Author Topic: mobile and marrige (Read 9553 times)

ਕਰਮਵੀਰ ਸਿੰਘ · « **on:** May 05, 2011, 03:28:19 PM »

mai hune hune news dekh riha c ta ik khabar c k punjab vich aurta di sabha ne eh kiha k viah to magro mobile pati patni de sambanda vich bohut vadi bhumika nibhaunda e khas taur te negetive. Jive niki niki gal kuri apne pekya nu dasdi e te is nal ghar vich kalesh rehnda e kyo k is nal unha de ghar vich dusrya di dakhalandazi vadh jandi e. Is nal ik dusre te shak di v sambhavna vadhdi e te naubat talaak tak v pohonch sakdi e. So tuhade is bare ki vichar ne. Ki eh sahi e ?

Punjabi Janta Forums - Janta Di Pasand · « **on:** May 05, 2011, 03:28:19 PM »

†→ ™sIииєя™←† · « **Reply #1 on:** May 05, 2011, 03:35:34 PM »

veere pyarr dia galan v dasdia honia jaruri nhi sarre ikko jehe hon

_noXiouS_ · « **Reply #2 on:** May 05, 2011, 03:39:33 PM »

Peke vi ta family hi ne. teeje lok ta nahi /:) Nontheless, advice leni ta lawo, par enhi parkh honi chahidi ke you want to adhere to it or not and how it will affect your relationship with your husband/wife. At the end, it's ultimately you and him...other people shouldn't matter. I think if there is an issue, it should be discussed between wife and husband rather than other people. Not, only it keeps the relationship stronger it avoids, biased/negative 3rd party opinions.

If you look at it from the female perspective. Most marriages in Punjab are arranged. Initially, the girl isn't familiar with the husband or his family enough to discuss things openly. So, she finds it more easier to confide in her parents.

ਕਰਮਵੀਰ ਸਿੰਘ · « **Reply #3 on:** May 05, 2011, 03:41:27 PM »

Quote from: •• » ŚČÁℛŦÁČΞ●•« •• on May 05, 2011, 03:35:34 PM

veere pyarr dia galan v dasdia honia jaruri nhi sarre ikko jehe hon

:hehe: pyar dia galla pekya nu thodi dasnia bhaji :blush:

ਕਰਮਵੀਰ ਸਿੰਘ · « **Reply #4 on:** May 05, 2011, 03:49:05 PM »

Quote from: _noXiouS_ on May 05, 2011, 03:39:33 PM

Peke vi ta family hi ne. teeje lok ta nahi /:) Nontheless, advice leni ta lawo, par enhi parkh honi chahidi ke you want to adhere to it or not and how it will affect your relationship with your husband/wife. At the end, it's ultimately you and him...other people shouldn't matter. I think if there is an issue, it should be discussed between wife and husband rather than other people. Not, only it keeps the relationship stronger it avoids, biased/negative 3rd party opinions.

If you look at it from the female perspective. Most marriages in Punjab are arranged. Initially, the girl isn't familiar with the husband or his family enough to discuss things openly. So, she finds it more easier to confide in her parents.

hanji vadia gall e. Nd eh v sahi e k navi navi viahi larki nu thori jhijak hundi e par thoda sma pa k usnu use ghar de halata mutabik v sochna shuru karna chahida. Na k ohi peke privar vich jive c use tra. Te peke parivar nu v chahida jitho tak ho ske dakhalandazi te slaha den to parhez karan te kuri nu salah den k apne pati nal gal kre te dove isda hal mil k kadhan. Kyo k suni sunai gal vich te asli sathiti vich kafi antar hunda. So kuri nu viah magro apne sochan da nazaria badalna chahida.
"he parmatma mainu pta ni kida di milni :hehe:

†→ ™sIииєя™←† · « **Reply #5 on:** May 05, 2011, 03:53:28 PM »

Quote from: §¤§ KARAM §¤§ on May 05, 2011, 03:41:27 PM

:hehe: pyar dia galla pekya nu thodi dasnia bhaji :blush:

veere tussi ta putha matlab le ge :D: main ta sidha likhia c :pagel:

ਕਰਮਵੀਰ ਸਿੰਘ · « **Reply #6 on:** May 05, 2011, 04:04:31 PM »

Quote from: •• » ŚČÁℛŦÁČΞ●•« •• on May 05, 2011, 03:53:28 PM

veere tussi ta putha matlab le ge :D: main ta sidha likhia c :pagel:

hanji bai ji sahi kiha mafi chahuga ji

†→ ™sIииєя™←† · « **Reply #7 on:** May 05, 2011, 04:11:47 PM »

Quote from: §¤§ KARAM §¤§ on May 05, 2011, 04:04:31 PM

hanji bai ji sahi kiha mafi chahuga ji

oh nhi veer maafi di koi gal tussi ta serious ho gaye is wari :pagel: its ok veer mere :hug:

█ ▌ﻝαᔕ ▌█ · « **Reply #8 on:** May 05, 2011, 05:21:20 PM »

22 ji kuryia cell phone hath ch fark k ta lawa karwonia ne....adha viah ta kudi da phone naal hi ho jaanda lol

✿MeHaK✿ · « **Reply #9 on:** May 05, 2011, 06:02:17 PM »

i dont think kuri apne sohre ghar dasdi hove gi ke woww main apni mom nu aj eh dasia aj o dasia.. te mere mom idda kende ke tu idda kari i dont think so... its not tv serial...

✿MeHaK✿ · « **Reply #10 on:** May 05, 2011, 06:02:56 PM »

te what i think kuri una cher nai koi sujja dendi jina cher os tu koi poshda nai.. im sure..

_FaTeH_ · « **Reply #11 on:** May 05, 2011, 06:06:55 PM »

Quote from: ❤^ਮੁਸਕਾਨ^❤ on May 05, 2011, 06:02:56 PM

te what i think kuri una cher nai koi sujja dendi jina cher os tu koi poshda nai.. im sure..

aho

gaggan · « **Reply #12 on:** May 05, 2011, 08:22:35 PM »

mai sochda ke har ik cheej da nuksaan te faydaa done hunde aa
so same thing with this too

Kudrat Kaur · « **Reply #13 on:** May 05, 2011, 10:01:39 PM »

ih bahut hi sohna mudda chukkiya hai Karam Singh ne.. Mein kafi exmaples vekhiyan de idda diyan. Punjab tah chaddo US vich v. Kudi navi navi vyah ke US ayee teh fer ohnu nai pata ithe de system bare. teh je inlaws koyee suggestion dinde c teh dassde c she used to feel awkward and embarrassed about it. fer ohne phone teh ghare dassna ih sab. Like ithe tah hun car vich opposite side toh passenger seat teh bethna hun kayee baar sabne es tarah diyan mistakes teh hass pena.. fer ohne ih sab ghare dassna teh ohde mom dad ne bad feel karna..

hun parents kiwe vekh sakde aa apni bachi nu aukha hunde ohna ne munde teh munde di mom kol complain karti fer ki c munde kudi di larayee ho gayee teh kudi ghar chaddke India wapis chali gayee.. and got divorced. so vekhi inniyan nikkiyan nikkiyan galla kinniya galat sabit ho sakdiyan ne...

So Mein tah kahangi, Girls need to be more adjustable and understanding because this is she who is new member in family.
If she could adjjust to variety of problems and patience then many problems could be solved. :) Good Luck Girls!!

Well, I think not only Phone but facebook or other networking sites r going to become be troublemaker for relationships in future too..

_noXiouS_ · « **Reply #14 on:** May 05, 2011, 10:58:56 PM »

[quote author=Kudrat Kaur link=topic=49824.msg532308#msg532308 date=1304647299

So Mein tah kahangi, Girls need to be more adjustable and understanding because this is she who is new member in family.
If she could adjjust to variety of problems and patience then many problems could be solved. :) Good Luck Girls!!

Well, I think not only Phone but facebook or other networking sites r going to become be troublemaker for relationships in future too..
[/quote]

Kudiya nu ki saza mili hoyi aa, that she is the ONLY one who needs to adjust?! She leaves her whole family to live with, what, pretty much with a bunch of strangers. It is the guy's family who should be trying to make her feel more comfortable and help her in adjusting rather than pointing out her flaws and make her feel like an outsider that she already is... It has to be a joint effort!

agree with the second statement, social networking sites are likely to become a part of failed relationships more than anything else.

ਕਰਮਵੀਰ ਸਿੰਘ · « **Reply #15 on:** May 06, 2011, 01:43:23 AM »

Quote from: barood singh....... on May 05, 2011, 08:22:35 PM

mai sochda ke har ik cheej da nuksaan te faydaa done hunde aa
so same thing with this too

hanji aah gal sahi kahi e

Quote from: Kudrat Kaur on May 05, 2011, 10:01:39 PM

ih bahut hi sohna mudda chukkiya hai Karam Singh ne.. Mein kafi exmaples vekhiyan de idda diyan. Punjab tah chaddo US vich v. Kudi navi navi vyah ke US ayee teh fer ohnu nai pata ithe de system bare. teh je inlaws koyee suggestion dinde c teh dassde c she used to feel awkward and embarrassed about it. fer ohne phone teh ghare dassna ih sab. Like ithe tah hun car vich opposite side toh passenger seat teh bethna hun kayee baar sabne es tarah diyan mistakes teh hass pena.. fer ohne ih sab ghare dassna teh ohde mom dad ne bad feel karna..

hun parents kiwe vekh sakde aa apni bachi nu aukha hunde ohna ne munde teh munde di mom kol complain karti fer ki c munde kudi di larayee ho gayee teh kudi ghar chaddke India wapis chali gayee.. and got divorced. so vekhi inniyan nikkiyan nikkiyan galla kinniya galat sabit ho sakdiyan ne...

So Mein tah kahangi, Girls need to be more adjustable and understanding because this is she who is new member in family.
If she could adjjust to variety of problems and patience then many problems could be solved. :) Good Luck Girls!!

Well, I think not only Phone but facebook or other networking sites r going to become be troublemaker for relationships in future too..

Quote from: _noXiouS_ on May 05, 2011, 10:58:56 PM

[quote author=Kudrat Kaur link=topic=49824.msg532308#msg532308 date=1304647299

So Mein tah kahangi, Girls need to be more adjustable and understanding because this is she who is new member in family.
If she could adjjust to variety of problems and patience then many problems could be solved. :) Good Luck Girls!!

Well, I think not only Phone but facebook or other networking sites r going to become be troublemaker for relationships in future too..

Kudiya nu ki saza mili hoyi aa, that she is the ONLY one who needs to adjust?! She leaves her whole family to live with, what, pretty much with a bunch of strangers. It is the guy's family who should be trying to make her feel more comfortable and help her in adjusting rather than pointing out her flaws and make her feel like an outsider that she already is... It has to be a joint effort!

agree with the second statement, social networking sites are likely to become a part of failed relationships more than anything else.

hanji sahi kiha kg main v is tra de mamle dekhe ne bohut kareeb to. Nox har var kuria hi ni samjhota kardia munde v karde ne . Mai ik gal hmesha sochda hunda k eh gharwalia bohut demanding hundia khas taur te aj kal dia . Shoti shoti gal te russ jana. Kise di gal ni sehni. Eh chohndia k munda usdi hal gal manne. (soch k dar jana pta ni mere vali kida di ayegi :hehe: ) matlab eh k kuria vich maturity kafi late aundi e. Ki eh sahi e?
Bohut var is tra hunda k koi chachi tayi ya bhain bharjayi kuri nu pehla e matt de k bhejdia k sohre ghar dar k na rahi. Sas nu vahla sir na chadayi vgera vgera. Te vich pisya janda vichara mere varga.
So hun gall eh sahmne aa rahi a k mobile ta vichole da kam karda. Asli gall eh discuss honi chahidi k pati patni nu de rishte vich bahri dakhal andazi kitho tak te kini ku jayz e.
kuria nu inha rishtya nu samjhan lai ki tarika apnauna chahida.

RG · « **Reply #16 on:** May 06, 2011, 01:49:23 AM »

Quote from: §¤§ KARAM §¤§ on May 06, 2011, 01:43:23 AM

hanji aah gal sahi kahi e hanji sahi kiha kg main v is tra de mamle dekhe ne bohut kareeb to. Nox har var kuria hi ni samjhota kardia munde v karde ne . Mai ik gal hmesha sochda hunda k eh gharwalia bohut demanding hundia khas taur te aj kal dia . Shoti shoti gal te russ jana. Kise di gal ni sehni. Eh chohndia k munda usdi hal gal manne. (soch k dar jana pta ni mere vali kida di ayegi :hehe: ) matlab eh k kuria vich maturity kafi late aundi e. Ki eh sahi e?
Bohut var is tra hunda k koi chachi tayi ya bhain bharjayi kuri nu pehla e matt de k bhejdia k sohre ghar dar k na rahi. Sas nu vahla sir na chadayi vgera vgera. Te vich pisya janda vichara mere varga.
So hun gall eh sahmne aa rahi a k mobile ta vichole da kam karda. Asli gall eh discuss honi chahidi k pati patni nu de rishte vich bahri dakhal andazi kitho tak te kini ku jayz e.
kuria nu inha rishtya nu samjhan lai ki tarika apnauna chahida.

sahi gall a bai pehla tan maturity aundi hi nhi te jdo aundi aa fer oh bande di maa ban jaandi aa ,apna khehra nhi chhutt sakda kise tra v

✿MeHaK✿ · « **Reply #17 on:** May 06, 2011, 02:25:00 AM »

u know what i think.... dona nu thura thura vadlna chida aa.. why only girl need to change... vaise odda sunia te ehi ha ke kuri apne wargia saria nu nai bna sakdi par osnu hee saria warge ban na pena.. chalo eh vi mann lende ... duji gal jado kuria nikkia hundia os de dil vich sas na da ek dar beth janda aa.. ke sas pata nai ki aa??? jado vi koi gavandan gal kardi.. edda kite soria de ghar na jake kari sas ne teri gutt patt deni aa... idda soria de ghar jake tapp ke dekhavi... etc... sas da ek hoa bna dendia aa.. eh kise hor da fault nahi apne hee ghar dia di galati aa ke kuria dil vich shuru tu hee ek dar betha dendia aa ke ... te sas di ek droni picture oddo tu hee osde dil vich ban jandi aa... te oh ehi sochdi aa ke sas kade ma nai ban sakdi... par aj kal jamana change aa bouat ghat chances jithe sas te noh di nai bandi.. in my family sassa dhia nalo jada apna noha nu pyaar kardia.. eh keh ke eh meri asli dhi aa.. saria nu idda hee sochna chida aa... je kuri kuj galat vi kardi aa te sas da purra hak hai ke osnu pyaar naal samjave eh nai ke os naal lare... te kuri di vi samjdari ese vich hove gi ke o dhyaan naal sune jithe o galat aa osnu sudarn di koshesh kare eh na soche ke jo main akrdi aa ohi sehi aa.. es tra te fer kade vi family vich adjustment nai ho sakdi.. so main te ehi keha gi je ek kuri di ma osnu maar sakdi aa kutt sakdi aa kise galati tu je osda gussa nai karde te fer ek sas di kehi hoi gall nu oh idda wadda modha kyu bna lende aa?????????

ਕਰਮਵੀਰ ਸਿੰਘ · « **Reply #18 on:** May 06, 2011, 02:53:41 AM »

bohut vadia ji

✿MeHaK✿ · « **Reply #19 on:** May 06, 2011, 01:36:47 PM »

Quote from: §¤§ KARAM §¤§ on May 06, 2011, 02:53:41 AM

bohut vadia ji

thanks ji

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