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grudges
« on: May 17, 2011, 06:37:19 PM »
do u hold a grudge against anybody? :lost:
 
if so y?   :woried:

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grudges
« on: May 17, 2011, 06:37:19 PM »

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Re: grudges
« Reply #1 on: May 17, 2011, 08:03:54 PM »
 :sad: Yeah .. But Just a few
Cuz idont believe in forgiving and forgetting
Plus icant forget their faces

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Re: grudges
« Reply #2 on: May 17, 2011, 08:08:34 PM »
no :D apa sabh bhul jai da

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Re: grudges
« Reply #3 on: May 17, 2011, 08:22:53 PM »
iwish I cudve too
I heard  it makes u a happier if u could forgive nd frget
But it idk iwish better control over my  5 vices

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Re: grudges
« Reply #4 on: May 17, 2011, 08:24:16 PM »
Jado tak duja banda muafi na mang lave te apni galti da ehsaas na hove.

I think I may have overly high expectations of people. Par chalo rab sikhadau eh vi.

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Re: grudges
« Reply #5 on: May 17, 2011, 08:28:01 PM »
iwish I cudve too
I heard  it makes u a happier if u could forgive nd frget
But it idk iwish better control over my  5 vices
be an ignorant in dat casec:D

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Re: grudges
« Reply #6 on: May 17, 2011, 11:04:33 PM »
I do, but then I get over it eventually and go out of my way to find that person to say sorry lol.

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Re: grudges
« Reply #7 on: May 17, 2011, 11:17:45 PM »
I do, but then I get over it eventually and go out of my way to find that person to say sorry lol.

Hmm I've heard this somewhere before Lol

I try not to hold a grudge, but sometimes it just stays in the back of your head...even after everything fine with them.

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Re: grudges
« Reply #8 on: May 18, 2011, 05:13:27 AM »
You bet.

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Re: grudges
« Reply #9 on: May 18, 2011, 08:50:49 PM »
well i dont hold grudges because
they make u unhappy while the other person may not even have an idea that ur pist off

and mamu holding grudges is a sign that watever it was that happened ur still holding on to it ....
u need to forget those people and move on
because there not even worth ur grudges
espcially cuz they hurt u in one way or another
and forgot to even say sorry, makeup with u, or confront the situation

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Re: grudges
« Reply #10 on: May 18, 2011, 09:27:50 PM »
 :pagel: Who. wants an apology
Appa ta hisaaab kitaaab karna  X_X
only reason i hate all that is cuz thats totally against my gurujis sikhyas they always taught us the lesson of forgiveness

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Re: grudges
« Reply #11 on: May 18, 2011, 09:34:48 PM »
It may take sometime for me to get over it but eventually i do forgive. Its not worth holding such negative feelings, there's better things to do.

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Re: grudges
« Reply #12 on: May 18, 2011, 09:42:36 PM »
I don't hold grudges... just don't forget. Its in some peoples nature to harm others... and they can't help it. I just don't put myself in a situation where that person can effect me.

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Re: grudges
« Reply #13 on: May 19, 2011, 12:54:01 AM »
i hve nd feel to chop off dier neck

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Re: grudges
« Reply #14 on: July 25, 2011, 12:38:37 PM »
i hve nd feel to chop off dier neck

anger management? :hehe:

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Re: grudges
« Reply #15 on: July 25, 2011, 01:34:27 PM »
mod sahb nu smjha dyo topic da matlab ki aa :hehe:

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Re: grudges
« Reply #16 on: July 25, 2011, 01:44:39 PM »
mod sahb nu smjha dyo topic da matlab ki aa :hehe:
matlab ki tusi kise nal gila shikva/vair-pugona (grudge) rakhde o ke nai?

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Re: grudges
« Reply #17 on: July 25, 2011, 10:42:54 PM »
matlab ki tusi kise nal gila shikva/vair-pugona (grudge) rakhde o ke nai?
thax ji . . . Hanji rakhde aa ji kudia nal :hehe:

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Re: grudges
« Reply #18 on: July 25, 2011, 11:08:52 PM »
not really, it actually depends on how close the relationship is ...but in most cases.. usually, i can forgive easily but its hard to forget and forgive :-|

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Re: grudges
« Reply #19 on: July 26, 2011, 09:03:45 AM »
usually gall mere dil vich rehndi e agar koi faltu kuj kehnda e . Aam taur te mai bachke rehna aise bandya to jinha nu gal karn di koi tamiz ni . Je koi apna khas e fir jitho tak ho ske ta relation kaym rakhan di koshish karda so shotia motia galla egnore kar dina bt je had ho jaye fir iko var gal saf kar dina nd jo kiha usnu yad v rakhda hmesha.
Zydadatar egnor e kar dina :smile:

 

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