but believing that I have control over any aspect of my life is very amusing to me. ~~We can try our hardest to steer the direction we want to go, but life's head winds are sometimes too strong.~~

I used god as a reference to show the irony in the situation. Wasn't blaming or anything like that.

Naah, I didn't try to pick out any grammar thing here.. becoz i know English is the toughest language, mixture of Latin, French, German, greek etc.. lol
Well, we leave that issue.. but i thought u like to take others reference rather than talking about yourself.. i might be wrong there....and when u said God is laughing at our stress.. What did that suppose to mean?
Baki don't u think u need to explore more about yourself?

Do you think it worthwhile stressing out over things that you have no control over? I could have said the CEO is laughing his ass off, but that wasn't the first thing that came to my mind. I thought it was a clever little thought anyways, it got a laugh.

By telling me to explore myself more are you telling me that this perspective is wrong? What do you actually think about the thought now that you know what I meant?

TheStig · « **Reply #30 on:** April 28, 2011, 10:04:28 PM »

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Codename47ji.. tuhanu lagda tusi sachi eve hi sochde ho.. apne mann vich hamesha plans nai hunde .. kujh cheeja di khushi nai hundi aa? kujh cheeja da dar nai hunda?, jehde layee assi prepare rehna chahunde aa... so ki soch hundi aa tuhadi "ki ayuga idda jo dekhi jau"?
[/quote]

What are the plans that you can make?
Life goes on mai jada nahi sochda ..

NYPuNJaBI · « **Reply #31 on:** April 28, 2011, 10:49:27 PM »

Quote from: Kudrat Kaur on April 28, 2011, 09:08:50 PM

Quote from: NYPuNJaBI on April 26, 2011, 10:12:11 PM
To simply put my outlook "Expect the best, Prepare for the worst."
general statements cant describe ur individual attitude..Try to think harder about your individual thinking too.. then if you would like to, please share with us.

Quote from: ©od€nam€ 47 on April 26, 2011, 10:52:54 PM
My simple rule of life is : " aun deyo dekhi jau"

There is no point of making strategies to tackle your good or bad times. I just do what I can :)

Codename47ji.. tuhanu lagda tusi sachi eve hi sochde ho.. apne mann vich hamesha plans nai hunde .. kujh cheeja di khushi nai hundi aa? kujh cheeja da dar nai hunda?, jehde layee assi prepare rehna chahunde aa... so ki soch hundi aa tuhadi "ki ayuga idda jo dekhi jau"?

Why can't that be my individual thinking?

Grenade Singh · « **Reply #32 on:** April 29, 2011, 12:46:58 AM »

Everything that happens, happens for the good. I'm too small minded and narrow focused to comprehend the big picture.

҂ ȿḉặᵰɗἷἧäѷїѧҋ↔ᶀɍǐȶĩṧӊ ₰ · « **Reply #33 on:** May 02, 2011, 05:38:00 AM »

Quote from: $$VELLY_JATT$$ on April 27, 2011, 08:27:18 AM

Quote from: »※ḨҰĐṜØŞŦẨ₮ῘḈŜ« on April 27, 2011, 07:19:53 AM
Quote from: $$VELLY_JATT$$ on April 27, 2011, 05:52:42 AM
Do ur best and F*** the rest.....
Yes!!!!

ohh so u agree with me...... :cooll: :cooll: :cooll: :mean:

Unfortunately, yes.

LondonPunjabi · « **Reply #34 on:** May 02, 2011, 01:50:58 PM »

I have never been negative or pessimistic, what is the point?

Ask your self the following questions:

1 Where do I want to be?

2 Why do I want be there?

3 What are the various ways of getting there?

4 Which is the best way for me right now?

The first question is simple enough, it is just the goal. However the next three are the most important in equal measure. Why? Well it’s simple really; the second question confirms and strengthens the reasons behind the wish to achieve stated goal.

The third question makes you consider the various methods for you achieving this goal, it will expose the deadlines needed and also it will allow you to build into your system whatever else is going on in your life. But be aware that the single minded will to succeed must NEVER be compromised.

The fourth question is simple because, once you have explored all the other ways of achieving your goal you now have the best way forward.

There is only one thing left; take the action required.

Pessimism takes root through inaction caused by fear and procrastination. They are evil. NEVER let them rule you.

Kudrat Kaur · « **Reply #35 on:** May 02, 2011, 08:51:02 PM »

Quote from: KER BEAR on April 28, 2011, 09:49:40 PM

Quote from: Kudrat Kaur on April 28, 2011, 09:34:49 PM
Quote from: KER BEAR on April 28, 2011, 09:19:58 PM

I thought it made quite good sense. But if your going to analyse my grammar and confuse it with my thought. Than your analysis needs a little more work. :)

I can fix it easily...

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I would say I’m pretty pessimistic about things. I generally believe we don’t have control over any aspect of our lives. We The Human species have good instincts about things and have an idea about the probability of an event occurring, but believing that I have control over any aspect of my life is very amusing to me. ~~We can try our hardest to steer the direction we want to go, but life's head winds are sometimes too strong.~~

I used god as a reference to show the irony in the situation. Wasn't blaming or anything like that.

Naah, I didn't try to pick out any grammar thing here.. becoz i know English is the toughest language, mixture of Latin, French, German, greek etc.. lol
Well, we leave that issue.. but i thought u like to take others reference rather than talking about yourself.. i might be wrong there....and when u said God is laughing at our stress.. What did that suppose to mean?
Baki don't u think u need to explore more about yourself?

Do you think it worthwhile stressing out over things that you have no control over? I could have said the CEO is laughing his ass off, but that wasn't the first thing that came to my mind. I thought it was a clever little thought anyways, it got a laugh.

By telling me to explore myself more are you telling me that this perspective is wrong? What do you actually think about the thought now that you know what I meant?

So What do u do when u think that you don't have any control over this situation? and yes, you used GOD word there, and this means u like to blame God for your troubles..

U can't deny it..
ok try harder to explain ur perspective , i think i m not following u.. :wait:

Kudrat Kaur · « **Reply #36 on:** May 02, 2011, 08:53:59 PM »

Quote from: Rubbie on April 28, 2011, 09:43:30 PM

I really dnt knw.... am like bipolar
The situations on which i just cried bcoz i felt like they were out of my control....now when i look back ..i laugh at myself
.....and those experiences showed me different perspect of life...
Now whenever am stuck... i just take a deep breath and tell my self ...am OK... its not worst than..'that' :he:
and I can be very pessimistic at times.....there are thoughts like- Why it is always with me... am I a trouble girl !!!

No Sweets, its not just happening with u, its happening with everyone.. this is your satisfaction level.. try to look at those people who r in worst conditions than u.. u will feel a sense of satisfaction then.. :) Good Luck!!

Kudrat Kaur · « **Reply #37 on:** May 02, 2011, 08:59:26 PM »

Why can't that be my individual thinking?

Well, Everyone has their own style of thinking, unique style of neurons web and individualized experiences..
Even then if it matches with general statement then try to defend it with your individual experiences, I would be glad to read your comments.. :)

ਕਰਮਵੀਰ ਸਿੰਘ · « **Reply #38 on:** May 02, 2011, 11:17:40 PM »

don't make a plan for life just make a plan for the nw. . . . . . .

ਕਰਮਵੀਰ ਸਿੰਘ · « **Reply #39 on:** May 02, 2011, 11:22:29 PM »

think abt the good bt also be aware of the worst.

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