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Re: IS suicide a valid decision?
« Reply #60 on: August 31, 2011, 05:48:36 PM »
world lozerz naal full a n lozers hi suicide kade

Nah looser nai hunde bache, suicide karan wale... ihta opposite teh hard conditions teh shikar teh kayee baar bahut hi hard working lok hunde ne..jehna ne kayee lokan naal bahut pyar payea hunda teh kayee loved ones layee bahut karan da sochiya hundiya... par jado kujh badkismat(unlucky) ghariyan, bure halat teh ohna loved ones de hi dhokhe da shikaar hoye... bahut hi stressed lok ih kadam uthayunde ne...

Jithe tak validity da question .. oh tah ik answer hai ke kade v valid nai aa.. par koyee khush hoke nai suicide karda bahut hi mara teh worthless, helpless teh useless feelings leads to these conditions..
Baki ihna lokan nu Sade kise di lecture di v lor nai hundi bus they need love, care n affection to come back to their social life again.. have dealt with many depressed clients with suicidal attempts.. so bahut hi nere toh mehsoos kitta hai ohna di manosthiti nu...

p.s here i am not talking about teenager suicidal attempts like cutting their wrist arteries..this is explanation of adult suicidal attempts..

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Re: IS suicide a valid decision?
« Reply #60 on: August 31, 2011, 05:48:36 PM »

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Re: IS suicide a valid decision?
« Reply #61 on: August 31, 2011, 05:52:49 PM »
it's a very valid decision.... it happens when u r under pressure... gotta understand..

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Re: IS suicide a valid decision?
« Reply #62 on: August 31, 2011, 06:05:55 PM »
Nah looser nai hunde bache, suicide karan wale... ihta opposite teh hard conditions teh shikar teh kayee baar bahut hi hard working lok hunde ne..jehna ne kayee lokan naal bahut pyar payea hunda teh kayee loved ones layee bahut karan da sochiya hundiya... par jado kujh badkismat(unlucky) ghariyan, bure halat teh ohna loved ones de hi dhokhe da shikaar hoye... bahut hi stressed lok ih kadam uthayunde ne...

Jithe tak validity da question .. oh tah ik answer hai ke kade v valid nai aa.. par koyee khush hoke nai suicide karda bahut hi mara teh worthless, helpless teh useless feelings leads to these conditions..
Baki ihna lokan nu Sade kise di lecture di v lor nai hundi bus they need love, care n affection to come back to their social life again.. have dealt with many depressed clients with suicidal attempts.. so bahut hi nere toh mehsoos kitta hai ohna di manosthiti nu...

p.s here i am not talking about teenager suicidal attempts like cutting their wrist arteries..this is explanation of adult suicidal attempts..

yh kudrat g suicide kise v problem da solution nai aa
har problem da solution mil janda bus himmat rakhne pendi aa
if koi luv ch dhoka kahnde nd bla bla eh ni sochde k tym toh phyla n kismat toh jayda kise nu kuj ni milda jo hunda change lai hunda
suicide kar lende byd ch family nu kine dukh chalne pende bevkufia karke

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Re: IS suicide a valid decision?
« Reply #63 on: August 31, 2011, 06:18:27 PM »
yh kudrat g suicide kise v problem da solution nai aa
har problem da solution mil janda bus himmat rakhne pendi aa
if koi luv ch dhoka kahnde nd bla bla eh ni sochde k tym toh phyla n kismat toh jayda kise nu kuj ni milda jo hunda change lai hunda
suicide kar lende byd ch family nu kine dukh chalne pende bevkufia karke

Bevkoof nai hunde oh Lado Raje... As I said before too.. they don't need your or my lecture...

Chal0 mein kujh examples dindi aa tuhanu...
-Ik vidhwa maa ne apni bachi nu inni mehnat karke padhyea teh kujh gunde lokan ne ohdi beti naal galat gal kitti teh  teh fer ohnu maar ke sutt ditta.. je os toh baad oh maa es gam vich suicide attempt kardi tah tusi ohnu bevkoof kahonge?

- Dujja case ik bhra ( brother) ne apne shote veer nu padhyea likhayea ohdi har isha poori kari teh baad vich ohi bhra ne vadde ho ke ohdi pith pishe ohna de father toh sari jammen apne naam lawa layee.. jado es tarah dhokha hoyea tah os wadde veer ne suicide attempt kiita ki oh bevkoof c?

- Sade punjab de kisaan.. jehna  di kheti baari kayee baar masaum da shikar ho jandi aa ya fer ohna nu ih patwari khande ne teh ih sarkaar fasal da sahi rate nai dinde teh ih kisaan  with family suicide attempts karde ne ki oh bevkoof ne?

Mein ithe ih nai keh rahi ke ohna da suicide karna jayaj hai par ohna nu sade lecture di koyee lor nai .. haan je de sakde ho pyar dawo teh help karo taah jo oh lok fer normal life gujaar sakan..

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Re: IS suicide a valid decision?
« Reply #64 on: August 31, 2011, 06:20:51 PM »
Bevkoof nai hunde oh Lado Raje... As I said before too.. they don't need your or my lecture...

Chal0 mein kujh examples dindi aa tuhanu...
-Ik vidhwa maa ne apni bachi nu inni mehnat karke padhyea teh kujh gunde lokan ne ohdi beti naal galat gal kitti teh  teh fer ohnu maar ke sutt ditta.. je os toh baad oh maa es gam vich suicide attempt kardi tah tusi ohnu bevkoof kahonge?

- Dujja case ik bhra ( brother) ne apne shote veer nu padhyea likhayea ohdi har isha poori kari teh baad vich ohi bhra ne vadde ho ke ohdi pith pishe ohna de father toh sari jammen apne naam lawa layee.. jado es tarah dhokha hoyea tah os wadde veer ne suicide attempt kiita ki oh bevkoof c?

- Sade punjab de kisaan.. jehna  di kheti baari kayee baar masaum da shikar ho jandi aa ya fer ohna nu ih patwari khande ne teh ih sarkaar fasal da sahi rate nai dinde teh ih kisaan suicide attempts karde ne ki oh bevkoof ne?

Mein ithe ih nai keh rahi ke ohna da suicide karna jayaj hai par ohna nu sade lecture di koyee lor nai .. haan je de sakde ho pyar dawo teh help karo taah jo oh lok fer normal life gujaar sakan..

oh hanji eh ta una di majburi c bevkufi nai

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Re: IS suicide a valid decision?
« Reply #65 on: August 31, 2011, 06:23:05 PM »
oh hanji eh ta una di majburi c bevkufi nai

inne  bhayank cases hunde ne mere bache.. ih tah kujh v nai .. idda de reasons hunde ne kayee baar  ke appa sun v nai sakde teh yakeen v nai kar sakde... Appa tah bahut lucky aa babaji ne sade teh inni mehri kitti aa..

Chal aja mera bacha ajj lecture bala ho gaya..  :hug:

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Re: IS suicide a valid decision?
« Reply #66 on: August 31, 2011, 06:24:13 PM »
u knw india vich sade area de kuri da bf bimar c n oh rab kol chala gaya n kuri ne train thale jake mar gyi

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Re: IS suicide a valid decision?
« Reply #67 on: August 31, 2011, 06:29:54 PM »
u knw india vich sade area de kuri da bf bimar c n oh rab kol chala gaya n kuri ne train thale jake mar gyi

hanji ih v kafi baar ho janda.. par es case vich bache nu apne parents bare v sochna chaida ... tahi mein kiha c ah meri uppar wali explanation teenagers de sucidal attempts layee nai aa...

 

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Re: IS suicide a valid decision?
« Reply #68 on: August 31, 2011, 06:43:36 PM »
100 war lahnat ode utte jo   is bare sochda v aa...sab ton ghatiya kayarta hundi eh.....jo ethe ni jee sakda  oh dobara insaan bann ki karuga?

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Re: IS suicide a valid decision?
« Reply #69 on: August 31, 2011, 06:59:52 PM »
hanji ih v kafi baar ho janda.. par es case vich bache nu apne parents bare v sochna chaida ... tahi mein kiha c ah meri uppar wali explanation teenagers de sucidal attempts layee nai aa...

 
but teens bhut sare bevkufi krde a

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Re: IS suicide a valid decision?
« Reply #70 on: August 31, 2011, 07:39:41 PM »
It all depends on the culture. If we talk about western culture, I would say it is just a stupid decision. There is just so much a women can do in western countries before it gets to suicide. Now If we talk about middle eastern or Asian countries, suicide is the only answer. Poor Farmers are under deep karja in India. They don't have much money, then they have the banks and companies harassing them for the money. How will they feed their families and pay the banks and companies If the fasal is ruined one season? They will barely have money to feed their families. Then the banks/companies will take over the house and land when they can't pay the loans. What to you expect that farmer to do? Except suicide?

Let me make up another good example. This girl is in a relationship with this guy, one day this aunty sees them making out. The aunty knew the family and tells them their daughter was doing this. The family goes all out on the girl and lock her up in the house. Now the whole pind finds out about it and the family ijjat is ruined. Now even if the girl went outside the people just wouldn't let her live. What do you think that girl should do except suicide?


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Just noticed Kudrat ji summed it all up already.

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Re: IS suicide a valid decision?
« Reply #71 on: August 31, 2011, 07:44:37 PM »
loki jeun nai dinde pawan

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Re: IS suicide a valid decision?
« Reply #72 on: August 31, 2011, 08:01:43 PM »
loki jeun nai dinde pawan

Sahi gal tuhadi. Girls nu bas duniya ni jeen dindi. I don't understand why people in Punjab care so much about others business. I guess that's just how our people are. Instead of helping they just help in making it worst.

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Re: IS suicide a valid decision?
« Reply #73 on: November 14, 2011, 11:14:32 AM »
generally people under depression don't realise what is going on with themselves, so how would they think about others? They are lost within themselves, confusion and what not.

We can't feel what they go through, unless we experience it first hand.

But what you mentioned can be applied to people who don't suffer depression.

"Clinical Depression" is considered a mental illness, as it alters the mind, ofcourse my statement don't apply to it.

We can go into the psychology of "depression" however, it will stray away from the topic at hand, so I defer.


I find it disgusting, how people are validating suicide here!

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Re: IS suicide a valid decision?
« Reply #74 on: November 14, 2011, 12:10:08 PM »
Suicide is the most sincere form of self-criticism.  :happy:

 

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