these were more like sithaniyaa.. a traditin in old times.. now days they took the roop of boliyaa... u r right when u used the word tease.....

its health laff...i am sure all those girls or may be most of them luv this mOther-in-laws...

its just like how they boli abt their hubbies tenu mogey di mandi che awan vech mundaya ..munda his not jhotha ..jinnu vech ouna...lol..so its just a way of teasing not expressing...


but i see how u feel... some of the times we go overboard with fun which doesnt seem fun to others.. its how u precieve it...

so i would suggest to take it light weighted... and enjoy and not the put stress on words...

thanks my 2 cents

How can something negative be possibly perceived in a positive manner?
 
Regardless, some of them are extremely harsh, I find it disgusting.

see sometimes when we call our friends tu barrra kanajr aa sachi....its a one hella of a bad word... but it is not precived in the same manner litteraly ....

i find it wrong too ..but on the same hand everyone has different comfort level with one another and they can joke upto levels which others find it disgusting..

i am sorry if i still didnt put my point across...but thts how i feel.. i hope u got my point.

yes, but what I'm talking about is that these people aren't your friends. They are your family members and should be treated with respect!

i agree strongly....and i rest my case... u r right.

 asal vich bolia da pichokad is gall n saaf kar sakda. eh use tra e jida jnania ik duji de ghar ja k chuglia kardia bas us nu sangeetak roop de dita gya e
purame same ch jad viah shadia vele kudia chidia kathia hundia ta ik doosri nu ise tra makhaul kardia k tera gharwala ida teri sass ida te sass sade sabhyachar vich ik vakhri kisam da kirdar eJO NOOH NU GHAT E PASAND HUNDA bs jad sakhia shelia jurdiae ne fer ese tra hassa makhul kar k apne dil da gubaar kadh laindia ne.
lok bolia vich sirf sass nooh da e zikar ni aunda shda jeth jo k vilen vjo mashoor aa, shota dyor jehnu bharjai pyar kardi e , kabbi sass jehnu oh sahmne ta kuj ni keh sakdi ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,bas eho sare jazbaat oh bolia de roop vich keh laindi e .
bolia vich sirf sohre parivar nu hi shanmil nai kita janda hor v kirdar ne umar de pdaa ne ik kuwari de jazbaat ne kuj shrarata ne . aj kal te trend badal gya e sab ral mil k baithde ne par purane samya vich mard aurta valh nai c jande hunde is lai us time te hor boht kuj hunda c viaha vele . mard luk lk vekhde c te je koi mard fadya janda ta melna vahli buri kardia c ohde naal sme de naal oh sab khatam ho gya te ajj sadi gen kol sirf thodia jihia bolia e bachia ne ise lai sanu is tra lagda.