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Re: mobile and marrige
« Reply #20 on: May 06, 2011, 02:10:12 PM »
bilkul sahi kiha kudrat ji tusi ,....phone ghar di privacy khrab krda ,,,jado kudi apne saure ghar aa jandi wa ,,ta oh usda ghar ban janda ,,par jado apne us ghar diyan gallan apna peke kardi wa oh chugli ban jandi wa ,,,,so apne ghar di hi chugli ta buri gal wa ,,,,baki ehi gal munde te vi lagu hundi wa ,,,,munde nu jado koi phone aunda ,,oh ikdum side te chlya janda ,,,pher usdi wife ne shq ta krna hi wa ,,,,so ,,phone nu je sirf apne kam ja lod layi hi use kariye taahi wadiya wa ,,,nahi ta esde nateeze sabde sahmne hi ne ,,.
ih bahut hi sohna mudda chukkiya hai Karam Singh ne.. Mein kafi exmaples vekhiyan de idda diyan. Punjab tah chaddo US vich v. Kudi navi navi vyah ke US ayee teh fer ohnu nai pata ithe de system bare. teh je inlaws koyee suggestion dinde c teh dassde c she used to feel awkward and embarrassed about it. fer ohne phone teh ghare dassna ih sab. Like ithe tah hun car vich opposite side toh passenger seat teh bethna hun kayee baar sabne es tarah diyan mistakes teh hass pena.. fer ohne ih sab ghare dassna teh ohde mom dad ne bad feel karna..


hun parents kiwe vekh sakde aa apni bachi nu aukha hunde ohna ne munde teh munde di mom kol complain karti fer ki c munde kudi di larayee ho gayee teh kudi ghar chaddke India wapis chali gayee.. and got divorced. so vekhi inniyan nikkiyan nikkiyan galla kinniya galat sabit ho sakdiyan ne...


So Mein tah kahangi, Girls need to be more adjustable and understanding because this is she who is new member in family.
If she could adjjust to variety of problems and patience then many problems could be solved. :) Good Luck Girls!!


Well, I think not only Phone but facebook or other networking sites r going to become  be troublemaker for relationships in future too..

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Re: mobile and marrige
« Reply #20 on: May 06, 2011, 02:10:12 PM »

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Re: mobile and marrige
« Reply #21 on: May 06, 2011, 08:29:47 PM »
[quote author=Kudrat Kaur link=topic=49824.msg532308#msg532308 date=1304647299

So Mein tah kahangi, Girls need to be more adjustable and understanding because this is she who is new member in family.
If she could adjjust to variety of problems and patience then many problems could be solved. :) Good Luck Girls!!


Well, I think not only Phone but facebook or other networking sites r going to become  be troublemaker for relationships in future too..


Kudiya nu ki saza mili hoyi aa, that she is the ONLY one who needs to adjust?! She leaves her whole family to live with, what, pretty much  with a bunch of strangers. It is the guy's family who should be trying to make her feel more comfortable and help her in adjusting rather than pointing out her flaws and make her feel like an outsider that she already is... It has to be a joint effort!



agree with the second statement, social networking sites are likely to become a part of failed relationships more than anything else.


je adjustment nu saza leke sochna then no one would like to get punished this means no one is going to do that (adjustment).
this is human tendency that how would you behave same u will get in return. If u start relationship and have this pre concept that i m doing adjustment and its like punishment then other end would think same way.
rest, i agree that both parties needs to do adjustment but somewhere its more needed to girl because she is entering into new family and she has to get adjusted to new routine and family values..


so if we want happy n loving relationships in new family we need to come out of this mind set up of " Why only me, ?" rest we all are educated and know that there is no need to exaggerate meaningless day to day family problems..


Baki, yes facebook is really causing lots of troubles in relationships.. one of mine Gori friend got separated because she got in touch with her old schoolmate on facebook and now they have more emotional bonding than her husband.. well not the soul reason for her separation but one of the major cause.


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Re: mobile and marrige
« Reply #22 on: May 06, 2011, 10:53:34 PM »

je adjustment nu saza leke sochna then no one would like to get punished this means no one is going to do that (adjustment).
this is human tendency that how would you behave same u will get in return. If u start relationship and have this pre concept that i m doing adjustment and its like punishment then other end would think same way.
rest, i agree that both parties needs to do adjustment but somewhere its more needed to girl because she is entering into new family and she has to get adjusted to new routine and family values..


so if we want happy n loving relationships in new family we need to come out of this mind set up of " Why only me, ?" rest we all are educated and know that there is no need to exaggerate meaningless day to day family problems..


Baki, yes facebook is really causing lots of troubles in relationships.. one of mine Gori friend got separated because she got in touch with her old schoolmate on facebook and now they have more emotional bonding than her husband.. well not the soul reason for her separation but one of the major cause.


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Re: mobile and marrige
« Reply #23 on: May 12, 2011, 03:34:14 PM »
plz proceed
Asli vjah te hun discuss hon lagi e bt koi reply kar k raji ni

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Re: mobile and marrige
« Reply #24 on: May 12, 2011, 06:41:55 PM »
hanji mobile phone bhe ek vajah hai ji ,,, par sare maa baap eko jahe salaah nahe dinde bohat maa baap kuri nu eho salaah dinde k putt nikki nikki gal le k nahe beh jai da ,haan kai maa baap kuri nu keh bhe dinde k tue kyun sunde tere tou nahe kuc sarya  :woried:     chunde te maa peo bhe kuri da bhaala e hunde par kar nuksaan bethde kuri da...
 
 
baki , hun oh jamaana bhe nahe reha k maa baap eh keh k tor den kuri nu k tue 2vakhat de roti e khani chup kar k khai jai ,par ehda matlab eh bhe nahe k saas nuh nu kahe k putt mae 2rotiya khanya kha lawa? :D:
 
 
jad  nuh putt apne jude rehnde  matlab vakhre ghar ch ,te munda koi bhe gal apne maa nu phone kar k dasda te ohhe kuri de maa kehnde phir k maa nu puche bina kuch ne karda  :loll:   
 
kuri nu ehhe chaheda k apne sohre ghar de gal pekke na kare jehde nahe karn wale ,kyun k ohna de ghar bhe je kal nu koi nuh ban k aye te ohne koi gal apne sohre ghar de apne maa nu dase te phir esse kudi ne naanaan ban ban dekhauna :D:  te gharwalya nu pareshani wadhu de hunde  :blush:
 
 
 
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Re: mobile and marrige
« Reply #25 on: May 13, 2011, 01:18:09 AM »
hanji mobile phone bhe ek vajah hai ji ,,, par sare maa baap eko jahe salaah nahe dinde bohat maa baap kuri nu eho salaah dinde k putt nikki nikki gal le k nahe beh jai da ,haan kai maa baap kuri nu keh bhe dinde k tue kyun sunde tere tou nahe kuc sarya  :woried:     chunde te maa peo bhe kuri da bhaala e hunde par kar nuksaan bethde kuri da...
 
 
baki , hun oh jamaana bhe nahe reha k maa baap eh keh k tor den kuri nu k tue 2vakhat de roti e khani chup kar k khai jai ,par ehda matlab eh bhe nahe k saas nuh nu kahe k putt mae 2rotiya khanya kha lawa? :D:
 
 
jad  nuh putt apne jude rehnde  matlab vakhre ghar ch ,te munda koi bhe gal apne maa nu phone kar k dasda te ohhe kuri de maa kehnde phir k maa nu puche bina kuch ne karda  :loll:   
 
kuri nu ehhe chaheda k apne sohre ghar de gal pekke na kare jehde nahe karn wale ,kyun k ohna de ghar bhe je kal nu koi nuh ban k aye te ohne koi gal apne sohre ghar de apne maa nu dase te phir esse kudi ne naanaan ban ban dekhauna :D:  te gharwalya nu pareshani wadhu de hunde  :blush:
 
 
 
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Re: mobile and marrige
« Reply #26 on: May 21, 2011, 08:12:10 PM »

je adjustment nu saza leke sochna then no one would like to get punished this means no one is going to do that (adjustment).
this is human tendency that how would you behave same u will get in return. If u start relationship and have this pre concept that i m doing adjustment and its like punishment then other end would think same way.
rest, i agree that both parties needs to do adjustment but somewhere its more needed to girl because she is entering into new family and she has to get adjusted to new routine and family values..


so if we want happy n loving relationships in new family we need to come out of this mind set up of " Why only me, ?" rest we all are educated and know that there is no need to exaggerate meaningless day to day family problems..



You put too much emphasis on my "punishment" comment, which wasn't meant to be taken into this context. Nontheless, both parties need to adjust to each other. The girl is going into a new family, a different environment...so, that family needs to help her adjust and give her the time to do so. Same goes for the girl, a group of people have to get used to a stranger being in their house, so, she needs to take it easy as well.

Rahi gall the girl calling her parents and telling them stuff. I don't really see anything wrong with it, if she needs to vent, rather her parents than some outsiders. Baaki, koyi vi maa baap, apni dhee nu eddan di slaah nahi dauga, jihde nal ohde ghar vich kales pawe ja ohda ghar barvaad hove.

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Re: mobile and marrige
« Reply #27 on: May 21, 2011, 08:17:40 PM »
mobile  ta bande di kas jorrort aa aaj de din vich
te kuri je apni sohre ghar dia probllems apne mapyan nu ni ta gawandian nu dasungi
sarea nu apne dukh wadan lai koi chaida hunda jo ohde nere howe na
baki eh ta duje bande di mentality te depend aa k oh kiwe sochda har cheej nu

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Re: mobile and marrige
« Reply #28 on: May 21, 2011, 10:55:42 PM »
dekho ji mobile ta apa pehla hi baizzat bari kar chuke aa.
Hun te eh discuss kro k eh rishte ine nazuk kyo hunde ne. Nd meri ik reply te kise v girl ne reply ni kita plz smbdy xplain that.

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Re: mobile and marrige
« Reply #29 on: May 21, 2011, 11:05:51 PM »
dekho ji mobile ta apa pehla hi baizzat bari kar chuke aa.
Hun te eh discuss kro k eh rishte ine nazuk kyo hunde ne. Nd meri ik reply te kise v girl ne reply ni kita plz smbdy xplain that.

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