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Re: Forced Marriage or Marriage under Pressure
« Reply #20 on: June 28, 2012, 07:05:22 AM »
pyaar pta laun di koi tarkeeb nhi hundi.... apne dil nu pta hunda..
rabb tenu tera pyaar bakshe veer  :rabb:

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Re: Forced Marriage or Marriage under Pressure
« Reply #20 on: June 28, 2012, 07:05:22 AM »

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Re: Forced Marriage or Marriage under Pressure
« Reply #21 on: June 28, 2012, 07:16:54 AM »
rabb tenu tera pyaar bakshe veer  :rabb:
thannk u jeet 22...
rbb ne pyaar baksh ta ditta ... but puri tara nhiii

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Re: Forced Marriage or Marriage under Pressure
« Reply #22 on: June 28, 2012, 07:21:01 AM »
thannk u jeet 22...
rbb ne pyaar baksh ta ditta ... but puri tara nhiii
gal kr chukk laine aa  :cooll: kudi raazi aa k nhi tu eh dass

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Re: Forced Marriage or Marriage under Pressure
« Reply #23 on: June 28, 2012, 07:26:00 AM »
gal kr chukk laine aa  :cooll: kudi raazi aa k nhi tu eh dass
yaar chukan nu ta main ajj viah krla.. os i tension nhi..

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Re: Forced Marriage or Marriage under Pressure
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Re: Forced Marriage or Marriage under Pressure
« Reply #25 on: June 28, 2012, 11:48:20 AM »
 
Koyi vi decision hove zindagi ch, it never ends well if it is forced or performed under pressure. Viah de case vich, your decision will affect you for the rest of your life. Ehe eddan da rishta ni hunda jehda forcefully ja pressure de vich aa ke kareya jawe kiyoon ki tusi uss insaan nal apni zindagi bitauni hundi. Jehdi cheej nal apna mann hi ni khush ohda karey da vi ki fayeeda kiyoon ki ussne kise nu vi benefit ni karna. Je tusi viah da rishta under this condition kar rahe oh ta ehe kina ku fair aa to the person you will ve married to? Kiyoon ki tuada decision ik hor jindagi nal juddeyga and you have no right to destroy someone else's life, knowingly.

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Re: Forced Marriage or Marriage under Pressure
« Reply #26 on: June 29, 2012, 03:43:49 AM »

Koyi vi decision hove zindagi ch, it never ends well if it is forced or performed under pressure. Viah de case vich, your decision will affect you for the rest of your life. Ehe eddan da rishta ni hunda jehda forcefully ja pressure de vich aa ke kareya jawe kiyoon ki tusi uss insaan nal apni zindagi bitauni hundi. Jehdi cheej nal apna mann hi ni khush ohda karey da vi ki fayeeda kiyoon ki ussne kise nu vi benefit ni karna. Je tusi viah da rishta under this condition kar rahe oh ta ehe kina ku fair aa to the person you will ve married to? Kiyoon ki tuada decision ik hor jindagi nal juddeyga and you have no right to destroy someone else's life, knowingly.
kudi munda raazzii..... but parents not razi...
dsso ki kriye...  :sad:

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Re: Forced Marriage or Marriage under Pressure
« Reply #27 on: June 29, 2012, 03:45:40 AM »
kudi munda raazzii..... but parents not razi...
dsso ki kriye...  :sad:
kudi nu keh ghare gal kre  :cooll:

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Re: Forced Marriage or Marriage under Pressure
« Reply #28 on: June 29, 2012, 03:51:49 AM »
kudi nu keh ghare gal kre  :cooll:
oh ta keh ditta.... hun pta nhi ki bnda  :sad:

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Re: Forced Marriage or Marriage under Pressure
« Reply #29 on: June 29, 2012, 03:52:18 AM »
sab bakwaas

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Re: Forced Marriage or Marriage under Pressure
« Reply #30 on: June 29, 2012, 06:31:41 AM »
i want to marry with my love forever and my best friend....but her parents is not accept. we are want to marry but with permission of parents , not like running from home....bcoz i and she does not want abusing her parents reputation... now. she and i will be commited in arrange marriage coming soon.........
its so painful for me and for her also....... but we cant do anything also.....
chahe meri arrange marriage ho v jawe..... after then  v main osnu ohna hi chahunga, ona hi love krda rahunga jinna hun krda.....  main hun tak os to bina apna future espect nhi kitaa...
but main kdi v osnu in the future love krno nhi hatunga......
If you guys love each other then it's not arrange marriage

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Re: Forced Marriage or Marriage under Pressure
« Reply #31 on: June 29, 2012, 06:40:50 AM »
If you guys love each other then it's not arrange marriage
veer ..u dont under stand.....
i and she love each other... but her parents are not accept to marry with me....
and we want to marry with permission of parents.. not like gharo bhajj ke....
bcoz we are want to abuse parent reputation...

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Re: Forced Marriage or Marriage under Pressure
« Reply #32 on: June 29, 2012, 06:42:38 AM »
veer ..u dont under stand.....
i and she love each other... but her parents are not accept to marry with me....
and we want to marry with permission of parents.. not like gharo bhajj ke....
bcoz we are want to abuse parent reputation...


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Re: Forced Marriage or Marriage under Pressure
« Reply #33 on: June 29, 2012, 06:44:55 AM »
veer ..u dont under stand.....
i and she love each other... but her parents are not accept to marry with me....
and we want to marry with permission of parents.. not like gharo bhajj ke....
bcoz we are want to abuse parent reputation...

she is a girl knjra  :D: :D: :D: :D:

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Re: Forced Marriage or Marriage under Pressure
« Reply #34 on: June 29, 2012, 06:46:41 AM »
Gharde kyu nahi mannde tuhade dona de? - reason?
cast ... status..

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she is a girl knjra  :D: :D: :D: :D:
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Re: Forced Marriage or Marriage under Pressure
« Reply #35 on: June 29, 2012, 09:34:05 AM »
kudi munda raazzii..... but parents not razi...
dsso ki kriye...  :sad:

Why would you place yourself in a situation when you know you have no future? You know your parents well enough and should know what kind of person they would prefer, if you chose someone accordingly, I'm sure they wouldn't have significant issues with it. Afterall, main goal for the parents is to find their a child a partner who can give them a happy and a successfull life.

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Re: Forced Marriage or Marriage under Pressure
« Reply #36 on: July 01, 2012, 07:14:20 AM »
veer ..u dont under stand.....
i and she love each other... but her parents are not accept to marry with me....
and we want to marry with permission of parents.. not like gharo bhajj ke....
bcoz we are want to abuse parent reputation...
I know, i get it! the thing is, it's still not really "arranged" marriage because you love this kudi, you've met her and are planning to marry her. Since her parents disapprove and you both would like her parents to set up the marriage, you could say it's partly arranged because it would be set up by them

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Re: Forced Marriage or Marriage under Pressure
« Reply #37 on: September 27, 2012, 05:58:52 AM »
i louve u allwaysssss my love  :love: :love:

but i cant stopmyself  :sad: :sad: :sad:

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Re: Forced Marriage or Marriage under Pressure
« Reply #38 on: September 27, 2012, 06:30:14 AM »
Cultural Differences are always a problem :sad:

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Re: Forced Marriage or Marriage under Pressure
« Reply #39 on: September 27, 2012, 06:35:17 AM »
i louve u allwaysssss my love  :love: :love:

but i cant stopmyself  :sad: :sad: :sad:
So are you a married man now

 

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