A very warm Sat Sri Akaal to all.

This is Ryder here writing to you all.
I hope all is well at your ends.

As you all know about the unpleasant episode that took place here on PJ a few weeks back because of me and Pawan.
Nobody actually deserves to witness such an obscenity in public, and I admit what ever unleashed out in public was wrong.It should have remained in the private messages only.

I would first of all like to make it clear that I am neither writing this to achieve sympathy nor attention.I am writing this for your awareness.

What ever came out in the public, was not because of me.I was not the one who first started swearing on PJFB, it was Pawan who took it out all on PJFB.Before that we would just taunt each other on profiles but the real quarrel was in PMs, and I tried my very best to keep the content in the PMs only.

When Pawan started swearing on PJFB, I tried to control myself and not be verbally abusive with mothers and sisters in public.Because I was controlling, Pawan took further advantage and did not stop.Looking at his attempt, I lost my control too and threw back what ever he was throwing at me.You can check out my profile for the evidence to this(http://punjabijanta.com/profile/Ryder/).


Harmeet, Supreet and Gurleen(Mitho Heer) joined him(Pawan) and these four were against me.My swears were bound to be outnumbered by the four of these.
If seen in a legible way on an equal scale, swears came from Harmeet, Supreet and Gurleen as well, then why were not their accounts locked ? Why only me and Pawan ? However they participated too, then why have they not been considered the same as me and Pawan ? I think it has been a biased decision by the Moderators and did not do their jobs to the fullest.


During the quarrel my ID “Ryder” got locked in a few minutes.I then signed in from another similar ID “Red Hoody Ryder” which too got locked after a few minutes and after this I had to ‘make’ a new ID “Ryder(2)”.All of these got locked, and surprisingly none of the four users above had their IDs locked.Infact some of them were exchanging “heroic” banters amongst themselves and declaring victory !!
But they did not know that I was unfortunate to have my IDs locked while they were lucky to not have gone though this.Remember one thing that I never back down !!


I saw some people blaming me for the issue.
Just because I have had issues with users before does not mean that always I will be wrong and the others will always be right !!

I do not care what people say about me because they do not know the real issue !!

No matter what Pawan and Harmeet say about me by using qoutes like "Ryder kurri nu galt msgs bhejda c", "PMs wich te har passe ohnu gaala kad-da c" in the topics,does not necessarily mean they are true.Ofcourse they are a group of friends and they will try to present facts their own way to make it look right and make me look wrong !

But for the people, they need to see and cross check both the sides.

I don't mind talking and telling about the issue that really happened !!
If the Admins provide me with the permission, I will not hestitate even a little bit to talk about it with evidence(PMs between me and Gurleen and also Pawan).
Then I would leave it all upto the Sub-admins, Moderators and the Janta to judge !!


I regret swearing over at Supreet.
I have deep respect for him, but when he joined Pawan and Harmeet, during the heat of the moment I could not control myself.

Supreet, I am sorry to swear at you, but I did not mean it. I know they are your friends, but the least I could expect from you was that you could have asked me what the issue was rather than jumping in.
I hope you would understand.


Pawan, main sirf es layi chop reha, kyunke main Gia nu promise kita c os din.
Tu mainu marha keh ke loka wich aap jina marji hero banla, mainu koi farak nahi paina.
Eh na bhul jad saddi larhai bot pehla hoyi c, te main hi tainu manake gal laya c shote prah vangu.Par taish wich aake tu sab kuj bhul janda.

Harmeet, tere layi sirf inna kehna chavanga ke doojeya de modde te bandook chalauni bot saukhi aa te hora de dum te tappna koi daleri nahi.


Do you want me to apologise to Pawan's and Harmeet's mother and sisters ?
I don't mind at all.

What you're saying is correct.Nobody's mother or sister desreves to be to insulted or abused behind their backs.
Maava Bhena sab diya saanjiya hundiya ne, te kise hor di Maa ya Bhen nu gaal kadni apni hi Maa Bhen nu gaal kadan de barabbar aa.
I agree with Grenade Singh.

I sincerely apologise to Pawan's and Harmeet's mother and sisters.

But this not mean I am backing down or bowing down !! Not at all, so please do not be mistaken.

And also do not be mistaken that I have kindly aplogised so as to get my ID unlocked.I have apologised because I genuinely felt like, and I agree with Admin 100%.

You can keep my ID locked, I do not care.I will be happier using this ID.

Thank you all.
Best regards,
Ryder.