Author Topic: Khudkhushi (Read 14434 times)

ਕਰਮਵੀਰ ਸਿੰਘ · « **Reply #20 on:** July 24, 2014, 11:53:16 AM »

But still its nt a correct answer :hehe:
Eh swal te is tra aa jive "pehla murgi aayi k anda" :dnk:
Sab kuj ohdi rzaa ch ho riha. But banda khudkushi karda majboori vass jihnu rabb te v bhrosa ni jo haar mann lainda jo rabb de kite nu mann ni paunda. par eh mukti nahi sukh dukh ohde karan te othe hi rehnde sonoh te bhugtne painge hun nahi te agli vaar.

Punjabi Janta Forums - Janta Di Pasand · « **Reply #20 on:** July 24, 2014, 11:53:16 AM »

Gujjar NO1 · « **Reply #21 on:** July 24, 2014, 11:54:44 AM »

Quote from: ਕਰਮਵੀਰ ਸਿੰਘ on July 24, 2014, 11:53:16 AM

But still its nt a correct answer :hehe:
Eh swal te is tra aa jive "pehla murgi aayi k anda" :dnk:
Sab kuj ohdi rzaa ch ho riha. But banda khudkushi karda majboori vass jihnu rabb te v bhrosa ni jo haar mann lainda jo rabb de kite nu mann ni paunda. par eh mukti nahi sukh dukh ohde karan te othe hi rehnde sonoh te bhugtne painge hun nahi te agli vaar.

very ture

Anamika · « **Reply #22 on:** July 24, 2014, 12:00:45 PM »

Yeah murgi ande vali gall sehi aa.....

saying that suicide karna apni marzi a....it's like saying banda kush kar sakda.....on the pther hand banda aap kush vi ni kar sakda.....

odia ohi jane

rabbdabanda · « **Reply #23 on:** July 24, 2014, 12:39:48 PM »

hmm... :)

:hehe:

okay!

jo karda rabb karda - eh gal bilkul sahi aa.. ehde wich koi shakk nahi..
par fer bande hath ki hai? ki ohdi apni will power hai?
ehs gal layi ik example aa..!
zindagi ik taash di trah aa... jiwe taash wich apa j 3 jane khed rhe hoyie.. tan apas wich patte wand'de aa.. kise nu koi pata nai hunda ohde patte kiwe de a.. kise kol bahut wadiya patte aa jande.. kise kol ghattiyan patte hunde.. te kise theek theek patte hunde.. gal patteyan di kade nahi hundi. gal chaal di hundi aa.. ke, apa kehri chaal chal rhe aa... change patteya wala banda j over confident ho ke, galat chaal chal pawe tan oh harr sakda hai.. dujje paase ghatiyan patteyan wala ghaint chaal chal ke jitt sakda hai. os time te chunana sade hath hunda hai k asin kehri chaal chalni hai. par os da nateeja sade hath nai hunda k agge ja k ki houga. oh nateeja rabb de hath ch hai.

wekheya jawe tan " jo karda rabb karda" - eh bahut uchi awastha hai. kehna saukha hai par wakeya ee e awastha ch hona bahut jyada aukha hai. fer sanu eh krna chahida hai ke asin sabh ton chhoti awastha ch apne aap nu samjhiye.. sochiye k jo karna hai sanu ee karna paina.. bas rabba help kr... sanu sidhe raahe paa ...asin kise joge nahi.. sanu kujh nahi pata zindagi da.. eh ki ho reha.. bas rah dikha... is trah asin apne sthaan te mehsoos krange apne aap nu..
kyun k bulleh shah ji da kehna hai, - "sabhe aakhan eh gal jaani, raheion tu ho k har dum nimani, tahio lagengi othe pyaari, mere turne di hoyi tyaari, tusi aao milo meri pyaari|| "
ede nal eh howega k gunjalan ch uljh nahi sakange. te time - time nal oh sanu samjhaunda rhega.
chaalan sadiyan apnia han - mann lao k haiga eda... (jyada bareeki ch jayie tan eh v sadia nahi,par bareeki ch uljhan da khatra kyun k oh jad tak oh sojhi na pau samjh nai auni, so we should keep it simple) es lai har chaal ohde naa ch kiti jawe tah galat nahi howegi. es lai har khudkhushi karn de thought jis de mind ch aunda ous bande nu eh gal samjhni jaruri a... je oh es gal nu samjh k os ton bach janda tah samjh lena chaida.. eda likheya si...
je oh khudkhushi kar k mar jawe te fer samjh lena chaida eda likhya si.. har gal ohde te aa k mukkdi aa..

basically, oh nazaare dekhda a.. so, best way ehi aa es naatak cho bahar niklan da... chheti chheti ohde nal co-operate krna shuru kr diye... jini chheti director cut bolu.. ohni chheti shooting khatam te film complete hoju.. par take sahi dena pauga!! oh take ohdi jo marzi aa ohde ch raazi rehn nal ee theek hona mitro! :hehe:

ਕਰਮਵੀਰ ਸਿੰਘ · « **Reply #24 on:** July 24, 2014, 01:33:27 PM »

Mashalla mashalla :smile:

∂яεαмεя · « **Reply #25 on:** July 24, 2014, 03:47:29 PM »

har ik nu zindgi saaf paper waang milde fe chahe uhde te leekaa waah lao ya sohni kawita likh lau ..god sirf tuhanu option dinda na bura karwonda na changa ..oss khali paper nu har bharda a chahe bura likh ke ya changa ..ihde ch paratma ne ki kita?sirf chance dita and war war dinda untill insaan zindgi nu samaj ni lainda

jo karwonda god karwonda ..ih udo hi keh sakde a jado insaan sareer to atma di journey karke phounchda nd bhrahmgyaan nu paunda fe oh ina in love hunda ta kehnda ki jo v hunda uhdi raza to bina ni hunda ik pyaar ch kiha gia nhi ta dunia te ini buraai oh god ne karwai ??

god ne ta sirf energy banai c uhde cho positive and negitive ta insaan ne wand lai

Anamika · « **Reply #26 on:** July 24, 2014, 04:07:15 PM »

Quote from: rabbdabanda on July 24, 2014, 12:39:48 PM

hmm... :)

:hehe:

okay!

jo karda rabb karda - eh gal bilkul sahi aa.. ehde wich koi shakk nahi..
par fer bande hath ki hai? ki ohdi apni will power hai?
ehs gal layi ik example aa..!
zindagi ik taash di trah aa... jiwe taash wich apa j 3 jane khed rhe hoyie.. tan apas wich patte wand'de aa.. kise nu koi pata nai hunda ohde patte kiwe de a.. kise kol bahut wadiya patte aa jande.. kise kol ghattiyan patte hunde.. te kise theek theek patte hunde.. gal patteyan di kade nahi hundi. gal chaal di hundi aa.. ke, apa kehri chaal chal rhe aa... change patteya wala banda j over confident ho ke, galat chaal chal pawe tan oh harr sakda hai.. dujje paase ghatiyan patteyan wala ghaint chaal chal ke jitt sakda hai. os time te chunana sade hath hunda hai k asin kehri chaal chalni hai. par os da nateeja sade hath nai hunda k agge ja k ki houga. oh nateeja rabb de hath ch hai.

wekheya jawe tan " jo karda rabb karda" - eh bahut uchi awastha hai. kehna saukha hai par wakeya ee e awastha ch hona bahut jyada aukha hai. fer sanu eh krna chahida hai ke asin sabh ton chhoti awastha ch apne aap nu samjhiye.. sochiye k jo karna hai sanu ee karna paina.. bas rabba help kr... sanu sidhe raahe paa ...asin kise joge nahi.. sanu kujh nahi pata zindagi da.. eh ki ho reha.. bas rah dikha... is trah asin apne sthaan te mehsoos krange apne aap nu..
kyun k bulleh shah ji da kehna hai, - "sabhe aakhan eh gal jaani, raheion tu ho k har dum nimani, tahio lagengi othe pyaari, mere turne di hoyi tyaari, tusi aao milo meri pyaari|| "
ede nal eh howega k gunjalan ch uljh nahi sakange. te time - time nal oh sanu samjhaunda rhega.
chaalan sadiyan apnia han - mann lao k haiga eda... (jyada bareeki ch jayie tan eh v sadia nahi,par bareeki ch uljhan da khatra kyun k oh jad tak oh sojhi na pau samjh nai auni, so we should keep it simple) es lai har chaal ohde naa ch kiti jawe tah galat nahi howegi. es lai har khudkhushi karn de thought jis de mind ch aunda ous bande nu eh gal samjhni jaruri a... je oh es gal nu samjh k os ton bach janda tah samjh lena chaida.. eda likheya si...
je oh khudkhushi kar k mar jawe te fer samjh lena chaida eda likhya si.. har gal ohde te aa k mukkdi aa..

basically, oh nazaare dekhda a.. so, best way ehi aa es naatak cho bahar niklan da... chheti chheti ohde nal co-operate krna shuru kr diye... jini chheti director cut bolu.. ohni chheti shooting khatam te film complete hoju.. par take sahi dena pauga!! oh take ohdi jo marzi aa ohde ch raazi rehn nal ee theek hona mitro! :hehe:

very very very well explained =D> thanx :)

mundaxrisky · « **Reply #27 on:** July 24, 2014, 04:38:59 PM »

oll moi can say iz if "life give ye lemon ye make lemonade of em" .. lyfe aint ez fer sure but commetin suicide is nawt a solution. moi lyfe wasnt ez, it still aint ... whn moi was like 17-18 boud 2 yrs ago, once moi was homeless( fer few days), slept in buses, trains n airport juss to get some sleep moi used to eat bf, lunch ,dinner from gurdwara. Yes moi was homeless but nawt hopeless..cz moi neva lost moi faith in LORD. And today moi av a real job , av moi own place to live had so much money dat moi can pay moi bills fer next 3-4 months to pay moi rent without workin. JUSS NEVA LOOSE UR HOPE PPL CZ HOPE FLOATS.

♥♥ ਗਭਰੂ ਚੋਟੀ ਦਾ ♥♥ · « **Reply #28 on:** July 25, 2014, 06:15:24 AM »

rabb de bande ne bilkul sahi samjeya parr ehh app kuj aljeya jeha mehsoos hoo reha :D: :D: risky ne jo keha bilkul sahi keha 100% bande nu hope ni khoni chaidi , par mere ta eh sab akha de samne hoyia ekk ohh banda si jiss kole kise cheej di kami ni ekk ohh banda si jiss nu roti takk changi nah naseeb hundi si par fer vi dona da ant eko jeha hoyia dowa ne poison pee leya , hun dasso ki kehaiye kehri hope kehri will power ?? ehh ta bass jithe rabb ne maut likh ditti banda app ohte chal ke janda :pray: , nahi nahi eh nah socho nah hi sochna chida mai chawa gall da bhrosa dilwa dewa ki rabb di marji hundi aa , appa kehra rabb deakheya jehre rabb nu mande ohne ne thuda maan ch rabb di mojudgi nu visaar ditta te appa sarre jagg nalo wakhre ni jana chunde soo je sarre rabb mande ta appa vi manan lagg peye nal ehh ta apne maa baap ne suru toh sikeya hai , hun ehh vi nah sochiyeo rabb ni hunda mai ta bass anpad jeha banda bakbaas karda rehna , khudkuhshi banda odo karda jadd uss lyi ehh jindgi bearth ban jandi hai , maut toh bina koi rasta ni disda odo jaanke banda ehh kadam chuk lainda ehss di sab toh waddi wajah dimag te bhooj hunda , dimag te bhooj karna aadmi aurta nalo jyada khudkhusi karde ne , par fer kudkhusi toh bachiye kimme , esda hall risky ne dass hi ditta te kuj mai hor noon-masala launa , ehh ta nahi sarre khush hi ne dunia ch ja appa sab toh wadd dukhi aa , hamesha ohna walh deakh ke jindgi katni chaidi aa jehre apne toh nime ho ke jindgi biteet kar rahe ne exampal lavo jive ekk bande kole tutti jehi jutti si , meeh pai reha si ohde pair paani nal gille hoo rehe si ohdo ohh bhut dukhi hoyea twe rabb nu kehan lageya ki sarre wadia jutti paa ke firr rehe ne kise nu meeh di koi parwa nahi sirf ekk mai hi eho jeha banda jiss di jutti tutti hoyi aa par jdo ohh agge turda gya ta ohne deakheya ki ekk banda roo reha hunda ohh uss bande nu puchda ke ki gaal hoo gyi tu roo kyu reha uss ne daseya ki sareya kole jutti hai bhawe jeho jehi marji sirf mai hi eho jeha jiss kole jutti vi nahi hai taa uss wele uss tutti jutti wale nu ehh ehsaas hoyia ki rabb ne ta uss nu fer vi kyi bandeya ta behtar bneya hai te ohh banda halki jehi khushi rabb de prati pragt karde hoyia uss bina jutti wale bande nu deakh ke chaleya janda hai te jiss bande kole jutti nahi hundi ohh still ronda hunda te rabb nu burra bhala bol reha hunda par ohh ehh deakh ke chup hoo gya ki usde samne ekk banda hasda hoyia jaa reha si te usde dosta ne usnu chakeya hoyia si jisde pair hi nahi si , uss wele usnu vi ehsaas hoo gya ki mai ta fer vi changa haan ki mere kole mere pair ta han rabb ne jo ditta iss ch hi khush rehan chaida hai , ta iss nal insaan apni jindgi nu ekk behtar dhang nal deakh sakda te kale nijampuri ne vi likeya hai ki ehh vi manan paina usda bhana ehh nijampuri burra wakt beet hi jaana ehh , ta burra wakt ek nah ek din beet hi janda bande nu hamesha khush rehna chaida hai hassde nu deakh ke dil vi hassna chunda te hassan nal khusi mildi aa , dukh bhawe jo marji aun jindgi ch hass ke sehana chaida nah ki ehh kehana chida ki je mai marr gya sarre jabh mukk jaange ehna vi selfish nah bno ki aap mukt ho ke appdeya nu dukha ch chadd jao , ekk english movie rambo ch rambo kehda hunda "jio apne leyi marro dusro ke liye" , jindgi apne hissab nal katto mauja kro apne layi khush raho je desh ja kaum sheedi magdi fer nah jhigko dujeya lyi mareyo rabb kdi galt nahi srahuga , hun ena kuch keh ditta kitte mainu sireous jeha banda nah samjeyo eho jehiya galla mainu pasad ni karniya appa hasan wale bande aa :D: :D: :D: :D:

Sw33tgirl · « **Reply #29 on:** July 26, 2014, 10:13:06 AM »

Well, me sochdi k ehe rabb di nahi ..jo ida krda ohdi apni marji hundi ... tahi ehnu "khudkhushi" kehnde ...b ohne avdi marji to avdi khushi to ida kita ..means insan di apni will power hundi ohdi soch hundi(optimistic hai ya fe pessimistic)... jiste ohda apna 100% control hunda te oho sahi or galat raah chun_da.

ehste ik example dekhde:

almost sareya ne avdi school life ch ik chptr prheya huna "The Last Leaf"
But jihna ne ehe story nahi prhi/suni me suna dini:

2 kudia (johnsey & sue) room-mates + best-friends hunia nd ik bari johnsey pneumonia nal baut bimar pejandi ...te kaafi ilaaj bacho b theek nai hundi.. te sara tym khidki to bahr tree nu dekhdi rehndi nd kehndi k jad ehs tree di last leaf gir jaugi me mar jana..(means ohdi jeon di ichha ohdi will power khtm hojandi) !
Bt ohdi friend haar nai man_di nd ohna de ghr kole ik old painter rehnda hunda jisdi ichha hundi k oh apni lyf ch ik masterpiece bnave...so ohdi friend(sue) ohde kol ja k sari gal dasdi ...as tree te sirf 3-4 leaves bchiya hunia ...painter osi raat leaf paint krn di sochda ...ous raat baut meehn painda bt painter haar nai manda nd ous kudi di window te leaf paint krda jo bilkul real lgdi te tree to judi hoi lgdi !
hun kayi din beet jande nd johnsey leaf dekhdi rehndi ...bt oh digdi hi nai(digge kime oh ta painting aa) ...oh bda dil ch insist krdi k leaf digge bt oh dig di nai ...fer johnsey nu ehsaas hunda k leaf ohnu dkhona chah rhi k oh(johnsey) kini buri hai te ohne kini waddi galti kinna wdda paap kita maran baare soch k..te hauli hauli oh recover hon lgdi nd bilkul theek hojandi(as ohde andar firto will power aa jandi k marna naiga jeona aa)!

Ehs story to pta lgda jad koi pessimistic hojanda / ohdi will power mukk jandi tad hi oh ida da kadam chukda ( will power te soch insan di apni hundi ...ehnu rabb nhi insaan hi badal skda hai) !! Marna ta ik din sabhne hi aa, ...bt insan jad ehe kadam rabb di nahi apni marzi to chkda ta oho khudkhushi hundi ...jihnu Aatmahatya b kehne ...oh insan di apni soch te apni will power da natija hundi !!

Thanks fo reading :) its bit long though :hehe: :hehe:

rabbdabanda · « **Reply #30 on:** July 26, 2014, 10:59:55 AM »

words ya lafaz , insaan de apne bnaye hoye aa.. te je practical hoyie es cheez nu lai k te sirf ehna nu sahmne rakh k apa zindagi de attal sach nu jhuthla nahi sakde.

te har insaan di zindagi ohda apna raah ya safar hai. ohdi aatma da safar hai. shareer te ik rajai de gilaaf wang hai, roon saria rajayian ch ikko hi hunda, gilaaf wakho wakh jrur hunda hai. gilaaf paat ya khraab ho jaan nal.. roon nu nhi sutteya janda .. ohda gilaaf badal ditta janda!

har theory har insaan layi wakhri hai .. je esnu practically ho k dekhiye! gallabaatan ya kitabi gyaan te eda hi aa!

ÐèṤἷḷ¡ · « **Reply #31 on:** July 26, 2014, 11:26:17 AM »

Rab di marji de khilaaf a but some times ah kismat ch v likhiya hunda a .. baki upper jawave ta Rab ji nu puch lawage :rabb:

Gujjar NO1 · « **Reply #32 on:** July 26, 2014, 11:29:23 AM »

mera msg to yahi hai k insan ko zindagi mai aik baar to ghum say zaroor guzarna parta hai ...
kehty hai na k 4 din ki zindagi hai ...
1.bachpan
2.jawani
3.married life
4.burhapa...
aur in mai say aik to zaroor shaktii ka hota hai ..
baki mai problemz to atii hai magar woh temporary hotii hai ...
so agar kisi ko koi problem ho to be calm aur look forward positively ...
aur achii umeed rakhein ... kyun k ALLAH TALLAH insano ko hey azmatay hai woh b achay logoo ko ...
azmaish ki ghari muskil zaroor hoti hia magar baad maii khushiyan hey miltii haii ...
agar kisi ko koi problem na ho tab usay tension leni chaiye kyun k ALLAH TALAH nay usay us k haal par chora hota hia ..
:pray:

mundaxrisky · « **Reply #33 on:** July 26, 2014, 04:39:31 PM »

kHUDKUSHI suicide is juss nawt a sin itz a crime in any religion n in the book of LAW . Marn walle khud ta maar lainde wa avde app nu .. cz oh buj dil hunde wa cz they r too coward to face they up hill battle.. jad oh avde app nu maar lainde wa .. fe apne naal oh apne ..ma , baap, biwi, bache , bhen bhra frnds nu ve ik tarah naal he maar dinde wa ...JINA DA KOI KASOOR BE NOI HUNDA. N PPL who r advocating dis ke GOD he sub kujj karonda wa .. bani cho kiha wa ... GHALLE WAVVE NANKA SADDE UTH JAE ohde cho eh noi likha ke ya sure tuc apne app nu maar sakde wa cz KHUD- KUSHI doent represent wut BABA JI had said.

Gujjar NO1 · « **Reply #34 on:** July 27, 2014, 02:55:12 AM »

yr aj me apne frnd de ik frnd nu milya ..
gal sanu oh aap hi ds reha c .. kiwe ohdi gf ne ohdii khatir apni zindgi da end kr liya ... coz jd ohna de gahr de nai sn manne ta os kuddi ne suicide kr liya c ...
but manu es to bhot gussa aah reha c oh munda naal naal hass v reha c. jida ohnu koi feel hi nai c ho reha k kise ne os lyi apni jaan gwaa ditti ... sanu apni gal purii enjoy krke ds reha c ..
fir os ne sanu photographs v vekhiya nd ik gal hor oh kuddii jux os nu two tym milli c nd bakki tym ohna ph. te gal kri bs ... but oh aap khenda ki me os nu serios kde nai liya c .. but os ne kuddii di zindgi ta tbaah krti na yr .. jis ne apna sab kuj mann liya os nu nd os piche apni life da v end kr liya .. shame on tht guy
bhot gaht lokka nu sacha pyaar milda but jina nu milda oh kadar nai krde ?
hun daasso rabb ne odhi likhi ini si ta ohne apne aap nu payar te qurban karta

Kamz~K · « **Reply #35 on:** July 27, 2014, 02:57:02 AM »

Ena sab kuj likhia tusi sab ne ..

fer ki end hoya aa ?

rabb di raza hundi aa ya fer nhi khudkhushi karan vich ??

Gujjar NO1 · « **Reply #36 on:** July 27, 2014, 02:58:27 AM »

Quote from: Taur~Kaur on July 27, 2014, 02:57:02 AM

Ena sab kuj likhia tusi sab ne ..

fer ki end hoya aa ?

rabb di raza hundi aa ya fer nhi khudkhushi karan vich ??

eyho quction mera kamal
laghda tusi mera last reply read nai kita

Kamz~K · « **Reply #37 on:** July 27, 2014, 03:04:47 AM »

Quote from: gujjar no1 on July 27, 2014, 02:58:27 AM

eyho quction mera kamal
laghda tusi mera last reply read nai kita

Jehre khudkhushi karde aa oh losers nhi hunde
mainu lagda jo ona nu majboor karde aa yeh sab karan waste ...
sab to wade losers oh hunde aa .

Gujjar NO1 · « **Reply #38 on:** July 27, 2014, 03:12:52 AM »

Quote from: Taur~Kaur on July 27, 2014, 03:04:47 AM

Jehre khudkhushi karde aa oh losers nhi hunde
mainu lagda jo ona nu majboor karde aa yeh sab karan waste ...
sab to wade losers oh hunde aa .

i agree with u

mundaxrisky · « **Reply #39 on:** July 27, 2014, 09:46:47 AM »

Rabb de razza noi hundi kadi khud kushi karn cho............. kisi bibi ne ask kita uppar so imma juss givin moi view ... ye cannt blame GOD fer everythin masla FREE WILL da hunda wa .... je sub kush GOD he karda kronda fir ta duniya te kadi koi zulim e na hunda. TWAE PARSAD SAWAIYE bani ( dasm granth) cho Shri Guru Gobind singh ji ne eh b kiha wa .... " KOOR KRIYA MAIN URJIO SUBI JAGG , SHRI BHAGWAN KA BHED NA PAIO" matlab clear wa ... Rabb da bhed kisse ne noi paiya. GOD sanu duniya te send karda wa .. but fe sadi FREE WILL hundi wa asi apni life nu kimme chalona wa,

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